Ukwenza impilo enempilo kubantwana

Ayikho imfihlo yokuba indlela yokuphila enempilo ibalulekileyo kwiimpumelelo. Kwaye kufuneka igonywe ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ngendlela efanelekileyo, abantwana abanakukhula kuphela ngokomoya kwimpilo. Kodwa ngokomoya, ngengqondo. Ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ahloniphe impilo yakhe, simxelisa kunye nabanye. Ukwakhiwa kwendlela yokuphila enempilo kubantwana kuyincenye ebalulekileyo yabazali abanenkathalo.

Izinto ezintathu eziphambili zokuphumelela empilweni-impilo yempilo, ukuqonda okuphezulu, ubugcisa obugqibeleleyo-abantu abahlala bekhathazekile becinga. Ootitshala abagqwesileyo u-Ushakov, Makarenko, uSukhomlinsky wachaza inani elincinane lamalungiselelo ekubunjweni komntu oselula. Ubuncwane obuninzi bokubaluleka kwezemfundo kubandakanywa kwezobugcisa beklasi, unqulo lwezenkolo kunye noshishino. Okwangoku, inyaniso enkulu yokufundisa iqinisekisa: unokufundisa umntu ofuna ukufunda. Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, intsapho inempembelelo enkulu ekuphuhliseni ubuntu bakhe. Kubonakala ukuba iiparameters eziphambili zezinto ezingokwenyama kunye neengqondo zobomi bonke zibekwe ebusaneni, ukuya ku-2-3 ubudala ubudala. Kamva, abazali, ootitshala, abahlobo babandakanyeka kulo msebenzi obalulekileyo.

Kuyaziwa ukuba inzala, njengenkuthazo kwizenzo ezithile, isebenza ngokukhuthaza. Izikhuthazo zokuziphatha kunye nezithethe zengqungquthela, ukusebenza ngempumelelo kwiintsuku ezindala, ngelishwa, zihanjiswe ukuba zingabikho. Bekungasetyenzisiwe kuma-1990s xa isizukulwana esincinane sifundiswa. Nangona la mava kwi-60-70 yekhulu lokugqibela eneempumelelo ezinkulu ze-capitalist countries, ngokuyinhloko eJapan, zasebenzisa. Ingaba kuba bahlakaniphile kwaye banotyebi? Le nkqubo injalo kwiSoviet Union, nangona iindawo zayo ezikhethileyo. Namhlanje, ootitshala bazama ukuvuselela. Kodwa ezi zithethe, njengempilo, kulula ukulahleka - kunzima kakhulu ukubuyisela. Ngaphezu koko, uqoqosho lwezorhwebo lwenze utshintsho olukhulu kubomi bwanamhlanje, izinto eziza kuqala kunye nezifiso zabantu. Ngako oko, namhlanje kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu kunye neengcebiso zemali ezikhuthaza abantu abaselula ukuba baphile ngendlela enempilo. Kwaye kunye nokulawula, ukubonelela isohlwayo ngenxa yokuphambuka kwimimiselo yokuziphatha. Abazali notitshala mabafaneleke ngokwaneleyo kule micimbi ukuba basebenzise ngobuchule onke amaqela amathathu okukhuthaza kwimisebenzi yabo yemfundo.

Ziziphi iziganeko, umzekelo, zokhuthazo eziphathekayo ekwakheni indlela yokuphila enempilo? Umntwana, umfana osemtsha, kufuneka ukuba, ngomzekelo wabazali bakhe, babone ukuba inhlalakahle yezinto eziphathekayo zentsapho, kwaye ngoko ke, naye, ngokuthe ngqo, kuxhomekeke kwimpilo enhle. Emva kwakho konke, impilo enempilo ikuvumela ukuba ufumane kakuhle kwaye wenze umsebenzi. Njalo unomdla kwiinjongo zakho umntwana ochitha imali yepokothoni. Ukonakalisa iipesele, ubhiya, ugwayi? Okanye ukuthenga intlawulo kwi-echibini, kwi-ice rink? Emva koko, abantwana banamhlanje banomdla, kwaye sibanika, bazali! Zama ukuyisebenzisa ngokuthe ngqo, njengento yokukhuthaza impilo!

Ngethuba elifanayo, abantwana bethu bafanele baqonde kakuhle ukuba ukuxhamla utywala, ukutshaya, iziyobisi kungabakhokelela ekuchasaneni nomthetho, ukuphulwa kwemimiselo yoluntu. Umzekelo, ukutshaya kwiindawo apho kuvunyelwe khona, kubandakanya isohlwayo solawulo. Ngenxa yokuba umntu ukhululekile ukulahla impilo yakhe. Kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe, izenzo ziya kuba yingxaki kwabanye abantu, kufuneka ujeziswe. Kwaye le nyaniso yezinto ezincinci ukusuka kwiminyaka yokuqala kufuneka idonwe kwintsapho.

Inguqulelo yesayensi kunye nezobuchwepheshe ibangele ukuhla kwehla ekuzikhandla komzimba kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Abantu abaselula abasasadingeki bazilungiselele ukusebenza ngomthwalo osisigxina. Imfuno kwimfundo jikelele, ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo yesizukulwana esincinane sele ikhuliswe. Ukukhishwa kwexesha elide kwidesksi yesikolo, kubafundi beyunivesithi, kwikhompyutheni kunye neenkqubo ze-robotics zichaphazela kakubi iinkqubo ze-metabolic emzimbeni womntu. Ukufakwa kwamathambo, amatye emideni, i-atrophy ye-muscle - iziphene eziqhelekileyo kwimpilo yabantu kuzo zonke ihlabathi.

Ngoko ke, ngazo zonke iindlela ezinokuthi zikhuthaze abantwana bakho ukuba baqhube ngokuzonwabisa ngokukhawuleza, ukufunda kwizijikelezo kunye namacandelo kwiminqweno. Ukukhuthazwa kwemihlangano enjalo kukuphakama nokucebisa umntu. Kwaye umntu onjalo akayi kuvumela ukuba athathwe impilo yakhe. Kutheni ootitshala nabazali bekhathalele ngokukrakra iingxaki eziphakanyisiweyo? Kukho izizathu ezibini zezi zinto. Emva koko, asinandaba neempawu eziphathekayo nezokuziphatha bethu abantwana baya kufunda okanye bafunde emva kwesikolo. Kwaye amava ethu asinceda: kukho ubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwendlela yokuphila enempilo yabantwana kunye nempumelelo yabo yokuphila. Kule nto kuxhomekeke ekufundeni okulungileyo, kunye nesimo sengqondo kwiqela kunye nakwimpilo. Bazali abathandekayo, musa ukuba nevila ukudala intlonipho yomntwana kwimpilo yakhe!