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Wonke amabhinqa amaphupha enkwenkwezi ende. Kwiminyaka engama-20 kamva, isondo sasifana nasemva komtshato - kwindlovu, ukuxubana ngezicathulo kunye neentambo. Ngelishwa, ixesha alimi, kwaye abathandekayo abathandekayo banokuba ngabaxhasi. Into leyo kukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kweminyaka bazuza imikhwa, leyo, ngelishwa, ayibonakali, kwaye ayifanelekanga ubuchwephesha besini, bathi i-sexologist.

Indlela yokuhlala uthanda kwaye unqwenela?

Qaphela ihlazo lokuqala. Indoda ayithethi kumntu kwaye umntu wakho uhlukile, kwaye umfazi kufuneka aqonde oku. Ngoko ke, umfazi ucebise ukuba asuse iindlela zokuhlambulula isetyhini kwaye indlu yangasese ilungele ukuvala i-nazamok. Umbulali oyintloko wobulili phakathi koqabane oba ngumlingani kunye nalo lonke uhlaselo lobomi. Yaye ndikholelwe oku akuyona indlela yokugxininisa ukuzithemba. Amadoda akhathaleleka- "ukulula ngokomoya" kunye nokuhlaselwa kwimihla ngemihla ngokukhawuleza kungonakalisi yonke imvakalelo kunye nemihlali, ingakumbi ukuba iziphepho ze-hormone zancinci.

Fihla umzimba wakho. Amadoda abonisana njani nentombazana ehambahamba-ehambayo-umntu okhululekileyo wayegubungela amehlo akhe ngokunyaniseka aze aphakanyise isithupha sakhe, kwaye indoda eyatshatileyo yayiya kubuhlungu ngokukhawuleza ukuba ibuhlungu ngokukhawuleza, nangona intombazana inobungqina obuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa siphuma esitrato, thina, simi phambi kwesibuko, sizenzele, siphumelele iingubo zokugqoka, izikhwama kunye neengubo. Kwaye konke ukuxubana nabantu abangaqhelekanga, kwaye, nokuba nabathandekayo ekhaya, sibonakala sibuhlungu kwaye siya kwinto ethile. Ngaloo ndlela, sibonisa ukungathobeli ekhaya. Ukongezelela, sinokubona okufutshane, okuza kusasa kwixesha elizayo. Isisombululo esihle kakhulu siza kugqoka iingubo ezintle kwaye zihle ekhaya kwaye akufuneki zenziwe kwi-silk kunye ne-lace. Ngelo xesha, iingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi kunye nokuphambisa i-negligee ayinakucinywa. Ukuqwalasela ukuchaneka, kunye nokufunwa okufanayo kumntu.

Musa ukuba neengxaki zomnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bayakhalaza kumntu othandekayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unako ukuphulaphula, ugxininise intloko, ufake indawo yehlombe lomntu njengesigqabi. Kodwa ukuhlwaya ngokuhlwa akukwazi ukubuyela kumnqweno olwalamano phakathi kwakho, nokuba kungenakunobungozi kutshabalalisa ubudlelwane. Fumana izihloko ezithakazelisayo kunye nezobomi zokuxoxisana nabathandekayo bakho, umzekelo, wabelane ngemifanekiso yakho yokubhenela ukuvakashela i-movie, ithala, ikhonsathi. Emva kokuba ufumene umrhumo weemvakalelo, wabelane ngazo nalowo uthandayo, ukuba kukho ezininzi iimvakalelo ezintle, ngoko iingxoxo malunga nokuphila kwansuku zonke ziya kuhlawula. Unokufunda kwakhona ngokuvakalayo, ungaqala, umzekelo, iincwadi zokuthanda abantwana. Ezi ndlela ziza kunceda ukubuyisela ulwalamano olufanayo.

Funda ukuhlukumeza izikhalazo. Intukuthelo mhlawumbi inamandla kakhulu kumbulali wesini, esithintela ingabonakaliyo kwaye ibhubhise ukukhwabanisa ngokwesondo. Emva koko-ikhethini nentombazana. Kunzima ukulala ngesondo nomntu ophinde walibala imini yomtshato, uxoxe nomnye owayengumhlobo, ucekise umama wakho. Ngoko ke, ukulala nomxhaphazi, ushiye zonke izigwenxa emva kombindi wegumbi lokulala, okanye nonke ungayi kwigumbi lokulala. Ukulala nomntu, qiniseka ukuba awunayo ingcinga embi ngaye. Emva kokuzama ukulala ngesondo, esinezikhalazo ezidala, ukuva kwakhona konke okuqinisekileyo ukuba awuyi kufuna. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde okokuqala, fumana ulwalamano ngokuthetha nendoda, kwaye ke, xa zonke izinto zilungele ukuya kwigumbi lokudibanisa ngothando.

Qaphela umda obalulekileyo. Emva komtshato, iminyaka emininzi ulala kunye, kwaye kulungele ukulala kwiimitha ezihlukeneyo. Akunamabhinqa onke afumana ukulungeleka ngexesha apho indoda yakhe ibona ubuso obusandul 'uqobo kunye neenwele eziphazamisekileyo zowesifazane wakhe. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abatshatileyo balala bodwa, kuba bajwayele ukuba "bathathwe", kwaye oku kubi ngakumbi ukulala. Inyaniso enomdla kukuba i-aristocracy kunye namanye amazwe ahlukeneyo kunye namaxesha ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo amagumbi okulala. Le ndlela yayinentsingiselo yayo-indawo yendawo yagcinwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufumana ithuba lokulala ngokwahlukileyo, sebenzisa.