Yintoni onokuyenza xa ufuna ukuba nesilwanyana kumntwana?

Izilwanyana zasemakhaya zenzelwa ukusilela kweemvakalelo zobomi basezidolophini. Kwaye isilwanyana esithandayo sihlala sithatyathwa ngumzalwana omncinane okanye umzalwana. Ungadlala naye, unokuchitha ixesha elingaphandle kwendlu ekulindelwe abazali, kwaye ukuba unqotyisiwe ngokudabuka, unokungcwaba ubumnandi obushushu kwaye ukhale. Kwixesha elizayo, ukunxibelelana nokunyamekela izilwanyana kwakha iimvakalelo zomzali ngentsana. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana isilwanyana kumntwana kwaye unethuba elinjalo, yenza njalo ngexesha. Makhe sithethe malunga nokuya ku khokelwa yintoni na ukuba ujonge ukuba unquma ukuqala isilwanyana.


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Eli xesha aliphumelelanga. Intshontsho, intsana nayo ingumntwana, kodwa yinto ephilileyo. Isilwanyana sidinga ukunakekelwa nokuqwalaselwa, kwaye le nyana kule minyaka iyakwazi ukubonelela. Kuyonwaba ukudlala neefama. Emva koko, akayikwakhiwa ingcamango yobambiswano kumdlalo wobudlelwane (oku kwenzeka kwiminyaka emihlanu). Kwaye umntwana usenokwendalo ukuba asebenzise isilwanyana njengedodoli elula, enokudliwa, elele ekulaleni, edibeneyo. Ukuba isilwanyana ngokwawo, loo midlalo ayimnandi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ibuhlungu. Kwaye xa umntwana ehlanjululwa kuzo zonke iintlobo zamathuba okunyamekela izilwanyana aze azibone njengento yokudlala, intsapho yasekhaya iya kuba ngumncintiswano kumntwana emzabalazweni wokuba umzali kunye nokuthanda kwakhe. Kukhona enye ingxaki. I-Kid isoloko ifuna ukwazi kwaye ayiyi kwenza nayiphi na into eyahlukileyo phakathi kwezinto ezingaphiliyo kunye nezinto eziphilayo. Ngokomzekelo, inzululwazi yerhotile yinto engafaniyo nento yayo eyahlukileyo ukuya kwi-clockwork okanye i-vacuum cleaner. Umntwana unemibuzo engokwemvelo: "Ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, kutheni kushukunyiswa?" Masibone! "Ukuba lo uphando lubangelwa ngumatshini, oko kungamkelwa kuphela, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kwintlambo, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana uzama ukuwukhupha ngaphandle kwegobolondo, oku kwamkelekanga.

Isilwanyana somntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwi sixhenxe

Kwiminyaka emihlanu ukuya kweyesixhenxe umntwana usenayo ingcamango yokohluko phakathi kokuphila nokungahlali. Kwaye ke, kule minyaka uzimisele ukwenza zonke izinto ezizungezile. Ukuvakalelwa kwezilwanyana ezahlukeneyo kumntwana ngeli xesha kunamandla ngakumbi kuneminyaka ezayo. I-Kid isele ifunde imidlalo ehlukeneyo kunye nabalingani.

Iinyoni zifanelekile umntwana olungele ukukhala iinyembezi okanye ukudabuka. Ukubona kwakhe ama-parrots okanye ii-canary ezilungileyo kuye kuya kuba luncedo. Kodwa musa ukulibala kule meko malunga neengxakatho ukuya kwindleko kunye nomkhuhlane weentaka.

Intlanzi kubantwana iyathuthuzela. I-Aquarium - le nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuhlala ehleli ngomzuzu omnye endaweni enye.

Ikati yintliziyo yengqondo. Idala uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxinezeleka ngumxininiso, ke oku okukhethwa kukho. Kodwa kukho umzuzu ongathandekiyo: i-kitty inezigqoko ezibukhali, kwaye ingxaki yokuguga ingubo yakhe iyona nto ixhaphakileyo.

Inja ngumhlobo ongcono. Kuyamnandi ukuchitha ixesha kunye nokulula ukudibanisa. Khetha inja enobubele. Khumbula ukuba ezinye iintlobo zeenja ziyingozi xa ziphathwa kakubi nazo.

I-Hamsters kunye nezinye iincindi zincinci ziyamnandi kwaye ziyancasa, nangona kunjalo, zihlobo ezibi. Bahamba ngendlela yokuhlwaya kwaye emva kwemini baxoxisana nokungafuni. Nangona kunjalo, ezi zilwanyana azihlali ixesha elide, kuba umntwana ukulahlekelwa kwezilwanyana zingaphantsi kwintlekele.

Izilwanyana ezingaphandle kunye nezilo zasendle zihlala ziyingozi, kunzima ukunyamekela, ukuthetha kunye nokungaqiniseki.

Ihluthuthi isilwanyana esithile. Ibhekisela kwizilwanyana ezinje, abantu abaninzi abazi ukuba bangayinyamekela njani. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubalekela kwixesha lehlobo okanye uholele ekwindawo yokudabuka.

Xa ukhetha isilwanyana kumntwana, zama ukulandela imithetho emininzi:

Xa umisa umntwana ukuba anakekele isilwanyana ngokwawo, ke u-beagetotovs wabelane ngale mfanelo kunye nosana. Oku kuya kufuneka kufundiswe, kwaye kufuneka ubonise ukuba yenziwe njani.

Akukho mzekelo ungaqalanga isilwanyana ngenxa yokuba sithandeka okanye sihlekisayo, kwaye kwimarike uqinisekile ukuba ukhathalela le nkomo kuyinto eyisiqalo. Isilwanyana esincinci "esingavumbayo" kunye nayo "ayifuni nagugulyat" esinokunyamekela ngokungafunekiyo. Inani elikhulu lezilwanyana ezingabonakaliyo ziyafa ngokugqithisileyo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zithandwa zendalo. Ukuba oku kwenzeka phambi komntwana, imiphumo engaphezulu-yengqondo nayo kunzima ukuqikelela.

Ubomi bezilwanyana kubaluleke kakhulu. Ndiye ndafundiswa ukuba ndimnakekele, ndimncede, kwaye hamster wam othandekayo uyafa ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, phatha ukufa kwepilesi ngokucophelela. Ukungcwaba isilwanyana "ngabantu." Isiko lomngcwabo asilungiswanga ngengozi, sinceda ukujamelana neengxaki.

Ukunxibelelana nomntwana onesilwanyana esiphilayo kuyimeko ekhethekileyo yokuvavanya. Ubuhlobo babo, njengesibuko, bubonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho nomntwana.

Ukugcina isilwanyana, udinga ubuchule kunye namava, ke ubalekele ukulungelelana nomntwana wakho ukwabelana nazo zonke iinkxalabo malunga nesilwanyana.