Ininzi idla ngokukrakra ilahleka ngenxa yokunyamalala kwento enxulumene nolwalamano. Ngokomzekelo, kwakunomdla kumntu ukulandela into yakhe yokukhanga, kwaye emva kwithuba elithile emva kokunciphisa okukhulu kunokwenzeka emgama phakathi kwakhe nomfazi wakhe, kukhokelela ekulahlekelweni komdla wokuncintisana kunye nokuguqulwa kobudlelwane beeholide ukuya kwiimviki ezivelele. Kule meko, uluntu lwabesetyhini lucebisa abaodade babo ukuba bazame ukwandisa lo mda. Ngokomzekelo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukulungelelanisa amaqela asezinkukhu kunye namaqela ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwindoda yakho, okanye nje ukuhamba ubusuku bonke kwiintombi zakho. Unokuzama ukulala kwiibhedi ezahlukeneyo - oku kunokuba nomphumo onqwenelayo.
Qinisekisa kumntu ukuba akayena intombi yakho, ngubani omele azi kakuhle zonke iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo - ungahlanganyeli ngcamango malunga nobuhlobo bakho naye (yenza nje ngaphandle kwengxoxo engadingekile). Akufuneki ukuba uxelele isiqingatha sesibini malunga nanyathelo lonke othabathayo (ndaya kwi-shower, uye kwivenkile, njl.) - makangazi malunga nawe yonke into encinane ngawe kwaye akayi kucetyiswa malunga nazo zonke izenzo zakho. Eminye imfihlelo!
Akukho ndlela engaphantsi kweyona nto iya kuba ngumbutho wesidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye nokuqhutyelwa kokumema kolunye uhlobo lwe-striptease okanye nje umdaniso odibeneyo. Yaye imimiselo efunekayo ibonisa ukungabikho kwazo zonke iindidi zeemibuzo kunye neengcamango, ezikuthi uThixo akayikuzikhupha, ziza kuphazamisa kulolu busuku. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuqhubeka kokuhlwa akufanele kube "njengesiqhelo". Bonisa ukucinga kwakho embhedeni! Kwanele ukuphinda okuphindwa rhoqo ebusuku! Dlala emidlalweni ekhethekileyo yokudlala indima, kwaye ndiqinisekisa ukuba bobabini bayakuthanda.
Ngoku ke masibuyele kwiingcamango zengcali. Batsho ukuba ukukhanga kwangaphandle kwendoda kunye nomfazi kuya kunceda ukugcina umnqweno olwalamano. Ngokombono weengqondo zeengqondo kunye neengcali, ukukhangela ngokwesondo kunye nokomoya ngokukrakra kwesi sikhubekiso kubangela ukuba abantu babalekele ngamava onke baze bahambe ngendlela enothando. Ingumnqweno olwalamano oluthandayo uthando olude kunye olunamandla. Kwiimvakalelo ezinomdla zothando, amadoda nabesifazane bayakhohlwa ngabanye kunye nokusilela kwabo, kulula ukuxolela naziphi na iimpazamo kunye neempazamo. Ngaba akuyiyo izulu?
Ngelishwa, yonke intsha isondela kwinhloko yento enye: ukunyamekela kunye nokuthanda imfucu kubangela imiphumo engathandekiyo kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo obuphathekayo. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuqonda nokuthanda kumntu umphefumlo, kwaye kungabonakali. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nanye kulaba "bahlakaniphile" ootitshala abaqineli ukuba uthando luyisiseko sokuphila kunye namandla olwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Kwaye okwangoku, izazinzulu zenze uphando, zafumanisa iinkcukacha ezithile malunga nefuthe lomdla kumntu. Ngoko, umzekelo, umntu, ehlala enomdla, uyazama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuzisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Kwakhona ukuvakalelwa komnqweno ukwandisa umsebenzi walezo ndawo zengqondo ejongene nemvakalelo yokuvuya kunye nokuziphatha okulungileyo. Ngelo xesha, umsebenzi weengxenye zengqondo ejongene nokwesaba kunye noxinzelelo kuncitshiswa kakhulu.
Inendima ebalulekileyo idlalwe ngumnqweno wokuphumeza ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi komntu kunye naye. Kwaye, ke, akukho mntu uya kuthi umxhwele ukhangele iinqweno zesini.
Ngelishwa, inzondelelo, njengokuthandana, ayidluli iphela iminyaka engama-2-3. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo eli thuba liyancitshiswa kakhulu. Ewe, oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba amaninzi amaninzi afunekayo ukugcina eli rhulumente. Nangona kunjalo, ukugcina umnqweno awuthandi kuphela, kodwa kuyimfuneko, kuba, njengoko kushiwo ngaphambili, oku kuyisiseko esihle sokuba nolwalamano oluqinileyo.
Ngokwezinzululwazi, emva kokuthanda, njengomvuzo, kufuneka kube nomthando, umkhwa kumlingane. Kodwa isinamathiselo iyancipha.
Ngasentla sanikwa iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokugcina umdla kwibudlelwane bomntu kunye nomfazi. Kodwa loo nto yayingamava ayenzi esinye isizukulwana. Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba injini enkulu yethando i-adrenaline. Yaye neengcebiso zabo: zama ukufumana le adrenaline rhoqo - ingaba uhambo oluya kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga, okanye ukudibanisa isibhakabhakeni, kodwa oku kufanele kube yinto ethile ekugqibeleni wena nomntu wakho womntu. Futhi ungakulibali malunga neyinto enobungakanani kulwalamano.