Kukho ngokwenene ingozi: umntwana omncinci udla ngokukhawuleza, efuna ukuzingca. Kodwa kukho, cingela, enye ingozi: ukuzihlukanisa, inkani, inkohlakalo yenziwe kubantwana abathintekayo uthando lomzali, "abanelisekile" kwaye "abangaziqondi".
Kuze kube kutshanje, oogqirha bacebisa: musa ukuziqhelanisa nezandla! Kuya kuba yinto enqabileyo! Ngeke ukwazi ukwenza nantoni na kamva! Kodwa uphando lweminyaka yakutshanje luye lwabonisa ukuba abantwana abazi i-crib yabo kunye ne-arna, baqhubekela phambili, baqala ukuthetha, badla ngokugula rhoqo. Ingcaciso ifumaneka nalokhu: usana luyancwatyiswa yinto yesandi senhliziyo. Iingcali zenzululwazi zenze lo mzamo: zirekhode intliziyo yabesifazane abaninzi kwi-tepi, kwaye yayiquka le rekhodi ecaleni komntwana okhalayo. Ngendlela engaqondakaliyo, omncinci wayevelele ukubetha kwentliziyo yomama phakathi kwabanye kwaye wagxotha, wayeka ukukhala.
Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukugqoka umntwana ngaso sonke ixesha ezandleni zakho! Kwaye akukho mfuneko. Lapha wathatyathwa ngamathoyizi: uyabhaqa ngephonkco, uyakhonkxa i-spoon, iqhube ibhola ... Unokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Kodwa ungalindi kude kube ngumdlalo ubetha, kuze kube yilapho iipuni kunye neebhola ziqhubela kumgangatho kwaye ukugquma kuza kuqala. Kubalulekile ukumbamba umzuzu uze uthathe umntwana ezandleni zakho, uhamba ngeenxa zonke egumbini kunye naye, ubonise oko kwenzekayo emva kwewindow ... Kulungile kumama kumapeni, ukuzola! Umoya waba ngcono, amandla afunyenwe, ngoku ungadlala ngokuncinane.
Umntwana kufuneka abe nomuzwa wokuthi ukhuselwe uthando lomama kuzo zonke iingxaki, ukuba unina uya kuhlala eqonda, enceda, agcine. Oku kubalulekile kuye ngonyaka wokuqala wobomi. Kwaye-ke ngaphezulu ...
Ndiyazi ukuba awuyikuba namandla okondla kakhulu, uchithe iiyure kwisitofu, zama ukubeka umntwana wakho kwiingubo ezingcono ... kwaye udlala kakhulu nendodana yakho okanye, ntombi? Ukuxelela iindaba zobomi bobusuku? Ngaba ucula iingoma? Emva kwakho konke, iikhathuni zethelevishini okanye iintetho ezifakwe kwifilimu ayifaki ukufudumala, ukudibana kwamehlo, ugogo-makhulu: amabali, uthando lomama - konke okuvela kwangaphambili kwakungumnandi wobuntwana ...
Ngogqirha, ngoku i-neuropsychic ukuphazamiseka kweengxaki ze-neuropsychic ezinganeni ezisesikolweni, abafundi beeklasi ezincinci. Esinye sezizathu zezi zinto, ukuxhalaka ngokomoya komntwana, ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano nabazali, ukungabikho kokulungileyo, okulula, owaziyo nokuxolela i-caress.
Umntwana onentlonelo ufuna umonde okhethekileyo, akulula. Kodwa awukwazi ukukhula neentyatyambo, isiqithi, umthi ongenabasebenzi kunye nomonde! Indlela yokukhulisa umntu, ukuba ufuna ukuba abe nomusa, onobubele, onesihawu, ovulekileyo, ekhangele ihlabathi ngokukhawuleza nangokuvuya?