Ndifanele ndithi nini?
Le ngenye yemibuzo ephambili echaphazela wonke umfundi oza kuba ngumama. Ungayenza njani imfihlo xa uthetha ngokukhulelwa kwakhe kubasebenzi bokufundisa? Wonke umfazi kufuneka adinge oku. Omnye ulungele ukumemeza ngelizwe lonke ngeli xesha xa befumana umphumo ovavanyo oluhle. Omnye umntu - ngenxa yeenkolelo okanye ukwesaba - uya kukhetha ukufihla umyalezo wakhe ovuyoleyo. Kodwa kuya kuba luncedo xa ukwazisa abaphathi (i-rector, utitshala othandekayo) malunga neenguqu ezichazwe ebomini bakho kwangaphambili. Ngoko uza kuba nako ukucebisa ukuba nini na ixesha elingakanani ukuthatha iholide yokufunda, xa ubuya esikolweni. Kwaye ungacingi ngethuba elifanayo ukuba ufuna ngandlela-thile ukuzithokozisa okanye nantoni na ekuzifundeni. Vumela isimo sengqondo ngawe ootitshala sihlale sisinye. Kodwa ootitshala baya kuba novelwano kwinto yokuba ngoku kukho zonke iintlobo zenkxalabo enxulumene neemeko zempilo - ukulala, ukungabikho kwengqondo, ukunyamezela, ukunciphisa ukunyamezela, ukwandisa ukwesaba.
Hlala luhle
Ewe, umfundi kufuneka abukele kakuhle - kwipyunivesiti ukubonakala kwakho kubalulekile. Ufuna ukuqhubeka ukhangeleka kwaye unhle. Kwaye unamathuba onke. Ukukhulelwa kuya kubafazi abaninzi, kubonakala ngathi baqala ukuqhakaza, baba yindalo enomtsalane nothando. Kwaye kunzima ukungaziboni! Ngako oko, ukukhulelwa akusisizathu sokulibala malunga neenkonzo zokuzenza kunye neenwele. Musa ukwesaba, iziqhumiso eziphezulu zezinga eliphezulu aziyi kulimaza umntwana wakho, kodwa ngeentambo zetayi kwaye ngokukodwa i-chemistry kufuneka uqaphele ngakumbi.
Impahla kufuneka ihambelane nesimo sesikolo. Makube ngumsebenzi wesicatshulwa kuphela, kodwa ukhululekile. Ungazami ukungena kwiidonsi eziqinileyo okanye ucinezele isisu sakho emgodleni, ukhuphuke kwisambatho esiqinileyo. Kufuneka ukhululeke! Kuyafana nakwezocathulo - kufuneka zikhululeke. Kodwa izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakamileyo kufuneka zibeke eceleni, ingakumbi inobungozi kwisiqingatha sesibini sokukhulelwa.
Funda kwaye ufunde kwakhona!
Izifundo zihlala zihambelana noxinzelelo, ukukhathala, uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa. Ihlala isebenza. Kwaye, akuyona into elula. Sinokuqiniseka njani ukuba akayi kubalimaza umama ozayo? Okokuqala, ungakulibali ukuba umhla osebenzayo kufuneka ungapheli iiyure ezintandathu. Okwesibini, kusengaphambili kubalulekile ukuzilungelelanisa ukuba, nokuba kwakubaluleke kangakanani ukufundisisa eyunivesiti, ukuzalwa komntwana kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuba ukufunda, ukuba kuyimfuneko, kunokuhlehliswa, kwaye ukukhulelwa okwenzekile kakade akunakuhlehliswa. Okwesithathu, imeko engalindelekanga ayifuni ukuba ibonakale njengokuwa kwezicwangciso zayo kunye nethemba. Khawucinge nje malunga nawaphi amaninzi angatshatangayo aphupha ukuzala umntwana. Bangakanani abachithayo kule mali kunye nexesha, balindele ithuba lokukhulelwa! Nangona kunjalo, uhlala unelungelo lokushiya izifundo zakho, uthathe isifundo semfundo okanye udibanise nekholeji. Nangona kunjalo, abanye oomama bakwazi ukugqiba izifundo zabo, ukukhulelwa okanye nokuba nomntwana omncinci ezandleni zabo. Yonke into inokwenzeka! Into ephambili, khumbula: ufumene isipho sengozi! Ngoku uselula, uzele amandla kunye namandla, oku kuthetha ukuba unako ukujamelana nazo zonke iingxaki kwaye kwiminyaka embalwa uza kubuya ebomini bakho obudala-ukufunda, ukusebenza, indlela yokusebenza yobomi kunye noqhagamshelwano nabahlobo bakho.
Iingozi Zemihla ngemihla
Ziziphi iingozi ezingase zilinde umama wesikhathi esizayo eyunivesiti? Uya kufuneka uphephe yonke indawo egcwele umsi, kwaye ubuze abafundi abafowenu ukuba bangabumi ngasemva kwakho. Ngokuphathelele ikhomputha, ngaphandle kwayo, umfundi, okwenene, akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle. Kodwa ubuncinane uzame, uhleli kwi-esweni, sonke isiqingatha seyure ukulungiselela ikhefu. Musa uvila ukuba uvuke, hamba, ventilate igumbi. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
Olunye usongo kumfazi okhulelwe ngumtya othile "wokufunda". Kwitheyibhile yemihla ngemihla ngoku kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ukhona: iimveliso zobisi ezinomsola, inyama, imifuno kunye neziqhamo. Ulibale ngokutya okukhawulezayo! Ukuba isikolo sakho sine-buffet (ngoku aqhelekanga) - zama ukutya apho ngokwemvelo ngokunokwenzeka kwaye ngokuchanekileyo. Khumbula, umntwana wakho udinga isidlo esipheleleyo: izitya ezitshisa (yokuqala kunye nesibini), uhlale usaladi. Ukongezelela, gcina ubeka isikhwama sakho sesitshixo ngeeshizi okanye inyama enomzimba, iiplesa ezimbalwa, iisuthi kunye nengxowa yejusi. Ziya kuba zikhwelo zakho, zikunceda ukujamelana nokuhlaselwa kwe-toxicosis. Kwakhona, zama ukutshintsha i-posture yakho rhoqo, ukuphepha intlungu kwi-back back and back. Phakathi kweengxoxo, hambani ngokunyanisekileyo, phinda izihlunu uze uphume ukuphefumula umoya ngaphandle.
Kancinci malunga nomnandi
Ukukhulelwa kunye nokufunda akukhona nje uxinzelelo ngexesha leeseshoni, ii-synopses kunye nezifundo. Ukufunda eyunivesiti kubandakanya ukuhlangana nabahlobo, ukuya kwi-cinema, ukutyelela iithala, iminyuziyamu kunye nemivalo, uhambo oluhlukahlukeneyo. Ngaba umama ozayo xa ephika oko? Akunjalo. Ewe, kuya kuba nemimiselo: awukwazi ukutshaya, uthathe utywala, uchithe ixesha elininzi kwiinyawo zakho uze ulale ngaphantsi kweeyure ezisibhozo. Kwezinye iimeko, ukukhulelwa kwiyunivesithi kuqhubeka ngendlela efanayo nangaphandle kwayo, ukuzalisa ubomi kunye nemihlali efanayo.