Lezi ziindaba zobubele kuphela eziphelelwa ngongoma: "Kwaye baphila ngokuvuyisayo." Ebomini, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukhetho esilwenzayo aluyi kuba lukugqibela. Imitshato iyaqhawula - oku kuyinyaniso edabukisayo. Kodwa umtshato awusisizathu sokuvala, ngokuchaseneyo, lixesha lokuvula kwakhona. Kodwa kufuneka wenze oku ngokuthe ngcembe.
Umthetho owodwa: "Zihawukele"
Abaninzi baya kuthi le yindlela ecacileyo yokudandatheka, kodwa masiqonde. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, abaninzi abafazi baxinezelekile, banentuthuko ecindezelekileyo, ubomi bubonakala bubomvu. Unako ukuphulaphula abahlobo kunye nokumomotheka kuwo onke amazinyo angama-32, kodwa makhe sijamelane nayo, iikati aziyi kumela kule dabha. Musa ukucaphuka ngaphakathi kwakho, ulilahle ngaphandle, ukukhala, ukukrazula, ukuphula inkonzo endala. Mema umngane obalaseleyo ukutyelela kwaye uxoxe naye yintoni ibhokhwe yakho yangaphambili.
Lahla izinto zakhe eziseleyo endlwini. Ukuba babangela i-vagrusity, ngoko akudingi nonke.
Iphutha eliphambili labahlobo kukutsala intombazana, yaphulwa ngumtshato, "ekukhanyeni." Kusencinane ukuba uvuyiswe. Ewe, ewe, kunjalo. Ngelixa ungeke uphelelwe ngokupheleleyo kwimithwalo yakho yangaphakathi, uvuyo lwakho luya kuthatha kuphela ukudumala. Yaye iimbono ezixinzelelekileyo yixesha lebhokhwe. Kulo mzuzwana, kufuneka uzinikezele, uthi yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle, iya kusebenza. Kwaye uqale usebenze kuphela xa ukholwa.
Imithetho emibini: "Zithande"
Zibukele ngokwakho kwisibuko: amehlo akho avutha, ubuso bakho bukhubekile ngezinyembezi. Ufuna ukufakwa kwangaphakathi. Ukudlula isigaba sokuphelelwa yithemba kwinqanaba elithi "isinyathelo sokuqala ebomini obutsha" kunzima kakhulu. Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukuziva uxolo, akulula ukuyeka.
Ukufumana apha kuya kunceda ukususela ebuntwaneni. Buyela kwisibuko, ulahla zonke iziqulatho zekhwama lakho lokuzilungisa uze uqhubeke nombala wokulwa. Musa ukuyiqhayisa, sebenzisa ukucoca ngokucophelela, ungayigxothi icebo leentombi, ezinokuthi zibandakanyeke kule nkqubo. Musa ukulibala ngeenwele, nazo zifuna i-styling. Kwaye ngoku ujonge kwakhona. Ewe, akayena umhle?
Eyona mphumo engcono, sibhala phantsi kwi-gym, ukuya kwi-napa-inkqubo, i-yoga kunye nezinye iindawo eziza kukunceda ukuba utshintshe. Ukuba uya kutshintsha, kuphela wena.
Umthetho wesithathu: "Phumula, phumula, phumla!"
Abanye abantu batusa ukuba baye emsebenzini. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu unelungelo lokugxila kwizinto, xa intloko ivalwe ingcamango ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Kungcono ukuvumela ukuba ungabonakali kwiingxaki kwaye uphumule. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukukhetha indawo yokuphumla kwindlu yakho. Ukuba unako ukuya ngaphandle, hamba. Uhambo oluninzi, ukuyothenga, ukunyamekela ukuhleleka kwamanye amazwe kuya kukushiya ngokupheleleyo ukulibala ukuba uqhawule umtshato.
Kodwa kukho omnye umthetho oqinileyo! Akukho ziveli! Ubuhlobo obungenangqiqo ngoku nantoni na. Ukudibanisa i-wedge akufuneki ukukhonkqoza, ungakhange ukhangele indawo yakho yangaphambili, akukho nto ayiyi kuyenza. Into ephambili okufuneka uyiqhube kuyo: "Andiyedwa, ndikhululekile." Jabulela lo mvakalelo. Yiva indlela amaphiko asasazeka ngayo emva komva wakho, njengoko ubunzima bomthwalo welungu lentsapho yakho liwa phantsi kwamagxa akho. Hlalani ncinane kuwe, zenzele.
Umthetho wesine: "Kwakhona emfazweni!"
Kodwa ngoku ungathetha ngobudlelwane obutsha. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo emva komtshato, amantombazana akafuni ukubopha iincwadi ezintsha. Uloyiko lokunyuka kwisigxina esifanayo lubaxhaphaza ubudlelwane obungabonwayo okanye ubudlelwane obukhululekile, obuxhomekeke kuphela kwisini. Asiyi kugweba ezo ndlela zokubuyisela. Kukho olunye uhlobo lwabasetyhini abathi, ngokuchaseneyo, abafuni ukufumana abaqhelana nabo kunye neentlanganiso, bazivale kwaye besaba ukuba bazame. Kule meko, usindiso kufuneka lufunwa kwakhona kubahlobo.
Ngubo bafuna ukukhangela kwi-susek baze bakhuphe umviwa ofanelekileyo. Akufuneki ukuba lakho iqabane elitsha elizayo. Makube ngumfana ontle. Injongo yakho akuyiyo ukwakha ubudlelwane obutsha kwaye uyiphonsa embhedeni wakhe. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzive njengowesifazane kwakhona, khumbula oko kukunakekelwa yindoda, kukunyaniseka ukuthini. Zonke izakhono zakho zihleli kunye nawe, kodwa awuzisebenzisi ixesha elide.
Ukuba ezo ntla nganiso zikhula kwincwadana entsha enomdla, ngoko kufuneka sibe nethamsanqa. Kodwa udibanise kwinto yokuba le yindoda kuphela: indoda yindoda ayiyiyo yindoda enokwenzeka. Okwangoku, makabe nguye oya kuphilisa ngokuqinisekileyo intliziyo yakho ephukileyo.
Umthetho wesihlanu: "Ukuqonda nokuxolela"
Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kuza ixesha apho izikhumbuzo zakho ziyeke ukukubangela intlungu. Ngenxa yakhe, intliziyo yakho ayinakubetha, kodwa ukuba ugibela kuyo ngengozi kwivenkile, awuyi kulahlekelwa intetho. UViba uya phambili, kwaye akudingeki ukuba ulwe kunye, zizondane uze uzame ukubonisa into ethile.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani oqalise ukuphuka, ngoku ngoku kuphela okudityanisiweyo okukubophayo. Akukho mntu uthi kufuneka ube ngabahlobo kunye neentsapho uze uye kumhlobo womnye. Mane uqaphele ukuba ekugqibeleni kwakho unesityholo, omnye umntu, umntu ongaphantsi, akaphindi le mpazamo ngobomi obutsha.