Ukuphululwa kokulala komntwana

Xa bebudala, iirejista zokulala zabantwana zitshintsha, baqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba emini kufuneka umntu ahlale ephapheme, kwaye ebusuku - ukulala. Abantwana abaninzi bafunda lo mgaqo ngokwabo, abanye bafuna uncedo lwabazali babo. Indlela yokukhathaza iingxaki zokulala komntwana, funda kwinqaku ethi "Ukuphula i-regimen yokulala komntwana."

Ubuthongo buyimimoya yomzimba apho umzimba kunye nengqondo ziqhubeka zisebenza, kodwa kungekhona kwisimo sokuvuka-isisu, isisindo segazi, izinga lokuphefumula, ukushisa komzimba, njl. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, ulawulo lwakhe lokulala nokuvuka luya kutshintsha; ebusheni, usekude nombuso womntu omdala. Kuyinto yesiko ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwezigaba ezimbini zokulala: ukulala ngokunyakaza kwamehlo okukhawuleza (BDG), okanye ukulala ngokukhawuleza, kunye nexesha lonke lokulala. Isigaba ngasinye sinempawu zayo. Isigaba sesibini sisoloko sahlukaniswa kwizigaba ezi-4, kuxhomekeke kwisilinganiselo sokucwiliswa ebuthongweni. Isiqalo sokuqala si-zero okanye sivukile. Isigaba sokuqala: umntu uziva elelekile aze aqale ukukhupha. Kwiinyanga ezi-3 zokuqala ubomi bomntwana buhlukaniswe kwiimitha ezi-ezintathu zeeyure, kuba kufuneka adla ngokutya, alale aze asuse inkunkuma emzimbeni. Ngeli thuba, umntwana ulala ephakathi kweeyure eziyi-16 ngosuku. Isigaba sesibini: lo bubuthongo obunzulu obuninzi. Isigaba sesithathu: iphupha lisenzulu, kunzima ukuvusa umntu kweli nqanaba lokulala. Isigaba sesine: iphupha eliphambili. Ukuvusa umntu kweli lizwe, kuya kuthatha imizuzu emininzi.

Ukulala ngokukhawuleza

Kwinqanaba elinye leliphupha libonakalisa ukunyuka kwamehlo okukhawuleza ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka phakathi kwamanqanaba okuqala neyesibini exesha lonke lokulala. Ngethuba lesigaba sokulala okuqhelekileyo, ingqondo ayinako umsebenzi wokugcina ulwazi kwimemori, ngoko asiyikhumbuli amaphupha esiwabona kweli nqanaba. Ephupheni, asikwazi ukulawula izihlunu zeengalo, imilenze, ubuso kunye nesiqu, kodwa isifo sokuphefumula, isisu, isifo senhliziyo kunye nesisifo somzimba jikelele siyaqhubeka. Inkumbulo iyaqhubeka isebenza, ngoko sikhumbula amaphupha ethu.

Ukutshintsha indlela yokulala ebusaneni:

Iingxaki zokulala kwabantwana

Izifundo zibonise ukuba i-35% yabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka yobudala be-5 banenkxwaleko yokulala, apho i-2% kuphela ebangelwa iingxaki zengqondo ezifuna unyango. I-98% eseleyo yimiba emibi ehambelana nokulala. Inkqubo yokufunda ukulala iqala ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa komntwana, nangona ukuba iya kuqalisa ukulawula ubuthongo kuphela ngenyanga yesithathu yobomi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusabela ngokukhawuleza ebusuku ukukhala, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alale kwisibhedlele, kungekhona ezandleni zakho, kunye nezibane. Ukulala ezandleni zakhe, umntwana ukulindele ukuba abekhona xa evuka, kwaye xa ezibona esesikhwameni, ulahlekile kwaye apheke. Ukutya akufanele kudibene nomntwana obuthongo. Ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ngexesha lokutya ukuphazamisa umntwana ebuthongweni ngokukhanya, umculo, nezinye izinto ezivuthayo. Ku luncedo ukufaka kwisibhedlele izinto apho umntwana uya kujwayele ukudibanisa amathoyizi aphuphayo, iingubo, njl. Njengawe nawuphi na isifundo, kubalulekile ukuseka urhulumente: emva kokuhlamba kulandela isidlo, kulandelwa iphupha.

Kunconywa ukubeka umntwana embhedeni yonke into ngokuhlwa-ngexesha lama-20 ukuya kwe-21, ukwenzela ukuba alungiselele umbhede. Kuwuncedo ukuzisa isithethe esiqabulayo sokulala-umzekelo, ukufunda iifriythi okanye ukuthandaza. Kubalulekile ukucacisa ngisho nomntwana omncinci ukuba abazali bamfundise ukulala ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko akafanele acele ukuba balale okanye balibale ukulala kwabo. Umntwana kufuneka alele, ekungabikho kwabazali kwigumbi lokulala. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala, ungaya okanye umjonge (ulinde imizuzu emihlanu) ukuzola, uthetha encinci, kodwa ungalandeli ukuba udibane okanye ulale. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba akayekanga. Ngoku siyazi indlela yokuphelisa ukuphulwa komntwana ebuthongweni.