Ngamanye amaxesha, singena kwiimeko apho sifuna ukunceda, kodwa asikwazi ukuba njani. Kwaye abaninzi, ngokuchaseneyo, baqala ukuzama ukunceda amakhaya abantwana ngokukhawuleza - baqokelela, bazise kwaye badlulisele izinto kubantwana. Kule meko, baninzi babe nobunzima, iingxaki kunye nokungaqondani. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba umbuzo wokuncedisa iinkedama awusombululwanga ngokukhawuleza kwaye ufuna amava athile. Ngoko ke, ungaqhubeki ngokukhawuleza kwiinkedama ezikufutshane. Xhagamshelana nenhlangano yokuzithandela kwisixeko sakho, qokelela ulwazi kunye nokujongana nalo mbandela ngokufanelekileyo nangomdla.
Urhulumente uxela ukuba izikolo zebhodi kunye neenkedama kwilizwe lethu zinikezelwa ngokupheleleyo ngezinto eziyimfuneko. Okwangoku, imeko eqhelekileyo yezona zikolo zikarhulumente zebhodi zezintandane zihlala zibuhlungu. Yintoni ekhoyo kwiimfesane zanamhlanje? Ngokwenene, kukho ukusilela rhoqo kwamayeza, izinto zokuhlambulula umntu, izixhobo zonyango, eziphantse ziphelelwe ngumhla phantse kwizikolo zonke zokuhamba. Kwiphondo kwiinkedama zezindlu zeenkedama, ukulungiswa kwagqitywa ekugqibeleni kuma-50 - oko kukukuqala ukukunceda. Kodwa rhoqo, ngaphambi kokunceda intandane ethile, kungcono ukuza ubone yonke into yakho - imeko ihluke kakhulu kuyo yonke indawo.
Uncedo oluvela kwilizwe kunye notyalo-mali
Kukho imbono yokuba amakhaya abantwana sele sele egcwele umbane kunye noxhaswa lombuso kunye nenkxaso. Enyanisweni, oku akude kwimeko. Ulwabiwo-mali lwengingqi lunika imali enganeleyo, ngokukodwa kwiidolophana ezincinane nakwiidolophana. Okuninzi, kuxhomekeke kwinkokheli: umlawuli osebenzayo, "umphathi we-punchy" ongenamahloni okucela uncedo kumagunya asekuhlaleni kunye nemibutho eyahlukeneyo inokugcina loo meko kwindawo ephezulu ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa iinkokeli ezinjalo ziyiyo.
Ukuhamba okukhulu kwezibonelelo zoncedo zivela kwiinqununu kunye nezixeko ezinkulu. Ngoko ukuza kwindlu yabantwana kukubo, iindibano zokuzithandela ezinikezelayo zinika uncedo. Ixhomekeke kakhulu kwiindawo ezinxulumene namashishini amakhulu-ngokuqhelekileyo athabatha intandane phantsi koxanduva lwayo. Ukuba inqanawa iphantsi kwiphondo elinzulu, akukho zitshixo ezinkulu kunye nezityalo ezikufuphi, kwaye isakhiwo ngaphandle sibukeka sichithekile - qiniseka ukuba eli ziko lifuna uncedo ngokuchanekileyo.
Ngaba uncedo luza kubantwana?
Kukho uluvo lokuba ukuphathwa kweenkedama kupheka ngokupheleleyo. Njani, ufuna ukunceda abantwana, ukwahlula inkokheli ethembekileyo esandleni esingcolileyo? Kubalulekile ukuqonda: nangona umlawuli ongcono kakhulu unikezwa ithuba lokugcina, kuba kukho umngcipheko wokuba kungekudala okanye kamva ubuncinci, kodwa i-pokarmanit. Amakhaya abantwana banamhlanje enza izibalo kuphela nge-akhawunti yakho ebhankini. Oko kukuthi, ukulawulwa akunakwenzeka, kuya kuba nzima ukuntshontsha. Umphathi kufuneka abonise imali kwi-akhawunti kumaphepha aphenduleyo - nini kunye nokukhatyathwa kwenani, oko kwachithwa. Ukuba uya kunceda ngemali, yenza kuphela ngebhanki kuphela.
Enye into kukuba xa uthumela imali eninzi evela kuwe kufuneka ukuba ugcwalise irhafu yentlawulo. Esi sizathu esona sizathu sokuba iinjongo ezintle azifinyeleli. Yile ndlela amavolontiya angaziwa enza ngayo iminikelo yawo, engakhange abize amagama abo. Okanye bavele balayishe iibhokisi kwiamasango enqanawa kunye nezipho zabantwana - kwaye ushiye. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukunceda izintandane - zenze ngokucacileyo. Emva kwakho konke, izipho ezingenakubalwa ngendlela yemali okanye izinto-isilingo sokulawula ukuba zizithathele zona. Kukho akukho mfuneko yokubika kuyo naphi na, ngoko kutheni kushiywe, bathi, lungile? Ngoko, yenza okuhle evulekile, kodwa qiniseka ukwenza oko! Abantwana abangamantwazana abanakuchukulwa ngqalelo kunye nezipho, nakuwuphi na umzi omkhulu abahlala kuwo. Yintoni esinokuyithetha malunga neenkedama kwiphondo elikude. Ungathandabuzeki - uncedo lwakho aluyi kuba lukhulu kubo.