Ndiqinisekile ukuba unengxaki malunga nosuku xa kuzalwa iziqu: ufunde uncedo olubalulekileyo, uye kwiikhosi zabazali abancinci, ngokubanzi, ukulungiselela ukuzala.
Kodwa, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, zonke izilungiselelo zihlala zijongana nexesha elibalulekileyo eliya emva kokuzalwa-ixesha ochithayo kunye nosana esibhedlele. Ngeentsuku ezili-3-5 kuphela, kodwa kakhulu kuxhomekeka kubo - okokuqala, ukuba ikusasa lakho lilele "ngembali yobisi." Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha oku kuphazamiseka yi-myths ezi-3 eziqhelekileyo ngokunyusa ubisi lomntwana.
Inkolelo-mvelaphi 1 : akukho mbala - i-baby is starving!
Ngomso kusihlwa, umnxeba kwi-mobile, kwelinye isiphelo - udade ovuyayo. Ndixelele ukuba ndenzeni, umfazi wam walahleka! Umntwana ezimbini iintsuku, uyakhala njalo. Umongikazi, ecinezela ingxowa, akafumananga nantoni ebantwini bakhe, wathi akukho mbala, umntwana kufuneka atyiswe ngokukhawuleza. Yintoni esimele siyenze? "Le, hayi, imeko eqhelekileyo, kwaye ngelishwa, akusoloko esondele kumama osemncinci onguchwepheshe onokwazi onokunika impendulo echanekileyo. Kwiintsuku zokuqala zombala kwi-mammary gland yowesifazane obelethile akwanele. uyazi ukuba nangona ukuba ukukhulelwa konke kulungiselelwe ukunyusa, izinga lokuvelisa ubisi kwiintsuku zakudala lisezantsi. Iingcamango zokusondeza ubisi lomntwana zininzi kakhulu, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha akufanele ukuthembela inkolelo yokuqala ekhoyo.
Ukulungelelanisa , njengesitimela, ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. Uphando lwezenzululwazi luqinisekisa oku. Kucaciswa ukuba ngomhla wokuqala we-colostrum, kuphela i-10 ukuya ku-100 g kuphela inokuveliswa! Kakade ke, xa uhlambalaza, akukho mongikazi okanye ugqirha kwi-detour angayifumana. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ibele ayinalutho kwaye umntwana akanamdla nantoni na. Ngoko ke, umgaqo oqaqambileyo weentsuku zokuqala ukufaka umntwana kwibele nangona konke! Ubume bulumko ngokulungelelanisa yonke into: kwibala, egcina iintsuku ezingama-3-4, umntwana usweleka. Yaye ayilahlekanga ngenxa yokuba akanako ukondla okwaneleyo, kodwa kuba kwiiveki zokugqibela zobomi obungaphambi kokubeletha umntwana uhlale ephethe "uphethiloli", oko kukuthi, ukubuyiswa, kunye neendawo zokugcina amanzi. "Umzimba wakhe uyazi ukuba emva kokuzalwa, , uhlobo oluhluke ngokupheleleyo lokutya, kunye nesondlo sonke sezondlo zokutya ekudleni okunjalo kufuneka sisilungelelanise!
Oku kwenzeka ngokuthe ngcembe, ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokwanda kwebhola lebhokhwe lomama, kwaye ngoko kubonakala kubisi. Ukuze yonke inkqubo ihambe kakuhle, ukuze zonke iinkqubo zomzimba zibandakanyeke kumsebenzi omtsha, "ziqaphele" ukuba zenzeni kwaye zisebenza njani, ukuze zingabikho ngaphezu kokugaya inani elikhulu lokutya, zineentsuku eziyi-3-4 zokufumana izinto ezongezelelweyo! , ngoko umntwana uyakhala, ucela: Umntwana akahluphekanga ngenxa yokulamba, kodwa ngenxa yokuxinwa kokuzalwa.Cinga ukuba umntwana wazalwa kwihlabathi elitsha elingaziwayo.Ukuguquka ukusuka ebomini bomntwana ebomini kwilizwe langaphandle luyinto yokuqala yokuxhamla kuye. badinga ixesha lokwenza kwaye uncedo lokuncedisa, ukuxhasa kunye nokukhuthaza! Kodwa ingekho ibhotile enomxube. Ukugqoba kwiipenki ngobuninzi (umama, utata, abancedisayo), qha ga mshelana nesikhumba, izikhonkco eziqhelekileyo kwisifuba, kunceda umntwana ukuba abhekane neempembelelo ezichukumisayo zehlabathi elitsha - ngaba ngaba bancedisi abakhulu abaya kuncedisa umntwana ukuba anqobe uxinzelelo lwentsana.
Iingcamango malunga nokuondla ubisi lomntwana: ibele kufuneka ihlanjululwe!
Ngokomyinge, ngomhla we-3-5, umama uqala ukuva ukuzaliswa kwebele, kwanda ngevolumu. Ngamanye amaxesha iimvakalelo ezifubeni azikhenkce kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba loo ntokazi isoloko isetyenziselwa umntwana kwibele. Kwaye abanye oomama bazizwa benamandla kakhulu - isifuba siba buhlungu, sinzima kakhulu (phantse ilitye ukuya kumgca), kwaye apha ufuna udinga! Kodwa ulinde ukugijima emva kwe-masseuse uze uqale ukungavumelani. Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba akunjalo rhoqo uncedo lukhuselekile. Ingqungquthela yesigxina somfazi osandul 'ukuzala, iyilungu elincinci kakhulu nelithenda, elifanele liphathwe ngononophelo. Isifuba asiyikunyamezela amandla okusila, ukucima kunye "ukucima." Ngoko ke, ukuba wenza isifuba sebele, kwaye utyhafile, sebenzisa abantu abaninzi kuthetha:
Ukuma esesitheni, uqondise umlambo ofudumele wamanzi kwindawo yamagxa ehlombe kunye nommandla wekollar. Emva kokuba uhlamba, zama ukuhlambulula amabele akho ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ubisi luya kuqala.
Ukuba akukho nto yokuthatha ishawa, kodwa kukho i-diaper kunye namanzi afudumeleyo, sebenzisa izikhonkco ezincinzini ezimanzi ngamanzi atshisayo (kodwa kungabikho i-scalding) kunye ne-diapers.
Ukuba unesitya esinzulu (isitya), ungasithelela amanzi afudumele kuwo kwaye unciphise izilwanyana ezincinci kuwo. Qalisa ukusilalisa lula. Isifuba esincinci sachithwa, ukukhululeka kwakucatshulwa -yeka ukupompa! Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba ufumane i-maride if you apply crumbs to each breast after an hour.
Inkolelo-mfundiso yesi-2 : ihlupheke, idilika kuyo yonke!
Akunjalo. Isizathu sokuqhawulwa sisikhonkco esilunganga, xa kuphela intonga yesifuba somama ingena emlonyeni omncinci, kungekhona yonke into. Ingcamango "Akukho nto, ndiza kubandezeleka, ngoko umntwana uya kufunda" akuyi kubakho kwiziphumo ezilungileyo.Umntwana ngokwakhe akayi kufunda ukuba awufundanga! Ukuba unomuvo wokuthi umntwana akayikubeka kakuhle, mkhulule ngokukhululekile isifuba.
Iingcamango malunga nokuondla ubisi bomntwana zihluke kakhulu, ngoko ke ngaphambi kokukholwa konke oku, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba ugqirha. Yizisa ingono kwiiponji zesiponji kwaye uyitshintshe kakuhle. Ekuphenduleni, umntwana uyazivula umlomo, kwaye ngeli nqanaba kufuneka uzame ukubeka ngokuthe ngqo umfuzo emlonyeni womntwana.