Umsebenzi wethu kukuxelela malunga nabaxhasayo abanomdla kunye nabachasene neengcamango ezithile ezichasene nesimo, kwaye bakhuthaze ukuba ucinge ngako kwaye, mhlawumbi, utshintshe ingqondo yakho okanye uyeke ukuba ube neqela. Nceda uncedo olungcono kubazali: impilo yomntwana isezandleni zakho, kwaye yinyaniso.
Izitya
Ukugqithisa abantwana kwi-sling-slings-eRussia yaqala ngokutsha nje, malunga neminyaka eyi-8 edlulileyo. Kodwa kule ngcaciso emfutshane izilwanyana zazinabalandeli kunye nabachasi.
Abaxhasayo bathetha ntoni!
Umzimba womntwana kwisalathisi esifanelekileyo uphindaphindiwe kwindawo yendalo "kwiingalo zomama." Umama kulula ukuhlala kwixesha "lolawulo" lophuhliso lomntwana. Umama uzizwa engcono xa umntwana esecaleni. Kwi-sling, unako ukumncelisa umntwana ngaphandle kokutsala ingqalelo yomntu wonke. Izifundo zaseNtshona ziqinisekisa ukuba: ukugqoka umntwana kwisityeni kunempembelelo entle ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo yengane. Ngokungafani nezinye izixhobo zokugqoka umntwana, isalathisi ayilula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa - akunakwenzeka ukuyibopha okokuqala, oku kufuneka ufunde. Izicubu ezincinci ziyakwazi ukuphazamisa ukufikeleleka komoya, kwaye umntwana unokuntula i-oxygen. Umntwana omncinci, xa egqoba isalathisi, unyanzelekile ukuba anamathele njalo ekhaleni unina kwaye akawuboni ihlabathi elikufutshane naye.
Iidrafers
Elizweni lethu, imbali yabasahluli abalahlayo, ngokungafani ne-sligs, sele ijikeleze iminyaka emininzi, kodwa ingxabano malunga nokulimala kwabo kunye nenzuzo ayisohlisiyo.
Yintoni abaxhasi abatshoyo?
Umama akadingeki ukuba achithe lonke ixesha lokukhulula ekuhlambuleni kunye ne-ironing diapers. Unokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunye nosana ngeeyure eziliqela. Yonke into "engumngcipheko wengane" ihlala ngaphakathi kwi-diaper, kwaye ingekho phantsi kunye nesepha okanye ikhwekhwe lomama. Ingane ayiphazamisi kwimidlalo esebenzayo. Ukusetyenziswa kwee-diapers kunokukhokelela kwi-diaper ukukhawuleza kunye ne-diaper dermatitis, ngenxa yokuba isikhumba somntwana asiphefumli. I-diaper inokubangela ukufudumala, ngakumbi ingozi kubafana. Ngokusetyenziswa rhoqo kweengqungquthela, umngcipheko wokuphuhlisa izifo ezahlukeneyo zamanzi emanzini kwandisa amantombazana.
4 iintsomi malunga nokunakekela abantwana
Abantwana abancinci badinga ukucoceka nobutyebi. Yingakho sisebenzisa ukucoceka kwamanzi imihla ngemihla, kwaye sihlamba iimathoyizi zabantwana kanye ngeveki. Kakade, akufanele uvumele iimeko zokungcola. Kodwa ungayithandi: umntwana ufuna ukukhusela umkhuhlane, ukungcola kunye neebhaktheriya, kwaye ngenxa yoko kufuneka babe khona kwindlu. Iidrafers zingakhokelela ekungabikho komntwana kumakhwenkwe kunye nokuhlanganiswa kwe-labia (synechiae) kumantombazana. Abafana abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7-8 abanakho u-spermatogenesis, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuchaphazela umsebenzi wesini. I-synechia kumantombazana yenziwa ngokusukelana ngokugqithiseleyo kwe-mucosa ye-labia minora kwimvelaphi yokuntuleka kwama-hormone e-estrogen. Ngokwezibalo, i-synechia iyaphiliswa ngokupheleleyo kumantombazana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba baqhubeka bembatha i-diapers okanye kungekhona. Unina ongumhlengikazi akafanelekanga, kukho anyanisi kunye negalikhi, ngaphandle koko umntwana uya kunika ibele. Isiqhelo sithetha okuchaseneyo: abaninzi abantwana baqala ukutya nangomnqweno ongakumbi. Ukuba umntwana ugoba ngonyaka, iinwele zakhe ziya kuba zinzima. Xa uneminyaka eli-100 ubudala, iinwele zeentloko ziqala ukutshintshwa ngeenwele ezipheleleyo. Ukukhanda kweenwele kudala ukucinga okubonakalayo: kubonakala ngathi iinwele ezikhulayo ziba zikhulu, kodwa ngokwenene isakhiwo saso sitshintsha. Umntwana ohlala egqoka i-diapers, kunzima ukujwayela ibhodwe. Idiapers indleko yemali eninzi.
Ukuxiliswa emva konyaka
Esi sihloko sihlala sisishukumisa ngokwenene kwi-Intanethi, nangobomi bokwenene. Kwaye ukuba wonke umntu uyavuma ukuba ukunyamezela unyaka kuyakunceda kwaye kuyimfuneko kumntwana, ngoko umbuzo wezinzuzo zokuncelisa ixesha elide uvuselela ingxabano evuthayo.
Yintoni abaxhasi abatshoyo?
Emva konyaka kunye nobisi lomama, izondlo kunye namavithamini zigcinwe, kusenza kube negalelo ekubunjweni kwe-immunity. Ukuqhawula ngokukrakra kuyingozi ngenxa yengqondo yomntwana. Simele silinde de umntwana ngokwakhe engasadingi intsasa. Ukuncwina yindlela eyona yendalo yokuzinza umntwana. Ukuba sele umntwana eseluswini, kunzima ngakumbi ukuba umama aphume ukusebenza okanye ahambe eholide nomyeni wakhe, eshiya umntwana ekunyamekelweni kukagogo. Ukuncelisa ixesha elingapheliyo akuyithinteli kakhulu umzimba wesetyhini, ngaphezu koko, oomama abangabongikazi banzima kakhulu ukubeka iliso kumntu wabo kwaye kunzima ukubuyela kwisisindo esidlulileyo. Umama, ukuncelisa iminyaka engama-2-3 yomntwana wakhe, ubonakala engalungile. Ukukhula, abantwana baqala ukusebenzisa ukuncelisa ukunyamezela kwengqondo kunye nokuncinci - ukuze banelise indlala. Kuze kube ngoku, aluzange ifundwe ukuba ukuxiliswa kwexesha elide kuthintela njani ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye neengcinga zengqondo zesondo zomntwana. Ukuncelisa ixesha elide kunokuthintela umntwana ukuba akhule, azive njengomntu ohlukeneyo aze azimele. Abantwana, oomama abanamabele kunye nangemva konyaka, bavame ukukhula bengenangqondo kunye nabantwana abancinci. Ubuthongo obuhlangeneyo luncedo kwaye akuyiyo yonke into eyoyikisayo. Ewe! Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, ubuthongo obunamathelwano bunikeza umntwana intsingiselo yokhuseleko, ukhuthaza ukutshatyalaliswa komama nomntwana kwaye, ngokubanzi, uphatha kakubi umoya emoyeni. Khumbula: "thumela" umntwana akanakwenzeka - inkunzi iya kukuxelela ukuba ukuhamba kwakho kuyimvimbela ekuphefumuleni ngokukhululekile.
Qala ukuphuhliswa komntwana ngokukhawuleza
Inkolelo! Sonke sasiziva ngeendlela zokuphuhliswa zanamhlanje, ezakhiwe kumgaqo othi "ulwazi oluthe xaxa umntwana uyayifumana, uya kuba yingqiqo." Kodwa, ukubeka umntwana we-Mozart endaweni yengoma yabantwana, ubeka engozini nje ukukhwaza umntwana ukuba alele, kodwa ukungahambi ngokungazi kakuhle kwiimvuthu zithintela ukuba abazali bayalindela. Kungcono ukukhuthaza iimfuno zomntwana.