Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuba kuyingozi nangona umntwana eqala ukuthetha ngaphambili kunokuhamba. Ingqondo ikhula ngokuthe ngcembe. Okokuqala, umntwana uhlakulela amaziko emigulane, ejongene nokuphefumula, ukunikezelwa kwegazi, ukugaya, ukunyakaza. Kwaye kuphela amaziko e-nervous akhiwa, enoxanduva lokuthetha, ukucinga, imemori. Umntwana ofunde ukuthetha kwangaphambili kunokuhamba uqulethe uphuhliso loluntu.
Qala ukubandakanya nomntwana ukususela ngosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa kwakhe.
1. Ukufunda ukukhwela. Umntwana usele ezama ukuphakamisa intloko yakhe ngenyanga. Emva kancinci, sele ephendulela ngenye indlela. Amathoyizi anombala amnandi, amathoyizi atshabalalayo, ama-rattles aya kunceda ukulungisa umntwana. Nantsi umntwana kwaye akagcini nje ukubeka intloko yakhe, kodwa uyayicinga. Ngoko umntwana uyazi iindawo ezikuyo. Umsebenzi wakho kukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ahambe, aphenduke, aze aqhube. Kwiinyanga ezine, lo mntwana uvele, njengomthetho, uyaphumelela. Isigaba esilandelayo sokuphuhliswa siya kufundisa umntwana ukuba abuyele emuva abuyele esiswini nasemva. Kwaye apha ekuqeqesheni uza kuncedwa ngamathoyizi aqaqambileyo, apho umntwana uya kuwatyula khona iingalo zakhe aze azame ukuzikhwela.
2. Ukufunda ukuhamba. Amanyathelo okuqala athatyathwa ngabantwana kwiinyanga ezilishumi, kunye nabanye emva koko. Musa ukukhawuleza. Xa umntwana eqina, uya kuvuka ezinyaweni aze ahambe. Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe kangcono ekusebenziseni umhambi. Ngoko umntwana kulula ukufunda ukugcina ibhalansi.
3. Ukufunda ukuthetha. Ngokuqhelekileyo ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wobomi umntwana uthetha okungenani igama elilodwa, kuze kube seminyaka emibili - sele sele akwazi ukwenza amanani amaninzi namagama alula. Emva kweminyaka emithathu, umntwana uthetha izivakalisi ezilula. Kodwa bonke abantwana abahlali ngendlela efanayo. Sekude kudlulelwe ukuba abaninzi "bathule" ngokukhawuleza xa beqala ukuya kwi-kindergarten, baqale ukuthetha kunye neontanga zabo. Ngelo xesha, bafumana ngokulula. Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba athethe ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka uxoxe naye kakhulu. Unxibelelwano kufuneka lube ngokoqobo ukusuka kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bakhe. Ungalibali ukudumisa umntwana. Ukucula iingoma zabantwana, tshela imilolozo, jonga kwimifanekiso.
4. Ukufunda ukusela nokutya. Xa umntwana ejika ezinyangeni ezithandathu ubudala, qalisa ukumfundisa ukuba adle aze aphuze ngokwakhe. Okokuqala, fundisa ukuba udle kwi-spoon, umzekelo, isobho. Usana luya kufakwa ngokukhawuleza kule ndlela yesondlo, funda indlela yokuvula umlomo wakho ngexesha. Sebenzisa ukuqala iikomityi zeemfuno ezikhethekileyo zabantwana nge-spout. Lo msebenzi omhle wemilomo nolwimi. Kulungile ukuba umntwana usele ngezandla zakhe. Ngokukhawuleza, ufuna ukusebenzisa i-spoon.
5. Fundisa abantwana ukuba benze ukufumana! Ihlabathi lomntwana lizele ukufumanisa. Yonke imihla iyakwazi ukuzisa izinto ezintsha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqinisekisa ukuba kwiminyaka embalwa umntwana wakho akalahlekelwa luvuyo lokwazi ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kubazali. Abazali bafanele benze umsebenzi wokudala iimeko apho umntwana uya kufumana khona ukuqala. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwiziphumo ezintsha.
Ukwahlukahluka kolwazi akubalulekanga. Naliphi na inkalo yolwazi ikuvumela ukuba wenze izinto ezithandekayo. Ngaba unqume ukuphuhlisa umntwana ngokumfundisa ukuba afunde? Kuhle! Kwaye ulwazi lweemathematika luya kwenza isithuba esityebi sokufumanisa. Imidlalo elula yemathematika kwi-lotto okanye kwi-dominoes inokufundisa umntwana we-school age age the "less", "more", "sum", "umehluko". Kulo mntwana kuya kuba kukufumanisa okukhulu ukuba ibhola iyajikeleza kwaye ngoko iyakwazi ukuhamba ngokulula, kodwa i-cube ayiqhubeki ngenxa yokuba ineenkalo. Ukufunda i-biology, inkunzi ifunda i-flora neentlanzi ezihlala emhlabeni wethu. Inzululwazi yesendalo kunye ne-geography iya kuvumela umntwana ukuba abe nomnqweno wokuhamba nokufunda umhlaba wethu. Ingqondo yomntwana njengesiponti ithatha lonke ulwazi, kwaye ukugqithisa kwayo kwanda, ukunyuka kwenyuka, inzala ekufundeni yenziwa.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uzame kwinkqubo yokufunda ukufundisa umntwana ekufumaneni okuzimeleyo ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezifumaneka kuzo. Sebenzisa amacebiso ethu:
1. Zama ukubangela umdla wabantwana kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. Khuthaza ukwazi.
2. Phendula yonke imibuzo efunwa ngumntwana ngokuzonwabisa. Musa ukuyenza ibonakale idiniwe.
3. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba acinge ngempendulo yombuzo. Nika umntwana iingcebiso ezingabonakaliyo. Umntwana kufuneka abe nomuvo wokuba wayezicingile yena ngokwakhe.
4. Ungalibali ukuxoxa nomntwana wokufumanisa kwakhe. Oku kuya kunceda nje ukugqithiswa ngcono kolwazi olutsha. Musa ukuzibonga.
Ukuqwalasela isiluleko sethu esilula, uya kunika umntwana wakho ubuninzi obuncedo kunye nolwazi olutsha. Umntwana unesidingo somsebenzi ozimeleyo, unomdla ekufuneni nasekuhloliseni. Umntwana uya ngaphaya kweendlela eziqhelekileyo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba enze ukufunyanwa - ihlabathi ngaye iya kuzaliswa uvuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa!
Isiphetho.
Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana kuza kuphumelela ekusebenzisaneni kwenkqubo yokuqonda kunye nokuthula kwengqondo. Umsebenzi wakho kukunika ithuba lokuzimela ekuzileni kwehlabathi elijikelezile. Umele umkhokele umntwana kuphela. Ngaloo ndlela kuphela umntwana uya kufinyelela kwinqanaba layo.