Kubazali abasebenzayo, isisombululo esona siqhelo kule meko yilezi zontanga. Iintsana zihlala ziqala ukutyelela umyezo, zifikelela kwiminyaka emithathu. Nangona kunjalo, makhe sibone, ngaba ngulo lixesha elifanelekileyo kakhulu? Kukho iingcinga ezininzi kule ngxaki. Omnye uyaqiniseka ukuba ngokukhawuleza kulunge, kuba kuya kuba lula ukuba umntwana asetyenziswe kwimeko entsha. Abanye bathi kufuneka ulinde ubuncinane iminyaka emine, ukuze umntwana asebenzise ixesha elininzi kunye nonina.
Kakade, kunzima ukuphikisana nenkcazo yokuba umntwana ungcono kunomama. Umama kwilizwe lakhe elincinci uyisiqithi sokuthembeka, unina unika ithemba, inkwenkwe ihlolisisa ihlabathi xa unina. Ukuqhagamshelana nomama yindlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokwazi ihlabathi ngomntwana, ngoko ungawaphuli ulwalamano olusondeleyo lomntwana osemncane kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba akusiyo imfuneko ukuba ibe kufuphi nomntwana, kodwa ukukunceda ekuphuhliseni. Iminyaka yokuqala yobomi - ebaluleke kakhulu ekubunzeni ubuntu, ngoko ke umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kubazali-ukunika ingqalelo ingqalelo yonyana. Kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa imidlalo, imodeli, ukudweba, i-gymnastics-mfutshane, yonke into ekhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kwentetho, izakhono zezithuthi, i-intelligence. Kulo nxu lumano oluqhelekileyo kukuba abantwana kufuneka banikezwe kwintsapho yokubeletha ngokukhawuleza, ukwenzela ukuba baqhutywe ngabaqeqeshi abajongene ngokufanelekileyo kwimicimbi yophuhliso kwaye bayazi kakuhle ukuba benze ntoni kwinkqubo efanelekileyo yokubunjwa kwabantu. Kodwa ukujongana kakuhle nomntwana akudingeki ukuba ube yingcali. Ngoku kukho inani elaneleyo leencwadi ezichazela umama ukuba njani kwaye njani ukwenza. Kwaye akukho namnye, nootitshala abaqeqeshiweyo nabanobuchule abanako ukubuyisela umntwana umntwana.
Umba onzima kakhulu kufuneka uhanjiswe ngabanye, ukuvavanya kwindawo yokuqala umgangatho womntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba sele sele ivele kwiminyaka emibini umntwana uthetha kakuhle, ngokuzimela ngokuphambene nebhodi kwaye akadingi uncedo lomqeqeshi ngexesha lesidlo sasemini. Ukuba umntwana wakho unoluntu, nwabele ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala, ukuba kunyanzelekile, umntwana onjalo unokunikezelwa engadini. Kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba umntwana onjalo ophucukileyo kwi-kindergarten uya kuziva, ufumane abahlobo abatsha kwaye ufunde imidlalo entsha.
Uninzi lwengqondo luyacetyiswa ukuba uqale uqhelane ne-kindergarten kungekudala kwiminyaka emithathu. Oku kubangelwa ukuba kweli xesha abantwana abaninzi sele bezimeleyo kwaye bathetha kakuhle ukuba luququzelela kakhulu umsebenzi wootitshala, kwaye iyanceda umama ukuba aqonde ukuba umntwana wakhe unokukwazi ukujamelana nobunzima bekhaya. Kananjalo nangeminyaka emithathu ubudala, ukukhuseleka kuqiniswa, okuvumela umntwana ukuba alungiselele lula kwi-kindergarten. Ingane kule minyaka isele iqina kwaye ingaphenduli ngokukhawuleza ukutshintsha kwe-microclimate, kungekhona oko kuxhomekeke kwizifo kodwa abantwana abancinci bahlala begula.
Ungakulibali ukuba le nkcazo yabantwana beengqondo zengcebiso kuluntu kwaye akukho nto ithetha ukuba emva kokuba ufinyelele umntwana wakho oneminyaka emithathu ubudala, kufuneka uyithumele kumyezo. Akukho mntu owazi kangcono kunomama wakhe umntwana kwaye akakwazi ukuvavanya umlinganiselo wokuzimisela kwakhe ukutyelela engadini. Abantwana abaninzi kulo nyaka abanako ukuxhomekeka kwintsapho kwaneeyure ezimbalwa - ingakumbi ukuba umntwana uyabakhathalela utshintsho kwaye uphatha ngokukhawuleza ukungabikho kwezihlobo eziseduze.
Musa ukulibala ukuba iminyaka emithathu ibunzima kumntwana. Ngeli xesha kuninzi kubakho ubunzima buntu. Kule minyaka umntwana uhlala enqabileyo, enenkani, efuna ukuzimela aze aphendule kakubi kuyo yonke into. Ukuba kwenzeke ukuba i-crisis ye-triennium ihambelana nexesha xa wanquma ukunika umntwana engadini, kufuneka ulinde kancane ukuba uphile kwisiqhwithi sokuqala. Ukuba umntwana uwela engadini ngeli xesha nje, inkunzi iya kuqondisa zonke iimpazamo zakhe ezimbi kumsebenzi omtsha kuye aze amqinisekise ngezinto ezilungileyo zokutyelela umyezo uya kuba nzima. Ukuqaphela iimpawu zokuqala zomngeni wakho, qalisa ukumlungiselela kwangaphambili indima entsha yentlalo. Zama ukumbonisa imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo ebonisa abantwana abadlala kwi-kindergarten, sitshele indlela elungileyo kunye nolonwabo ngayo abantwana. Ukuba ngabahlobo bakho banabantwana abanolwazi oluhle lokutyelela i-kindergarten, zama ukuqiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho weva ibali "ukusuka emlonyeni wokuqala." Konke oku kuya kulungiselela umntwana wakho ukutyelela kwi-kindergarten.
Ayikho iminyaka yonke yokuqalisa i-kindergarten. Umntwana ngamnye kufuneka ukuba akhethe ixesha ngalinye, ekhokelwa yimpawu yempawu: ukuzimela komntwana, intlalontle, ubudlelwane nabantu abadala kunye nabantwana, ukubonakalisa iimpawu zeengxaki zeminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ukuba wena, emva kokuhlaziya indlela yokuziphatha komntwana, wagqiba ekubeni ixesha lokuya enkulaneni - qala ukulungiselela umntwana ukutyelela kokuqala, umdla. Emva koko nayiphi na inguqu ebomini yomntwana iya kufumaneka ngovuyo, kwaye ukubona umntwana wakho ujabule luvuyo olukhulu kunoma yimuphi umama. Ngoko kuya kuwe xa ukunika umntwana inkulisa.