Ubungakanani bexesha eliyimfuneko ukulala ngokwesondo ngamnye kumntu ngamnye wethu. Kodwa ukuba umfazi uxoxa ngesondo esikhulu - uthetha nge-foreplay engavumelekanga, malunga nokusikwa kwe-massage ende. Kwaye kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, omnye wabo angathetha nge-sex eside kakhulu, kodwa okwenzeka kwindawo engavamile. Kubantu, yonke into iyahluke. Kubo, ubude bezenzo zesondo abubalulekanga ngokubalulekileyo, kubalulekile kubo ukuba oku kwenzeka njalo. UNowa, ngokweentlobano zesini, ubulili obuhle xa bobabini iqabane lifumana ukwaneliseka. Ngeli xesha, okuyimfuneko ukufumana i-orgasm, kubalulekile. Kodwa kuthekani malunga nokuba iinkqubo zokuzonwabisa zihluke ngokupheleleyo? Kwindoda, ukucabangela kukulula kwaye kulula ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa abafazi badinga ixesha elincinane lokuzonwabisa. Akunakwenzeka ukuba sijonge nje umlenze womntu okanye izandla zomntu omhle. Ukuze kube neqabane lamabalingani okuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kufuneka athatyathelane.
Yintoni abafazi abayidingayo?
Ukuphendula ngesondo kwabafazi basondelelene kunye neemvakalelo. Uhlobo lusetyenziswe ukuba sifuna indoda, xa sizama ukuziva uthando okanye uthando kuye. Kubasetyhini, isondo ngumntu othile onothando. kunye nokukwazi ukuvuya kuncike kakhulu kwiimvakalelo esizivelayo kumntu okwangoku. Ukuba uxhalabele okanye uxhalabele iqabane lakho, awuyi kuba nomtsalane kude ube nomsindo ngaye. Oku kusebenza nakwiindawo ezincinci zekhaya. Ukuze ibhinqa lisandulane ngesondo, idinga ingqiqo yokhuseleko, ivakalelwa kukuba uyathandwa kwaye uyayithanda. Kubalulekile ukuba kuqiniseke ukuba uyathembela kwiimvakalelo zakhe.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ibhinqa lingajongwa nje ngesondo? Kulula ukuba umntu alungise oku. Ngokomyinge, ukuvuya kuzo zonke iintliziyo nokuvusa umnqweno, ibhinqa idinga ukususela kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-30 ye-caresses yokuqala. I-Nestoit ingaphantsi kwexesha lokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, i-70% yabasetyhini bafikelela kwi-orgasm ngqo ngexesha lokuqala. Kwaye kuphela i-30% eseleyo inokuyivavanya ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Uninzi lwa madoda alufaki naluphi na ukubaluleka kwintando yokuqala. Amadoda anjalo awakucingi ngeqabane lakhe. Imbe ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwindawo ekuya kuyo. Kule meko, zama ukuchaza kumlingani ukubaluleka kokuphambili. I-Prelude inokuguqulwa ibe ngumdlalo "oza kuhlala ixesha elide". Iqabane lifuna ukunyamezela ixesha elide kwaye lide, ngokude nje ukuba ungamceli ukuba aye kwimisebenzi ephambili.
Libido kunye nomjikelo
ILibido ithetha ukuba kwabasetyhini, ukukhangwa ngokwesini kuxhomekeke kuma-hormone. Inokuqinisa, inokuthi iyancipha ngokuhambelana nezigaba zomjikelezo wesini. Ukukhangela ngesondo kwintombi kuqala ukuqinisa iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi nangesikhathi sokuvuthwa. Le yinqanaba lomjikelo xa umzimba womfazi usulungele ukuchumisa. Ngeli xesha, kulula ukukhulelwa, kunye nokukwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokukhawuleza. Kulo nqanaba, lona wesifazane ulungeleka kwaye umzimba uya kuphendula nokuba ungabalulekanga. Kwaye i-orgasm kule nqanaba iya kukhanya ngakumbi kwaye ibe namandla. Kulo xesha kulungile ukuchitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho. Kwigumbi lokulala ngeli xesha, ixesha elingalibaleki liqinisekisiwe. Emva kwesi sigaba, i-libido yebhinqa iyancipha. Ukuphela komjikelezo wokunyuka komjikelezo kwandisa uxhatshazo kunye nesondo kwinqanaba ongelifunayo. Kodwa zama ukuthobela umnqweno womntu wakho. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuvuya. Kulungile kwaye ngexesha le-emotion yakho imvelo yenza i-hormone ekwazi ukulwa ne-PMS.
Yintoni amadoda ayifunayo?
Ngokungafani nabasetyhini, ukuze ufikelele kumntu osisigxina awudingi ngaphezu kwemizuzu emithathu. Ewe, kwaye bayayifuna kaninzi kunathi. Yaye ngenxa yoluvuyo ayenayo imvakalelo ejulile kumlingane. Amadoda rhoqo naphi naleyo, afuna nangona aphelile kakhulu. Ewe, aseks, ebanjwe emva kokuxabana, kuba akuyiyo yonke ingxaki. Kwamadoda, iimvakalelo azichasene nomnqweno wesini. Imizwa ngesondo ayifani ngokungahambelani. Ukuba abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe, amadoda aphuculwe ngakumbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwanele ukuphazamisa nje i-anteroom. Kwaye ngomzuzu uya kuba nokulungele ngokupheleleyo. Musa ukuyihlazo kumzuzwana osondeleyo kwaye ungacima ukukhanya. Olunye umehluko phakathi kwamadoda kukuba luya kugqiba kwizenzo zesondo. Ngako oko, bayayithanda ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kaninzi.
Akuyimfuneko ukuba amadoda aqalise amagama, amathenda kunye nomsa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuziphatha kwakho okuthandekayo kuyamthabatha kuye, kodwa unako ukwenza ngaphandle kwabo.Imininzi yazo zonke iya kuvuya xa usabela njani ekuthinteni nasekuthandeni. ixesha lokufezekisa i-orgasm. Ulindelo luya kwandisa uthando kuphela. Ezinye zamadoda aziqhelanga kwiindawo zokuqala. Awufuni ukufumana uvuyo olukhulu. Enyanisweni ke kuya kuba nzima ngokwaneleyo ukulibazisa i-culmination encinane. Baqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ekuqaleni kuyimfuneko ukukholisa iqabane. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ungathatha inyathelo ezandleni zakho. Unokuyinyamezela ide ifike ekupheleni. Kwaye emva koko, ngoko wathabatha umoya omncinci, unokunyamezela. Kwimizuzu embalwa uza kuphumla kwaye uza kuba ilungele isenzo esitsha. I-Willows ngeli xesha, nayo, iya kuvuya kwaye iyakwalukelwa ngaphambili. Akayi kuba nzima kwaye uya kukwazi ukukholisa.
Ubude bezesondo zesondo
Ubude bentlobano yesondo bubuqu, kodwa kuxhomekeka kwimoya yabalingani. Nangona kungekho nxu lumano olucacileyo kunye namandla okuzonwabisa kunye nobude bentlobano zesondo. Into ephambili kukuba bobabini amaqabane aphile.
Ngesizathu esithile, kukholelwa ukuba ubulili obuhle-lo bubomi obude. Ubulili obude ixesha elide lilungile kwaye libi. Kulo mfazi, kungenakukuthabatha kakhulu. Ukongeza, ukuba ukwenza oku kwelithuba elilodwa kwimizuzu engaphezulu kwe-10 - inkqubo iyayeka ukuvuya. Ubundlobongela bubonakala bumile, kwaye kulo mzekelo, ubulili buba buhlungu. Mxelela nje ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha i-posture. Yaye ungathandabuli ngesondo ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukulala ngokukhawuleza kunomdla ngakumbi kwaye unomdla. Kule nto, kufuneka ufumane ukukhangwa kwesikhashana ngexesha elifanayo kubalingani bobabini. Futhi ungalibali ukuhlukahluka. Funda ngeengcamango zesondo zoqabane lakho, ungesabi ukuxoxa ngazo.