Nawuphi na umntwana uthanda amathoyizi, nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa, banomthwalo wokuphuhlisa. Ngoxa uncedo lwamathoyizi umntwana wakho ufunda ihlabathi elijikelezile. Xa umntwana engakabi ngumnyaka ubudala, unomdla kwiintlobo ezihlukahlukeneyo zokugubha, ukugqithisa, iityshi ezikhanyayo ezingenakufaneleka kwimidlalo. Kodwa emva konyaka, xa umntwana esele eqala ukuhamba ngenkuthalo, thetha, ngoko kufuneka asebenzise amathoyizi ayenzelwe ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo kule minyaka.
Xa uneminyaka yobudala ukuya kwimithathu emithathu, amathoyizi amakhulu, ngaphandle kweenkcukacha ezincinci, zilungile, kuba umntwana ngeli xesha uyazitshintsha ngokugqithiseleyo yonke into ekhoyo emlonyeni wakhe. Ingqalelo eninzi ithathwa kwiintlobo zamathoyizi kunye nomculo, kunye namaqela amaninzi. Le nto ingaba yithuba elifanelekileyo lokuthenga uothutho lokuqala lomntwana. Isithuthi esinjalo sinokuba ibhayisiki lomculo. Okokuqala, unina unako ukukhawuleza, kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntwana uya kujonga kakhulu, "bibikaya" nayo.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba iminyaka yobudala kwiminyaka emithathu iyona minyaka eqeqeshelwa ngokulula, xa umntwana efunda lula kwi-80% yolwazi olufunyenwe kwilizwe langaphandle. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, ngoku kunokwenzeka ukuba uqale uqeqesho lokuqala kwiinombolo kunye neelfabhethi. Ukunceda, kukho iikhabhi ezahlukeneyo, izilwanyana ezincinane, iiflegi zezingane, imifanekiso yeencwadi. Iincwadi kulo mzekelo kufuneka ukuba zizinto ezinamandla - iikhadibhodi okanye iplastiki, ngaphandle koko kukho umngcipheko wokushiywa ngaphandle kwencwadi ngosuku lokuqala lokuthenga.
Xa ubonisa okuthile kumntwana, qiniseka ukuchaza izenzo zakho kunye nesihloko ngokwalo, umzekelo, phawula ukuba ibhaluni ihlale iboshwe ngentambo, ukuze ihlale ihluthe. Nika umntwana ukuba adlale nebhola, engakabanjwa. Emva kokuba ubophe ibhola, ungadlala ekuphonsa ibhola, kwaye ke, usebenzisa iipencilisi ezininzi kunye nabamakishi, bhala iibhola kwiphepha, unamathele emicu.
Ukuba ukhathele ukudweba ngeepensile, ke enye enye ingabonwa ngamanwe. Inolwazi kwaye iyonwabile. Unokuprinta kwiphepha lepaji, uze udibanise imibala. Ngekwindla, unokuqokelela amaqabunga ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo, uwagubungele ngepende uze wenze iziprintshi ezahlukeneyo ephepheni. Kwaye, njengokuba ukhetha, ungapendela la magqabi ngemibala eyahlukileyo ngoncedo lwegouache kunye ne-brush.
Imveliso yamathoyizi amantombazana inikeza iintlobo zeedokodo ezaziyo ukutya, ukupheka, ukuhamba. Baya kunika ukutya kunye neenguqu zabo. Izenzo ezinjalo zilungiselela amantombazana ngokuza kuba ngumama, kuba ngale ndlela, ufunda ngokubonakalayo ubudlelwane phakathi komama nomntwana. Kuba amakhwenkwe afaneleka kakuhle amaqumrhu ahlukeneyo, iimoto, anokuziqokelela aze azidibanise, ukuze abone oko ngaphakathi.
Kufuneka ukuba kubekho iindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo kwimidlalo yebhokhwe yakho. Abantwana kwiminyaka yesibini yesibini yokuphila abanakunikwa iidonki eziqhelekileyo kunye needodoli ezibonisa abantwana. Ingane yakho idinga ukulibiza igama ledoli, ukuba likwiphepha. Ukuba akukho ligama, unako ukuza kunye nalo. Kule meko, idonki iya kuba kufuphi nomntwana. Ukuthenga idodoli, gcinani engqondweni ukuba umdlalo kunye naye usadinga ifenitshala, izitsha zododoli, ezifanele zifanise ubungakanani bedoli.
Ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abantwana banoma yiliphi na isini banomdla wokudlala amathoyizi atyhila izilwanyana ezahlukeneyo. Abafana badinga imoto. Amathoyizi kufuneka abe mkhulu ukwenzela ukuba iintsana zikwazi ukuziphethe kakuhle kwaye zenze izinto ezahlukeneyo.
Intsimi enkulu yengcinga yomntwana yintlobo yeetekethi ezifuneka ziqokelelwe kwaye zidibaniswe. Benza ukuba nomdla ohlala ixesha elide. Abantwana ukusuka komnye ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu bafanelekile kwiisethi ezahlukeneyo zeenkuni okanye iplastiki ngeenkcukacha ezinkulu zohlobo ezahlukeneyo. Ingaba yimisilinda, izitena, iipiramidi.
Inzala enkulu kubantwana ibangelwa izinto ezenziwe ngamathoyizi ezenziwe kwizinto ezilungelelanisiweyo: amakhadibhodi, iphepha, iifolothi, iigobols, iigonyi, i-foam, i-rabra foam, intsimbi, umthi, udongwe, njl. Kubalulekile ekwenzeni loo nto yokudlala kukubona kubantwana, njengabantu abadala. Bayalindela ukunyamezela okukhulu kunye nenjabulo ngexesha apho umdlalo ekugqibeleni ulungele ukuwufumana, uyavuya kakhulu. Iingcali zincoma kubantwana beemidlalo ezihlukeneyo ezahlukeneyo, ezifana neepramramid, iidonki zokuzilalisa, iifologi.
Cinga ingqwalasela ebalulekileyo ebaluleke kakhulu phakathi kwamathoyizi abantwana ukusuka komnye ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala, kufuneka kubekho amathoyizi ahlakulela ukunyakaza: ukunqumla iindophi, iibhola, iibhola ze-bowling, kunye ne-must-have blade, i-scoop kunye nebhakethi, kunye ne-molds, kufuneka ibe yinto enyanzelisayo kwiisethi zeeyayibatho.
Abantwana kwiminyaka yesibini yokuphila kufuneka benze indawo yokudlala, apho ayeza kuba nethuba lokudlala kwaye angaphazamisi nabani na. Kwinqona efanayo kukugcinwa kwamathoyizi. Kulo kona, unokubeka izitulo zabantwana kunye netafile, isitrki esincinci, isitrholo okanye i-rack. Umgangatho kweli sebe lilungele ukudibana nombhobho omncinane.
Kukulungele ukubeka amathoyizi kwimiba efanelekileyo ngeesethi ezifanelekileyo: faka uomatshini kufuphi nedayisi, idonki kufuneka ihlale kwisitrato, njl njl. Kufuneka kwakhona ufumane indawo yezinto ezifana nephepha elinemibala, amakhadibhodi kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, amapende kunye namapensele asembala, izixhobo ezihlukileyo, izimbiza ezingenanto, iibhokisi kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko kwiintlobo zemidlalo yezingane.
Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alondoloze umyalelo kwinqanaba lezemidlalo. Mfundise ukuba agqoke kwindawo yokudlala. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, umntwana uhlakulela uthando ngokuchaneka, ukuziphatha ngokubhekiselele kumathoyizi nezinto.
Abazali bakhuthazwa ukuba baphinde bahlaziye amathoyizi ngezikhathi ezithile baze balahle abo baphukile. Kwaye le midlalo yamathoyizi, engayidlala yinkomo, kufuneka ithathwe kwenye indawo. Ngaloo ndlela, xa umntwana eyayifumana kwakhona, uya kuvuyiswa ngaphandle kweyona entsha.
Kusenzima kumntwana ukuba agcine umyalelo kwikona yakhe. Kule nto ufuna nje uncedo lwabazali bakhe ukwenza izinto ezifana nokucoca uthuli kwiithala, ukuhlamba iimathoyi, uhlambulule umtshini ngomshanelo okanye ucoceko lokucoca. Amathoyizi kufuneka ahlanjwe ngamanzi afudumele kunye nesepha, uze uhlambulule kakuhle kwaye umile emoyeni omtsha. Iidyesi ezingenakuhlamba kufuneka zihlazizwe ngezikhathi kwaye zilahlwe. Ukuba izinto ezinjalo zidlala ngcolile, kufuneka zinikezelwe ukuba zicoceke.
Inyaniso yokuba unikezele indawo yemidlalo kunye namathoyizo omntwana yincenye yolu daba. Into ebalulekileyo ifundisa umntwana ukuba enze imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kunye neethayi. Umzekelo, fundisa ukulandelelana kwendlela yokugqoka nokugodla idonsa, ukulungiselela isidlo kwaye udle iidodoli kunye nezilwanyana ngokuhlwa kwasemini, ubenze balale, kwaye bafundise ukulayishwa kweekhebhu emotweni, baze bathumele kwenye indawo.
Ukuba ufundisa umntwana wakho ukusebenzisa izinto zokwakha, ngoko unokunceda kakhulu. Okokuqala, qhawula umntwanakho ngeenkcukacha zonke kwiikiti, zithi igama, iimpawu zale ngxenye kunye nobungakanani. Emva koko bhengeza umntwana ngenjongo yenkcazelo nganye, mbonise ukuba yiziphi iindawo ezilungele ukwakha inxalenye enye, kwaye yintoni enye. Emva koko, kufuneka ubonise indlela yokwakha igaraji, indlu, uthango okanye nayiphi na isakhiwo.
Xa abantwana bedlala imidlalo, bavame ukuvela kwiimeko ezahlukileyo kwilizwe labo lomhlaba. Kwaye ukuze umculi wakho oyintandokazi engagqibi kwintetho yakhe, kufuneka ubonise umdla kumdlalo wakhe wokudlala, uthathe inxaxheba kwimveliso eyahlukeneyo, udlale indima eyahlukileyo. Kwaye kulo mzekelo umntwana wakho uya kuba neengane ezinengqondo kunye nentlalo.