Ukhuthaze rhoqo
Uyakwazi ukwakha i-pyramid! "Uyiyona ntombazana enhle kunazo zonke!" - Ukuthetha okuqinisekisayo kunye nokukhuthaza umntwana kumane kubalulekile, ngakumbi xa bevalelwa emlonyeni womzali. Uya kukhula akhuthele, azithembele.Imandla enempembelelo yelizwi lakho kumntwana likhulu kangangokuba liyakwazi ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba, nokusebenzisa izicwangciso ezingekhoyo. "Ubuhle bunjani!" - uthi uthando Akumangalisi ukuba emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini intombazana eneefometers ezingafanelanga imodeli engenazo izixube, ayizigqoki kunye nezidlo, kodwa, ukuzithemba ukungahambi kakuhle kwayo, ineempumelelo ezithandekayo kwisini esahlukileyo. Oku kuthetha ukufakwa okufanelekileyo, kunikwa ebuntwaneni!
Xa kuyimfuneko, uncedo
Ngaba uziva ukuba umntwana akazixabisi ngokwaneleyo? Mnike umsebenzi apho angazibonakalisa khona ngokubanzi kwaye, ngoko ke, akhule ngokwayo. Kumntu ungumdlalo wezemidlalo, omnye - ukucula, ukudansa, ukudweba. Ezi mpu melelo ziza kuphawulwa: ziya kuyancomeka kwaye zidunyiswe. Impendulo emihle evela kwiqela ibuye "ibhalwe" kwi-subcortex nakwimisebenzi yamanqanaba eyaziwayo okanye engacatshangwanga.
Kudla ngokudumisa
Isizathu salo sinokufumaneka! Vumela umsebenzi ukhangelwe ngokungalunganga, vuyisa indlela umntwana atyikityhile ngayo iphepha lakhe. Ukuphawula iimpazamo, khawuleza ugxininise impumelelo yomntwana. Ukuqwalasela zonke iimpumelelo zomntwana. Ixesha le "self grandiose" liya kwiminyaka engama-6-7 kwaye inokuthi ithathe indawo yendawo yokungabaza nokwesaba. Umntwana uzama, akhulume ulwimi oludala, ukuba abe nekhono kwaye aphumelele kwinqanaba lakhe. Kodwa oku akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngexesha elithile umntwana ufuna ukuxhaswa, ngaphandle koko ubeka ingozi ekukhuleni "njengomntu olahlekileyo".
Ungenakukwazi njani ukucaphukiswa ngumntwana wakho
Ewe, abantwana banako (kunye nokuba njani!) Fumana kwiimbilini zakho. Kodwa ukucaphukisa kunye nokunganeliseki kwakha icebo lokulahlekelwa ngumntwana kunye nokunciphisa inqanaba lentlonipho yakhe. Khusela kaninzi: uthathe umoya ophezulu, ubambe umoya kwaye ubalekele kwi-10-indlela ye-banal, kodwa esebenzayo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ekudumiseni kufuneka ukwazi umlinganiselo. Kwomntwana okhuliswe kwimoya ye-hyperopeak kunye nokuphakanyiswa okuqhubekayo kokufaneleka kwakhe, ukulungelelwa kweengxaki kuthintekisiwe, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukuzithemba okuzenzekelayo kunye neengxelo ezigqithiseleyo kuluntu zenziwe. Umgaqo wobomi "Ndiyona nto ibhetele (eyona nto ibhetele), ndimele ukuba konke!" ayikhokeli kwimpumelelo.
Ukugxeka
Inkathazo yabantwana yenye yezinto eziphambili ezichaphazela ukuphuhliswa kobuntu bomntwana. Ngaphantsi kobugqwetha bakho obungenakudingekile, banokuthi bangabi nendawo yokuzimela. Umntwana uhlala ehlaselwa ngukugxekwa, okanye ngonaphakade uya kulahlekelwa ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba, okanye uya kubonisa ukuba uyabaluleka kuwe bonke ubomi bakhe. Inketho yokuqala ibangelwa ukungabikho kwamanyathelo kunye nokungabikho kokuzinikela kwixesha elizayo. Inketho yesibini imbi ngenxa yokuba ukuthanda kunye nokuzimisela ukufezekisa iinjongo akuxhaswa ngumxholo wokwaneliseka. Yaye nantoni na impumelelo, kubonakala ukuba oku akwaneleyo, kufuneka ukuba umphumo ube nzima. "Ukuphumelela kwengqungquthela yengoma yinto engenasiphelo, impumelelo yomhlaba wonke iyabaluleka!", "Akwanele ukuphonsa ama-kilogramgram ezi-5, kufuneka idijithali ezili-5 zibukeke ziqhelekileyo," "Ndingumlawuli weenkampani, kwaye yintoni na isetyenziswa? fumana ... "Oku kuthiwa yi-hypercompensation kwaye ikhokelela ekuphelelweni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukulinganisela ukuzithembela komntu ebuntwaneni ukuze umnqweno wokuphumelela awunakuchothoza kunye ne "shot" yamagama akho angakhathali kwaye uyayiphenduka kwaye ayiyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo.
Ungaze uvumeleke ukuba ungahloneli
Yiba ngumntwana wakho umzekelo wokuzithemba. Emva koko, imizekelo yabazali isasazeka kakhulu. Ukuba uvumelekile ukuxabana nomntwana, bonisa ukungahloneli umlingane, umkhwekazi, izalamane kunye nabantu abanethuba (nangona kunjalo - ukuba konke oku bakubonisayo malunga nawe), kuya kuba nzima ukuba umntwana wakho afunde izifundo zokuzixabisa, nokuba uthini kuye. Ngako oko, zikhuphe wena kunye nosapho lwakho ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho kubantwana, cela uxolo lokuba ungabi nantoni, ungavumi ukuba uluvo lwakho lube lugxothwa. Emva koko kuya kuba lula kumntwana ukuba enze ngokufanelana nawe kwaye uqaphele into ebalulekileyo yento enjengokuzithemba.