Yintoni yokudandatheka?

Umfazi ngamnye ozalela umntwana ubuncinane, ubhekane nemeko enjalo njengengcinezelo yokuhamba emva kwesithuba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nawuphi na umfazi okhulelweyo uthemba ukuba uya kuphepheka kwengcinezelo yokuhamba emva kokubeleka okanye ukutshintshisa ngendlela elula. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ezalwa, kukho ukwesaba, ukuxhalabeleka umntwana, nokuba konke kulungile kwaye akukho nto ibangela ukukhathazeka. Ngoko yintoni na ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka? Okokuqala, le meko ihambelana nokulungiswa okubukhali komzimba. Kwiinyanga ezithoba, wayezimisele ukuvelisa iziqhamo, kwaye ngoku kufuneka aqondise yonke imizamo yokuvelisa ubisi.

Okwesibini, isimo sengqondo sengqondo somama. Ibhinqa likhangele phambili ekuzalweni komntwana wakhe omncinci, ucinga malunga nokuba uya kuba mhle kangakanani. Kodwa into yokuba ukubonakala komntwana kwindlu ingxaki engapheliyo, ukungabikho kokulala okungapheliyo, ubuncinane ngethuba lokuqala, ngandlela-thile iqhubela phambili. Ngoko kukho uxinzelelo lwentlungu.

Okwesithathu, ukusuka nantoni na, inkolelo kwizinkolelo ezihlukahlukeneyo kunye neempawu, kubonakala ngathi abazange bakholwe kuzo phambi komfazi. Umntwana ongabhaptizwa akakwazi ukuboniswa nabani na. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela kwinto yokuba abazali abavunyelwe emnyango. Aye, intaka iyakubetha efestile, into eyenzeka kumntwana ... Kodwa iintaka zalwela efestile kwangaphambili kwaye akukho nto eyenzekayo, mhlawumbi balambile kwaye bafuna i-Mobileliidae efestile. Ewe, njani apha akungena kwixinzelelo.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphepha ukucindezeleka kwangemva kwesithuba okanye ubuncinane ukuwuhambisa.

Ibhinqa idinga umncedisi ekuqaleni. Ungayekanga ngoncedo kumntwana, kungekhona onke amabhinqa aya kumthemba umntu kumntu, nokuba nokuba ngumntu osondeleyo. Kodwa apha ukupheka, ukucoca, ukuhlamba, ukutshiza, njl. Oomama abancinci kaninzi abanalo, banamandla, akukho xesha. Le yilapho uncedo lendlu luyimfuneko.

Ukuze ukwazi ukujamelana nokudakumba kwengcinezelo, kufuneka uzame ukuphazamisa umama omncinci kuzo zonke iintlobo zeengcali, zamkele kunye nezinkolelo-ze. Ungamvumeli ukuba afakwe kubo, afumane iinkcazo zezinto zonke.

Musa ukunyamekela iipounds ezili. Ngokukhawuleza xa unqanda ukuncelisa, uya kuzinyamekela kwaye ubuyisele umlinganiselo wakho kwisimo esiqhelekileyo. Yaye ininzi la mabhinqa ayiludingi le nto. Iikhilogram ziyahamba ngokwazo. Emva kwakho konke, ukunyamekela umntwana, ukuhamba, ukuhlala uvuka ebusuku kusiza ukunciphisa ubunzima.

Uze ungamlibali ngothandekayo wakho! Ngamanye amaxesha uphuma ukuyothenga, ubuhle be-salon! Emva koko awunakuze ube nombuzo: "Yintoni ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka?".

U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza