Kungcono ukulala ngesondo ngaphambi komzimba. Yabelana ngeengcamango zakho zokudlala kunye naye umqhube into efanayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, jabulana ngamagama.
Ukuba indoda yakho ayikwazi ukusebenzisa i-vibrator, imfundise. Mxelele ngendlela omele ukuyisebenzisa ngayo ukukholisa. Yilumkise, hinting ukuba i-vibrator ifana nomlingane kunomncintiswano. Ungambonisa impawu ze-vibrator ngokwakho, ukubonisa indlela isebenza ngayo kwaye ikunikeze uvuyo olungenakunceda kuwe. Ndikholelwe, akayi kuhlala engathandekiyo xa uzenza u-orgasm ngoncedo lwakhe.
Amadoda amaninzi ayazi ukuba i-clitoris yinkinobho efuna i-caresses, i-kisses kunye nengqalelo. Kodwa awazi ukuba ngaphandle kwe-clitoris kufuneka uhlawule ingqalelo kunye ne-anus, ngoko uya kufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba iqabane lakho lihla ephantsi ngaphantsi komsebenzi kunye ne-clitoris kwaye ibeka umnwe okanye umtsalane kumsebenzi, ngoko unikezwa nge-orgasm.
Akukho mfihlo yokuba amadoda afana namabele amabhinqa. Bahlala bexubusha malunga nokuba ubungakanani besifuba bubhekwa njengento efanelekileyo. Amadoda angaphuthelwa umzuzu ukujonga entanyeni yakho okanye entanyeni yowesifazane othile. Kwaye ngexesha lesondo ababonakala bengakwazi nokuba benzani ngamabele. Bawudibanisa kunye nesiphatha sommkeli okanye enye into. Ufuna ukuchaza ukuba naye unokwenza nantoni na: usana, udibe, udibanise, ulume kunye nezinto. Mfundise kwaye umbonise indlela yokwenza okulungileyo. Xa ehla kumashishini, ke ubeke izimvo kwizenzo zakhe.
Kwakhona, ukusilalisa akuzange kuphumelele. Ukuba uhlaziye amafutha, uzigubungele ngokwakho, kwaye ingakumbi phambi kwamehlo akho. Makhe ubukele inkqubo yakho, njengoko ioli ifakwa kwesikhumba sakho. Ukususela kulo mboniso, akakwazi ukunqaba. Xa emehlweni akhe ubona umnqweno, mcele ukuba akunike umsila. Vumela indoda yakho i-oyile izandla zayo ize ihlahlele ishishini, phinda into efanayo kuwe.
Ubomi bakho bobulili obuhlukeneyo buyinto eyahlukeneyo kwaye buyolisayo, ke uchithe ixesha lakho elonwabileyo, lonwabo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Khawubale ngeengxaki zakho kwaye ube nokuphumla okuhle, ujabule omnye nomnye.