Ndiyathanda amabhinqa amahle kwaye enhle kakhulu. Bahlala behlala engqondweni yam, kwaye ndiyayithanda le miphunga. Kubalulekile ukuba ndilahlekelwe ngumfazi imihla yonke yobomi bam. Omnye ukhathalela ubukhulu besifuba, kodwa ndihlala ndithanda yonke into kumfazi. Nangona nam, ndingawa thandana nemilenze emnandi, kwaye oku kuya kubaluleke ngakumbi kunomntu onobuqili kunye nengqiqo engaphantsi. Into eheha kakhulu amadoda kumabhinqa - oku kuya kuxutyushwa kwinqaku.
Uthando luphakamileyo "indlela" ngaphezu kohlalutyi okanye ubuchopho, obunqwenela ukuba wenze ntoni. Ukuxolela okanye ukuxolela kuyisimo sobubudenge. Uvavanyo lwethu lwezenzo zomntu othandekayo - njengenkikhi emnyango kwendlu yebukhosi. Ngezandla zethu, sinokuvala umnyango apho. Ingqondo yethu yenza inxaxheba yale nqaba. Yaye xa umfazi wakho othandekayo, ukhathele ukuyeka, uzimisele ukuhamba, umemeza emva kwakhe: "Uphi na? Njani? Sivumelene nawe? "Wavumelani na? Ukuba uya kumgcina kwisinyithi sesinyithi, kwaye uya kukutya ngenxa yale nto? Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngento yokuba umntu usebenzisa umntu kulo mbini. Ewe, sonke siyavuya xa umntu eluncedo. Andivuyi, xa kungekho mntu ufuna. Ibhinqa likwazi ukuthanda ngakumbi kunomntu. Kwaye kulungiswe ngakumbi ukuthanda. Ibhinqa lihamba phambi kwendoda ebini ngamandla omnxeba kunye nokuphendula okungakumbi ... Unamandla angaphantsi koko, kodwa ubabalo oluninzi, ubabalo ... Uhlala kwimigqaliselo yemithetho yomnye, engaziwa kubantu, isimo sengqondo. Ukuba ithe intombi ethandekayo ayikuqondi, ngoko-ke ityala lakhe alikho. Kubantu, ukwesaba ubudala bukhulu kunokobafazi. Kodwa ngaphezu kweminyaka yobudala, indoda iyesaba ibhinqa eliyingozi kunye nokhuphiswano. Ngoko ke, ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngoko sibaxhela ngokukhawuleza intsapho, sikhulise isisu size sakha kwakhona ihlabathi lonke. Senza izicwangciso zokuzonwabisa ezinxulumene nobudala - "Ndiyathokoza ngohambo lokuloba, kunye nabazukulwana bam kweli lizwe" ... Siphila kulokhu akuyona ingozi kuthi sithintele uluntu, ihlabathi elihle kwaye silinde size singcwatywe yimithetho kunye nokuvunyelwa koluntu olufanayo .
Kukho imbono yokuba abantu abade behlangene, ubulili obuhle. Ndiyavuma, kodwa kwimeko enye - ukuba kukho uthando kumtshato. Ngaphandle koluthando, umzimba uphawula, awuyi kusebenza. Imali kunye notywala ngamanye amaxesha kuzama ukulungisa ingxaki. Zivame ukuphumelela. Njengoko kuhlekisa. Ingumntu phambi kwesibuko - isilwanyana sangempela: isisu sisilubile, iinwele zivela kwindawo yonke, zingabambiswanga ubuso kunye nesithintelo, zikhetha into evukile kumazinyo, ikhulile kakhulu, kodwa ikhulu lamafutha ehlombe. Kwaye kwisibuko kubonakalisa ubuhle obuhle kakhulu intombazana eneminyaka engama-20 elele embhedeni - ingelosi ecocekileyo. Ujonge ukucamngca kwakhe kwaye uthi: "Kubalulekile ukuthanda imali! .." Abahlobo-abahlobo kum ngcamango eyinkimbinkimbi. Kunoko, phakathi kwabantu, ubambiswano, intsebenziswano, kunye nobuhlobo - kakhulu kuncinci. Ndineentloko ezihlanu, intandokazi, abahlobo abazinikeleyo. Ukuze ndibathande, akufuneki ndibuhlungu kunye kunye nabomnyama okanye ndihambe ngokuloba okanye ndaya kwibhedi. Umhlobo wam, kwintlanganiso yamanye ngamaxesha kunye nesandi sam esithi "Ihlabathi lincinci!" Iyaphendulwa: "Ungubani na? Hayi! Ubuncwane buncipha! "Enyanisweni. Uluhlu lwabantu "babo" luhlukile.
Uthando alukhuli - luzala kwakhona. Ukuze uvuselele, unokukwazi ukugijima ngokukhawuleza ngakwesobunxele. Awukwazi ukunqaba! Ukuba kukho ingcamango enjalo-kubalulekile ukuqhuba apho ngokukhawuleza! Oku kuthetha ukuba apho "kunene" - yonke into ayinalutho kwaye imnyama. Kuphela! Kuphela igumbi lugcwele! Olunye ukhetho: oku "kushiywe" kunokugcina iyure okanye imini, emva koko uza kubona ukuba uyimfama, kwaye ubuyela kwinto endiyithandayo ngokwenene. Ewe, awuyi kubuya, nangona ukhulula umfazi. Into enhle! Ininzi yam yonke into iyaxabisa ukunxibelelana kwabantu abangenacala ngaphandle kokulala ngesini ebomini. Mna ke, ndiyazi ukuba ulonwabo luthando alugcini nje kuphela, kodwa lukunandipha, udlala ngothando ... kodwa de ndife, ndiza kuzama ukugcina ingqondo yokuba ndilala ngesondo. Injongo eyonwabileyo.