Ukuba inja yasekhaya iyabonakala phambi kwabantwana abancinci kwaye izama ukubaluma, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubangele abazali. Bafuna ukwazi ukusuka kwiingcali ezinolwazi nokuba kuyingozi ukubonisa ubundlobongela inja kumntwana nokuba yintoni enokuyenza kwimeko enjalo. Amava abonisa ukuba le ngxaki iya kuhlulwa ibe ngamacandelo amabini.
Okokuqala, kunokuzikhusela ngokuqhelekileyo kwinxalenye yenja. Mhlawumbi inja ikhula kwaye ihlaba ngenxa yokuba umntwana usondele kakhulu kwaye, umzekelo, uyibetha emva. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa umntwana esondela kwinja, uyaqaphela, uzama ukuphepha ukunxibelelana. Ngokuqhelekileyo inja iyethusa kwaye ifuna ukubaleka, kwaye inja iqalisa ukuluma ukuba ayikwazi ukwenza. Ngaloo ndlela, ulwaphulo lwenja lubangelwa ukwesaba. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba ukwesaba inja akucaci. Unako ukunyamezela ubukho bonyana, aze amvumele ukuba afike kuye, kodwa ukuba umntwana ubangele ubuhlungu okanye aphuculwe, ngokukhawuleza uqala ukukhawuleza aze azame ukuluma. Lo mzekelo wendlela yokuziphatha ngumzekelo wobundlobongela obangelwa ngu-stimuli.
Kukho inqanaba lesibini leengxaki zobonakaliso beenja. Kule meko, ukuziphatha kwenja kukubonakaliswa kokhuphiswano, inja ibonisa ulwalamano oluphambili. Kule meko, inja ingakwazi ukuqala ukukrakra nayiphi na inzame yomntwana ukuba ifike kuye xa, umzekelo, inokuphumla. Kwenzeka ukuba inja ikhule kwezinye iimeko, xa ebona umchasi wakhe kumntwana. Oku kwenzeka, umzekelo, xa udlala phantsi nabazali. Kule meko, inja ayibonakali nentsingiselo yokwesaba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, akukho mpendulo kwisimo esingathandeki ngokwenyama esenza umva wenzondo kumntwana. Ininzi yazo zonke ifana nokuziphatha kwesilwanyana esithatha inyathelo eliphezulu kwizinga eliphezulu. Ngaloo ndlela, inja ibonisa ukuba umntwana uphula umthetho ongabhalwanga wobomi bentlalo yepakethi.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba izinja zikwazi ukuziphatha kakubi kumntwana:
- Ukuziphatha okungalunganga komntwana ngokwakhe
- Amava amancinci oonxibelelwano nabantu ngaphambili, kuquka nabantwana
- Ukubonakaliswa kweenja ekuziphatheni kakubi, kufakwe izidalwa
- Isikhuthazo esingenakunqwenelekayo sobudlova ngamanye amalungu entsapho
- Amava amaninzi kunye namava angahambelananga nomntwana
- Ubunzima bentja okanye uqeqesho olunganeleyo
Kwezinye iimeko, ukuziphatha kweenja ezinokugwenxa kunokulungiswa ngokupheleleyo. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukulandela imigaqo elandelayo:
Umnini wenja kufanele aqonde ngokucacileyo kwaye acacise imeko ekhoyo phakathi kwezilwanyana nomntwana. Kubalulekile ukuchazela umntwana okhwazayo yindlela yokusongela ukusuka kwintsi, kwaye ngoko ke kufuneka kuthathwe ngokungathí sina.
Kubalulekile ukukhuphela iimeko zengxaki. Ukuba umntwana kunye nenja ayishiywanga ingalindelekanga, inja kufuneka ikhutshwe okanye ikhuphe ukufikelela komntwana kwinja.
Ungasebenzisi iindlela zokulungisa, oko kukuthi, awukwazi ukujezisa inja yokuziphatha kakubi. Xa kungabikho umntwana, kucetyiswa ukuba uhlawule ngakumbi inja.
Kufuneka ukuba utshintshe imithetho eyisiseko yoqhagamshelwano phakathi kwentsapho. Ukutya kunye nemfundo (okanye uqeqesho) kufuneka kwenziwe kwishedyuli, kunye nemidlalo, ukutya okuthakazelisayo, ingqalelo kufuneka ifakwe kuphela ebusweni bomntwana.
Ungakhuthazi ukukhuthazwa kobugwenxa bokungafuneki. Ukuba inja ikhula, ngoko umnini makangayifuni nxamnye nxamnye naye, umphazamise kwaye ngandlela-thile uyathule.
Sebenzisa iindlela zokulungiswa kokuziphatha. Ngokomzekelo, ungasebenzisa indlela yokuphuhlisa i-reflex eyahlukileyo ukuze unqande ukwesaba komntwana.
Fundisa inja ukuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Ungakhuthaza inja ukuziphatha ngokuthanda uxolo, kwaye xa kufikelele kwintlondi, inene kakhulu ukuba ijezise.
Ukuphuhlisa ngokusebenzisa iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuthobela. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuqinisa ukulawula phezu kwenja kwiimeko ezinobungozi.
Sebenzisa abaxhasi bemishini. Ngokomzekelo, sebenzisa i-muzzle kwiimeko ezingxaki.