Okokuqala, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ekhala, zama ukujonga uhlobo lokulila. Kuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zomntwana kwaye uhluka ngokucacileyo nakwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi. Umntwana ukhula, kwaye ukucacisa isizathu sokukhala kulula ukuba lula kwaye kulula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba iinguqu eziphathekayo zitshintsha, okanye abazali babe nolwazi oluninzi. Mamela umntwana uze uzame ukumnika kanye into ayicelayo. Ukuxhalaba ngenxa ye-diaper engcolileyo ayinyibiliki ubisi, kwaye umgubo wokuqokelelwa kweegesi awuyi kudlula ukuba umntwana ufumana isifuba.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, zonke i-whims zentsana zibhalwa yindlala. Bamondla, bamondla. Kusenokuba mhlawumbi waqhekeza ishedyuli. Mhlawumbi umntwana sele sele elele, kwaye uyamkhupha kwakhona? Okanye wavuka ebudeni obungapheliyo, edinwe ngokudlala, elahlekelwe yinto yokudlala yakhe, egxininise iingubo zakhe, wambamba kakhulu kwizandla zakhe, kwakukho ixesha lokuhlwaya kwemihla. Lona alukho uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezizathu ezikhokelela ekulileni. Ungabisi ngokukhawuleza umntwana ngobisi.
Ngamanye amaxesha uzama ukuqonda imbangela yezinyembezi zezingane ... kwaye umntu wakho omncinci sele sele ehlalise ngelo xesha. Mhlawumbi ufanele umshiye wedwa? Ukuba uzele, uyomile kwaye ufuna ukulala, yibeke ngakumbi ngokulula kwaye ungakhathazeki. Uya kulala. Kodwa ukunyusa umntwana kwiimeko ezinjalo akufanelekanga, kutheni ukuhlakulela imikhwa emibi?
Qaphela ingakanani umntwana wakho ekhala. Ngaba ufumene ingcamango yokuba ukukhala kwakunaphakade? Kwaye ngeyure kwakuphela imizuzu emi-5-10.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana ufuna nje ukuba azive ezandleni zomama. Hug umntwana, mbeke kuye, uthethe kakuhle naye.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, zama ukuqonda oko umntwana akhathalele ngako kwaye umthuthuzele ngokweemeko, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ukhathele ukukhwaza kwakhe.
Sincoma ukuba uqwalasele ezinye iindlela ezikunceda ukuzinzisa umntwana okhalayo. Unokusebenzisa zombini kunye neendlela eziliqela ngokukhawuleza, zidibanise. Jonga ngokucophelela impendulo yengane yakho. Ekugqibeleni, uya kufunda ukuqonda ulwazi azama ukukudlulisela ngezinyembezi zakhe. Kwaye uza kufumana iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuzinzisa umntwana kwindawo ethile.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akahlali ehlaziyekile ekuxoxeni, okanye akazange aphumelele - ukuzola ukukhala kuyakunceda isikhundla esitsha. Udinga ukuthatha umntwana ezandleni zakho uze uyitshintshe ngenyameko, ngelixa uxhasa intloko ngeentendelezo zakho. Ukuba ubudala buvumela, unokumfaka umntwana emadolweni kwaye ucinezele kuye. Enye inketho kukuthatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe aze akhulise kumgangatho wamagxa akhe, ngoko ke kwindawo yokuqala. Kwaye maxesha amaninzi. Okanye ukhethe nje kwaye uyigugungele ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala.
Ukunciphisa ukukhala okulandelayo kuya kunceda kunye nokunyakaza kwesigqi. Hamba ujikeleze egumbini, uthathe umntwana ezandleni zakhe. Yiphakamise ukusuka phezulu ukuya ngasezantsi kwaye ngokuphambene. Hlala naye kwisitulo sokugungqa kunye neliwa ixesha elithile. Unakho umntwana we-pokruzhit.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akanako ukushisa okwaneleyo, ngokwelizwi lezwi. Mvalela umntwana ngengubo efudumeleyo. Ungayicinezela yona kwaye uyishushu ngomzimba wakho. Kwaye unako ngaphambi kokuba ulale embhedeni umntwana, ufudumise umbhede wakhe ngomfudumala.
Ngamanye amaxesha, izandi ezithile zinganceda ukuhlalisa umntwana. Ngezwi elizolileyo nelithulileyo, tshela amagama ambalwa. Hlabela i-lullaby okanye ingoma umntwana wakho ayithandayo. Awukwazi ukuzicula - vula umculo. Vumela umculo uphuze, udidi lwe-jazz, i-jazz elula okanye umculo we-pop, kunye nokurekhoda ngezandi zamanzi eziya kwenza. Ingxondorha enzima kuphela ayiguqukanga, ngaphandle koko ukuxhalaba komntwana kuya kwanda kuphela.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunelungelo lokuchukumisa umntwana ukuba ayeke ukukhala. Unokwenza umntwana ahlaziye ngokutsha. Ukufuya nokunyamezela umntwana. Mthande (abantwana bathanda xa banga). Beka umntwana ngasemva kwaye u-pat wakhe umva.