Amanyathelo okuqala kunye nomntwana

Uninzi lwabazali lubona ngentshiseko yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana wabo okokuqala. Ngethuba lokuqala wayemomotheka, waphakamisa intloko yakhe, waqhawula, wazitshisa. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, zilapha-ezihamba phambili! Kodwa akubona bonke ootata kunye nomama baqonda ukuba umntwana kufuneka alungiselele esi siganeko, ukujongana nayo. Emva koko umntwana uya kuhamba ngexesha, ngaphandle kokulibaziseka kwaye uya kuba nethemba kwaye abe namandla ezinyaweni zakhe. Ukuqhuba uqeqesho kufuneka kwenziwe kwinqanaba kwaye ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba umntwana enze umzamo wokuqala wokuma ezinyaweni zakhe.


Ubonisa ukulala phantsi

Umntwana usemncinci kakhulu, uneminyaka engama-3 ubudala. Uguqule imilenze aze aqhube. Oku kuyingqayizivele kwaye kufuneka kusetyenziswe ukuqeqeshwa. Ukuba ubeka umntwana kwindawo ephathekayo kwaye ucinezela izandla zakho ezinyaweni zakhe, uya kuqala ukuphumla nokugxotha phambili, ehamba phambili. Oku kuya kwenzeka xa ubeka umntwana ukuze imilenze yakhe ihlale eludongeni. Uqeqesho olufanelekileyo ekuphuhliseni imisipha luba ngumdlalo "iBhayisikili". Kubalulekile ukunyathela ngokunyanisekileyo iinyawo zakhe kwaye wenze ukuhamba ngemilenze, njengokuba ugibela ibhasikidi. Ingane iya kuba nemihlali kakhulu, ukuba ngelo xesha kwaye ithi: "Masiye, hambani, hambani!"

Kwixesha elizayo, xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba, i-vestibular device iya kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekugcineni ukulinganisela. Ukuqeqesha nokuphuhlisa ibhalansi, ibhola enkulu inceda. Kubalulekile ukuba enye isisu okanye isisu, umqolo ukubeka phezu kwayo inkunzi kwaye ngokuchanekileyo ukwenza ukunyakaza okuhambayo.

Endleleni eya kwindawo yokuma

Kwiinyanga ezinhlanu umntwana ufuna ukunyakaza, kodwa ngoku ukukhwela. Akakwazi ukuhamba ngokuzimela ngenxa yezizathu zomzimba - zonke iintambo zomgudu azizange zenziwe. Kodwa kuye kakade kunokwenzeka ukubonisa indlela enkulu ngayo ukuhamba ngqo. Kule nto, okubizwa ngokuba yi "jumpers" bakhonza. Kodwa ukuba azinjalo, kufuneka unike ithole ithuba lokugxuma, ukubamba izandla. Uya kuvuya kwaye uyonwabe ukukhaba phantsi.

Unokuxelisa ukuhamba komntwana. Ukwenza oku, gcina ithole elimhlophe ukuze imilenze yakhe ifuthe phantsi. Ukuhamba, isinyathelo ngasinye sisisusa kwindawo ukuya endaweni. Kubalulekile ukulandela ixesha lokuzivocavoca ukuze umva wengane ungakhathali.

Ngeenyanga ezili-7, umntwana unako konke okusemandleni akhe, ukuvuka, ukunyuka kwiinyawo zakhe, ozama ukuzenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo akanako ukuzimisela kunye nesibindi sokuziqhawula ebhedeni, isihlalo okanye enye inkxaso. Mncede anqobe ukwesaba ngetekisi ekhangayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuyikrazula kude nomntwana, ivuselele ukuba ihambe. Emva koko umthethele kwisihlalo seengalo okanye umbhede kwaye umntwana, mhlawumbi, uya kuzama ukunyuka emva kwakhe.

Ewe, ukuba umntwana unethuba lokudlala nokuthetha nabantwana abancinci ubudala. Ukuzama ukubalingisa, uya kuzama ukuvuka aze ahambe.

Amanyathelo okuqala okukhululekile

Ngoko, umntwana usele minyaka eyi-8 ubudala. Ihamba ngokukhawuleza ihamba kunye nezihlalo zentonga, izihlalo, iindonga, kodwa zisoyika ukuthatha inyathelo kude nabo. Unokuthatha i-hoop ye-gymnastic, uyibeke ngaphakathi kumntwana kwaye uhambe nayo egumbini. Ngesinye isikhathi umntwana uya kukhulula umda we-hoop aze ahambe. Isixhobo esihle naso isithwathwa somntwana. Usana lwakhe luyakwazi ukujikeleza egumbini, ukufumana umkhuba wokuhamba emilenzeni yakhe.

Malunga nemithetho yokhuseleko

Kumntwana ufunde ukunyathela i-rapids kunye nezinye izithintelo, kufuneka uhambe naye ngesandla ngesandla esingaphantsi kwegumbi, ubonise indlela kunye nokuphakamisa imilenze yakho. Ukuba umntwana uyawa, musa ukuvuselela. Kungcono ukubonisa isizathu sokuwa nokumqinisekisa. Into ephambili kukuba ekamelweni akukho zinto ezinokubangela ukulimala kumntwana, xa iwa. Ezi zibetha, ezibukhali, izinto zetsimbi.

Kuhlala kuthiwa ukuba umntwana akavuki kwiinyawo zakhe emva konyaka, nangona zonke imidlalo kunye naye kunye nokuzivocavoca, kubalulekile ukufuna iingcebiso zonyango kwigqirha.