Ziziphi iimiphumo zesipelo ?
Xa udibene nomntu oye wangena ngamandla emphefumlweni wakho, ulahlekelwe intloko, ngamanye amaxesha amaninzi awakucingi ukuba bazimisele kangakanani ukufumana ithuba lokuba nomhlobo wakho. Kukho amaninzi amaninzi xa, ngenxa yobuchule bemilingo, ubudlelwane beqala phakathi kwabantu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha imitshato yagqitywa. Ezinye izibini zihlala zivuyayo, kwaye ezinye iindibano ezingabonakaliyo ziba ngumzekelo ombi wokuba imiphumo yintoni xa iphazamisa kwisigqibo somnye umntu.
Yimiphi imiphumo yenkwenkwezi enokuba yindoda ?
Ingozi ephezulu yesipelo kukuba zonke iziganeko ezilandelayo azikwazi ukubala. Xa wenza isipelingi, umfazi ofuna ukutshiza umntu uhlala "evala amehlo akhe" nakwizinto ezingahambelaniyo ngokupheleleyo. Upelo lwendoda lugcinwa uxolo. Indoda iqala ukucinga ngomfazi, izama ukuba kunye nayo, kodwa kuphela kwiimeko ezingabonakaliyo, ngexesha kwaye wayenomdla kuye. I-Privorot yenza umntu afune ukuthanda, ukuphoqeleka, kwaye oku kubangelwa ukuchasana kwangaphakathi. Indoda ifana nesifiso esibuhlungu somfazi, kwaye ikamva lixhomekeke kuphela kwimvelo yakhe kunye nomlingiswa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ntshukumo yemilingo ibangela ukuba umntu afune ukuza kumfazi kuphela, kodwa umnqweno we-neostatsya awukho.
Amadoda angama-intlonelo, oqinileyo emoyeni, aqale ukulwa nokugqithisa kwangaphandle. Kukho iimeko ezininzi xa izifowuni zisetyenziselwe ukususa umyeni kwintsapho kwaye yena, ezama ukulwa nomnqweno obuhlungu, washiya intsapho, kodwa kungekhona kulowo owenziwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo kulo mzekelo, amadoda asela kwaye awonakalise impilo yabo, ejikeleza iindawo zokutya, ii-casin, njl njl.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanomoya abuthathaka bazinikela kwisipelo, kodwa abanakufumana uxolo kunye nomfazi. Ukuphefumula kunye nezifiso zivela kuphela kumgama, kwaye xa zihamba naye, indoda iyaqala ukuqaphela ukuba apha akayiyo eyedwa. Konke oku kubangela ukuba i-scandals kunye nokuphazamiseka kwemihlaba. Indoda ibambelela kumazwi, ifake kwizinto ezincinci. Uxineke ngumbuso onjalo-imeko yokunyanzeliswa kwaye akakwazi ukusinda kuye. Ngenxa yoko, inqubo yesifo iyabuhlungu, uhlala ehlala kwindawo yokuxhalabisa, ngoko ubeka ingqumbo kumfazi. Ngelishwa, kukho iimeko xa iziphumo ze-twist zikhokelela kwiidrama zamagazi nokuzibulala.
Iziphumo zothando lwabesetyhini
Lowo uyazama ukuthanda, akayithandi indoda nhlobo. UZhensni omnye umfazi onothando akayi kwenza into engonakalisa ubomi bomntu. Ngako oko, amaxesha amaninzi abafazi benza isipelo ngokungazi okanye ngenxa ye "umdlalo wezemidlalo." Umnqweno wokufumana indoda ngeyiphi na indlela umfazi uphakamisela ukubhenela kwimibutho enokuthi ayikwazi ukujamelana nomntu ongeyena mntu. Olu luhlobo luthando ngegazi, iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobugqi bamnyama, ezibandakanya amandla enamandla, ezihlala zibeka ingozi kulabo basebenzisa. Ukubandezeleka nokukhathazeka kwengqondo komntu owenza intando yothando kunokuphela kuphela xa eguqukela kwisenzo sakhe, ukuqonda ukuba zithini izenzo zakhe.
I-Privorot idla ngokuzisa ukungalingani kwamandla kwisimo sabantu, amabali amaninzi anokuvakalayo anokuba yimiphumo yothando lokupasa umntu ophazamisekile ekufeni komntu, ehlangene neziganeko ezimangalisayo ebomini babo. Ezi ngxaki kwiintsapho, emsebenzini, iingxaki zezemali, impilo enobungozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo iingxaki ezinjalo zibizwa ngokuthi "ukuphanga", engazi ukuba zeziphi iziganeko zobomi bazo zingatshintshwa ngendlela engalunganga. Ukuba wenze i spell kungekudala, ke unetyala akufanele likhangelwe. Le yimiphumo yesipelo, onokuyithintela. Nangona kunjalo, umntu okholwayo akaze enze into enjalo, kuba uyazi ngemiphumo.
Ukuba uthando lwentsimbi lwalunomdla kwaye lubulali, ngokukhawuleza uya kuphawula ukuba luhlobo luni lohlwayiso lwakhe olunikezelwa kwintanda. Intombazana iyaqala ngokuqonda ukuba ayithandi. Kwaye esi sihlwayo esibi kakhulu. Eqonda ukuba indoda ixinzelelwe kukuba isondele, ukuba uyaphukiswa ngamazwi onke, ibhinqa liyesaba. Kuza ukutshabalalisa kwangaphakathi ngokupheleleyo ukuba yonke into yayingenanto. Kungagqitywa ukuba umntu ngamnye ufumana oko akufunayo. Ukukhawuleza iziganeko ezithile ngekratshi, unokwenza umgca ngaphantsi kwezinto zokuthanda uthando uze ubeke isazela kunye nempilo yomntu othandekayo.
Indlela yokuphelisa imiphumo yothando lokupasa
Ukupheliswa kwemiphumo yesiphelo kuxhomekeke ekude uye waya kummandla onamandla kangakanani. Ungalindelanga ukuba uya kuvuya kunye kunye. Ukuba kukho into engafanelekanga ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka uzame ukubuyisa ubuhlobo kwizinga langaphambili. Ukuzenza ngathi akukho nto iphosakeleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kusebenza, sidinga inyathelo. Emva koko, xa umntu ehlupheka kakhulu, iziphumo kuwe ziya kuba nzima. Kufanelekile ukuzama ukukopela loo ndoda. Ukuba ibhinqa liye laphawula ukuba ubomi bakhe okanye ubomi bakhe bentsapho bunengxaki, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwimithandazo. Ukuzisola kuphela, kuninzi kakhulu, kuya kunceda umfazi ukuba anqobe iingxaki. Yaye ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngoko ubomi buya kuphucula. Imiphumo yothando lokupaka ingabonakali kakhulu, ngoko cinga malunga nokuba unokwenza isenzo esinjalo okanye ulungele ukulinda ikusasa lakho.