Umgaqo ophambili, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhululwa kwamabini amaqabane ngexesha loqhagamshelwano lwezesondo elala. Kwale nto ayinandaba nokuba yonke into ekubhekiselele kuyo iya kuthwala intsingiselo ethile okanye ayikho, kuba ukuze ukwamkele izenzo zeqabane okanye ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zayo ngokwaneleyo ukusebenzisa amagama amfutshane okanye iingxelo, umzekelo, "ngaphezulu", " mmm ... "," ewe! ". Kwiingxelo ezinjalo, unokuva kakuhle ngokukodwa nje umnqweno wesondo, kodwa nothando lomlingane, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokungazelelwe.
Okulandelayo, mhlawumbi kufuneka uxoxe ngencazelo engenakuphikisana - "ulwimi oluthileyo" ebhedini. Izizathu zokwaneliseka ukuba amaqabane anokufumana xa beva ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo eziqhekezayo basala kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ubomi obunzima obanyanzelweyo abantu abangeke bahlawule ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo kwi-caresses ngexesha lesini. Okokuthi, amadoda ahlala ngoko mgaqo omnye kunye oyintloko: weza-saw-won. Abazange bacinge malunga noko bathethayo embhedeni, bekungabikho nje. Kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu ukuba amadoda ngexesha lesondo azinakuzikhusela kwiintetho ezinamandla, ezithetha ngokuzithemba nangomdla, kwaye zinokuthi zibe mnandi kumfazi. Kuyakwenzeka ukuba zombini amaqabane angamanyala endizayo aya kubangela ukwanda komnqweno wesondo, ngoko ukuthetha embhedeni yintoni oyithandayo kubini abalingani.
Kwaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ukhumbule ukugcoba nokumemeza ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Kule meko, impendulo eyaneleyo kummelwane iyanele. Kuzo zonke ezinye iinkalo, amaqabane aya kuba nakho ukwenza nantoni na. Ngendlela, akuyimfuneko ukuba ngexesha lesondo, ubuhlungu buzwakala kuphela ngumlingane, ngelixa iqabane, eliphethe imilomo yakhe ngesibindi, luza kuthula, njengabalingani ngexesha lophando. Akukho namnye amaqabane adingekayo ukuba azincitshe. Bobabini umfazi kunye nomntu unokukwenza konke abathanda ukukwenza ebhedini, oko kukuthi, ukukhala nokuhleka okanye ukuthula. Cinga ukuba ngexesha lokwebelana ngesondo, kungekhona kunye neqabane eliqhelekileyo, kufuneka uqale ukumxelela ngezinto ezikhethiweyo. Ngaphandle koko, unokumthusa. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, kuya kuba uthando lobomi kunye nomphefumlo wakho womtshato? Yaye ukuziphatha kwakho nje kusongela ulonwabo?
Omnye umbuzo onzima onokukhathazeka ukuba unokwazi ukubona iimfuno zakho zesini, ngelixa usebenzisa amagama namazwi oku, umzekelo, "Ndifuna wena ngoku!". Ngoko, ukuthetha embhedeni enjalo ingxelo ayinakwenzeka kuphela, kodwa nayo iyimfuneko. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko yokwenza oku, kunjalo, kungekhona ngosuku lokuqala emva kwentlanganiso. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko uya kuba nako ukufuna, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene.
Amadoda akudingeki akhohlwe ukuba umbuzo wabo onyanzelekileyo "ngaba ulungile?" Unyanzelekile ukuba abe yinto nje kuphela kunye nayo yonke. Umfana kufuneka azibonele ukuba intombazana inelisekile kuye embhedeni. Nantsi umfazi, umzekelo, unokuqonda ngaphandle kwamagama athethayo, ingaba iqabane liyamthanda embhedeni, nokuba ngaba wayenandipha. Ngoko ke, amadoda kufuneka alwele okulungileyo!