Ngoku uhlobo lwefantasy lufumana ukuthandwa. Akunakwenzeka ukufumana umntwana ongaziqhelani nemisebenzi yamagama edumile, iifilimu ezenziwe kule hlobo okanye imidlalo ngenxa yezi zizathu. Ukwandisa, abazali banemibuzo: njani inzululwazi yembono echaphazela ingqondo yabantwana abavuthiweyo? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuvumela umntwana ukuba athathwe ngamazwe angaziwa okanye ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuyeka ukuzonwabisa okunjalo? Masiqwalasele ngokubanzi zonke iingxoxo kunye nokuchasene.
Okokuqala, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba imfesane njengento yohlobo ivela kwiintsomi kunye neenganekwane, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuthi ngamnye kuthiwa wafundwa kubo bobabini ebuntwaneni, ephuma kulezi ncwadi zengcinga eziziingqondi. Akunakwenzeka ukufumanisa nayiphi na into engalunganga kwimfundiso yabantwana ngemimangaliso neenganekwane, ezixutywa ngokucwiliswa kwihlabathi elimangalisayo.
Okwesibini, phakathi kwemisebenzi emnandi yinto enobulunga obuphezulu kunye nezobugcisa. Olu hlobo luquka neencwadi zezingane ngo-Kira Bulychev, uVitaly Gubarev (owaziwayo kakhulu kumnandi wefriy story "Ubukumkani bezithako ezinqamlekileyo"), u-Eugenia Veltistov, umdali wesithandwa esinye isizukulwana se-Electronics, imisebenzi kaHerbert Wells kunye nomlobi we-Harry Potter uchungechunge, uJoan Rowling. Ngayinye yale mi sebenzi yafumana ukuqwalaselwa koluntu kunye nabantwana abaninzi, kunye nabantu abadala, incwadi eyintandokazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba luncedo kumntwana wakho ukufunda iincwadi zobugcisa behlabathi.
Okwesithathu, ukufunda iincwadi ezimnandi kunye nokubukela iifilimu kule hlobo kudala imfesane, ngaloo ndlela uqeqesha ingqondo yomntwana. Apha, njengomthetho, imifanekiso idalwe kakhulu kude neyinyani, ngokuziphatha okungagqibekanga kunye nobuchule obuhlukile. Umntwana, ebonisa indlela yokuziphatha kunye nomlingiswa wabalinganiswa, ufunda ukuhamba ngaphaya kobuninzi bemihla ngemihla kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto ezintle. Ngamanye amaxesha ihlabathi elimangalisayo lichazwe ngokucacileyo ukuba umntwana uyisilingo esinzima sokukholelwa oko akufundayo okanye oko akujongayo. Eli hlabathi lingaba mnandi ngakumbi kuye, kuba abantwana bathambekele ekuzibonakaliseni ngamaqhawe. Inkulu kakhulu ingongoma, ukuba kwihlabathi langempela umntwana akanelisekile, akhathazeke ngenxa yezinye iingxaki zakhe, kwaye kwilizwe elimnandi libonakala ngathi lixhoba elingenakukhusela, liwunqobe wonke umntu kunye nomntu wonke obangela ukunyaniseka okungaqhelekanga, engabikho ebomini. Ukuba umntwana uchitha ixesha elide kakhulu kunye neencwadi, iifilimu okanye imidlalo efana neentlobo zeengcamango, uyaza ngokukhawuleza ukuba adibanise okanye abonise ezinye izakhiwo zemilingo kwizinto zangempela, kubalulekile ukuthatha amanyathelo angxamisekileyo.
Isibini sibalulekileyo kodwa umgangatho weengcamango. Ukwandisa, abadali bemisebenzi bayabhenela kwiindawo zokulwa, ubundlobongela, inkohlakalo. Umntwana, egxininisa kweli hlabathi, utshintshela lo mzekelo wokuziphatha ukuba uyenze. Izinto eziza kuqala ziguqulwe, kwaye ukubunjwa kobuntu kuhamba ngendlela engafanelekanga. Umntwana unqabile ukubona ubundlobongela njengento engaqhelekanga kunye neyobubi, kuba kwilizwe eliyingcamango liqhelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abalobi baxhatshaza iziganeko ezinjalo kangangokuba umntwana unengcamango engafanelekanga yokungahlawuli kunye nokungafunyanwanga kwenzo yobundlobongela.
I-psyche yengane iplastiki enkulu kwaye iyakwamkela, kwaye ngoko lula kwaye ikhawuleza nayiphi na amava, ingaba ityala okanye ayibi. Umsebenzi wabazali kukulawula umgangatho kunye nobungakanani bolwazi oluza kumntwana. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhangele iincwadi, iifilimu okanye imidlalo eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho. Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge oko akucelayo-funda ukuhlolwa kweemveliso, yenza isicatshulwa somntu siqu. Ukulandelela zonke iziganeko, ezingathandabuzekiyo kwimiba yokuziphatha neyokuziphatha kwaye ufumane izigqibo ukuba kulungile ukubonisa le filimu kumntwana.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuvinjelwa akusoloko kulungile. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana, efunda ukuba akavumelekanga ukuba afunde incwadi okanye abukele ifilimu, uqala ukukhangela indlela yokufumana into engavumelekanga. Kwaye ukufumana, okuninzi, kuya kwenza izigqibo eziphosakeleyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, unokucebisa ukubonisana ngokubambisana kwefilimu engabazekanga okanye ingxoxo yencwadi oyifunayo. Nangona olu hlobo alukhanga, banika ixesha. Ingxoxo edibeneyo izokukunceda ukuba unike inkambo efanelekileyo kwimibono yengane yakho. Uya kuthetha naye ngolwimi olunye kwaye uya kuba nako ukuchaza ezo zihlandlo ezingenakuqondwa ngengqondo yomntwana. Leli thuba elihle kakhulu lokwenza iingcamango zomntwana, kwaye ngaphezu koko, ingxoxo edibeneyo nabantu abadala ayivumeli umntwana ukuba azicwilise kwilizwe elimnandi.
Ukongeza kwimgangathweni, kufuneka ulawule ixesha elichithwe lifunda iincwadi ezintle okanye ubukele ezo zifilimu. Qinisekisa ukuba wenze ezinye zezi zifundo kunye nezinye izinto, kodwa ungathandeki kumntwana: udlale imidlalo egcobayo kunye nentsapho yonke, hamba ukukhwela nge-roller okanye skate, uye kwindawo yokudlala. Ngoko umntwana uya kufunda ngokuchanekileyo ukuqonda inzululwazi-njengenye yeendlela zokuzonwabisa zokuzonwabisa, kodwa akukho.
Njengaye yonke into ehambelana nokukhuliswa kunye nophuhliso lwabantwana, indlela ebalulekileyo ibalulekile kubundlelwane bakho nokuxhamla komntwana ngefantasy. Ngomntwana omnye, emele ngokunyanisekileyo kwiinyawo zakhe, kunye nengcamango encinci, ukuthabatha imfesane kuya kusebenziswa kuphela - oku kuya kwandisa imida yolwazi kwaye kuphuculwe ingcamango, kude nokucinga okukodwa. Ngomnye umntwana, onobungqina bemoya obunqabileyo, ukucinga ngogonyamelo nokunyaniseka okuphezulu, kuyinqweneleka ukunciphisa ukudibanisa kunye nefantasy, kuba umntwana enjalo uhlambela kwihlabathi elinyanisekileyo, ephuka kude nenyaniso.
Ukwahlula nomntwana wakhe umdlalo, uya kuthetha naye ngolwimi olunye kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uvalelwe. Kananjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kufumanisa izinto ezininzi. Ngoku uyazi ukuba indlela emangalisa ngayo ithinta ngayo ingqondo yengqondo yomntwana.