Ukuthandana kwi-intanethi ubuhlobo obusondeleyo

Kwilizwe lethu lamanje le-career kunye nokuzikhangela, kaninzi asikho ixesha elaneleyo lokuseka ubomi bomntu. Kwaye i-Intanethi iya kuhlangula. Ukuthandana kwi-intanethi ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Izibalo zithi abantu abangaphezulu kwezigidi ezi-4 bayazi iiwebhusayithi ze-Runet. Ukufumana i-intanethi kwi-intanethi kulula njengoko iminyaka engama-50 edlulileyo ungayifumana umhlobo okanye intombi kwiimidlalo zokudansa.

Ngexesha apho izingosi zokuthandana zaziqala ukubonakala kwi-Intanethi, abaninzi abantu abanomdla, abanqwenela ukujwayelana nabo, babeqaphele ngokuqhelana nabo. Ixesha elininzi lidlulile ukususela apho, kwaye iindawo ziyaqhubeka zikhula ngakumbi. Kuze kube namhlanje, asibonakali ithemba lokugqibela lokuzifumana kungekhona nje umlingane ubuhlobo obusondeleyo, kodwa mhlawumbi umyeni okanye umfazi. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ezi ziza ziye zonakalisa ingcamango yokuthandana kwaye zaguqula ubuhlobo bokwenene. Kwaye ezininzi, ezi ndawo ziyimathuba emnandi yokufumana umntu. Isizukulwana esitsha sabantu abafuna iinqunithi zabo ngabasebenzisi abasebenzisa isayithi lokuthandana.

Ekugqibeleni ufumene indoda yamaphupha akho kwisayithi. Ivelwano elungileyo - ukuza kuthandana notshintsho oluthile lulula ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko, ukunxibelelana nomlingane kusekhona kwiiglasi ezibomvu. Ngaphambi kokuba intlanganiso kunye nomntu ongaqhelekanga ungayifumana ngemikhwa yakhe kunye nomlingiswa. Kodwa xa udibana, ngokuqhelekileyo unolwazi olutsha, unganakho konke owammelayo. Unokuba ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi ubudala, kwaye ungaphantsi kweyentimitha ngeshumi, kwaye ulinganisa iikhilogram kunye namashumi amathathu ngaphezu kokuboniswa kwimibuzo. Yile ndlela indlela yethu yokusebenza isebenza ngayo, ukuba asikwaziswa ngokuthe ngqo kwiiparitha zokubonakala, ngoko sicinga kwaye sizigqibe. Ukuba ukukhula akungaziwa, ngoko kuthi kuthi kuya kuba phezulu. Musa ukuchaza ingaphandle - kuthi kuthi uyamhle. Emva koko, ndifuna kakhulu ukuba ngantle ngongoma. Kwaye kunzima kangakanani ukudubula izibuko zepinki kwaye sijonge kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ezikhethiweyo.

Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze sigweme ukukhungatheka xa sidibana? Okokuqala, yiprojekthi, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo kunye nolwazi olutsha olufunekayo ukunyanga njengeprojekthi. Okokuqala, kufuneka ucinge ngokubhekisele ngubani na? Umhlobo omtsha? Umlingani wesini? Umyeni wekamva? Kwaye ubhale ngokunyanisekileyo malunga nalo mbuzo. Emva kokufunda imibuzo emininzi kunye nokukhetha abaviwa abafanelekileyo, siqala ukuthetha. Kule meko, akuyihlazo ukubhala yokuqala. Ukuba akaphenduli, akunandaba, siya kwesibini, eyeshumi. Ngendlela, xa ukhetha umntu ozama ukuzitholela kwiingxowa ezincinci kunezo ntombazana ezihlabelela imibuzo yazo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo asilibaleli le nqanaba lolwazi.

Ekubeni abantu abaninzi banomdla-intanethi - nje umdlalo, ngoko ke le ntlanganiso yangempela ayiyeki injongo. Ukuthandana okwenene - kuba ngumkhuba wokukrazula oko ngamanye amaxesha kunzima. Kubonakala kunzima kubo, ukugqoka kakuhle, ukuba bafike kwindawo yokuhlangana. Le meko iye yaphuthuma kangangokuthi abantu bayatshutshiswa xa befumana isimemo sangempela kwintlanganiso ngefowuni ukusuka kwenye yabo yoqhagamshelwano. Abaninzi abayiqondi into yokuba abanye baquka inkinobho yekhompyutha yabo nethemba lokufumana iqabane elikhohlakeleyo, kodwa eliyinyani.

Umzuzu xa unokubamba amehlo omntu, ukumomotheka kunye nentuthuzelo ovakalelwa ngayo kwingcamango yentswelo ezayo. Ixesha elingalibalekiyo xa umntu emomothekayo kwaye ehlisa amehlo akhe - ukuva igama lakho kwaye konke oku kuhamba, njengoko uxinzelelo lwe-calligraphic lwe-first-grader uguqula kwifonti oyikhethile kwilizwe elithe tye.