1. I-stimulus esebenzayo yinkcazelo kunye namahlazo. Ukuba uzinikela kulo mgaqo ongenamdla, awuyi kuphulaphulwa kuphela, kodwa uya kuba ngumsindo. Emva kwakho konke, akukho nto ibulala ubudlelwane obunokungaxolisi rhoqo ngobomi, ukuziphatha komntu obathandayo kunye neemeko zobomi.
2. Naphezu komnqweno ovuthayo wokuba nomntu obathandayo iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, khumbula ukuba kufuneka abe nolunye uhlobo lobomi bakhe. Ukuba nawe, ufuna ukubonisana kunye nomhlobo wakhe osondeleyo, uye kwibhola okanye ukuya kuloba. Kumele kwaye kwaye unokukwazi ukuba neengcambu zomphefumlo apho eziva ekhululekile kunye naye kwaye enolonwabo, apho ulungile khona. Sebenzisa ixesha ngaphandle komnye nomnye, yilapho intlanganiso kunye nomthandayo uya kwamkeleka, kwaye uvuyo lwenkonzo luya kuba yinyani.
3. Musa ukuzama ukutshintsha umthandayo wakho kumfanekiso nomfanekiso wakho. Uyiqonde kwaye umthande ngendlela ayenayo, phawula iimpawu zakhe ezintle kunokuba ulahleke, okungenjalo.
4. Zama ukutshintsha into yakho, ukuze ungahlali ufana nezolo. Mhlawumbi okokuqala kuya kubonakala kunzima kwaye kungaqhelekanga, kodwa lo mdlalo uya kukukholisa emva kwexesha. Kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba ngaphakathi kwakho uhlala usinyanisekile kuwe.
5. Musa ukubonisa iimpawu zakho zokungancedi. Zive ukuzimela kwakho nokwaneliseka. Awudingi ukufumana le ndoda engapheliyo ngeeyure ezingama-3. Oku kuya kumenza aphendule kuphela. Emva kokubiza, zama ukufumana into ebalulekileyo kwaye ungayithathi kwaye ixesha lakho ngeengxoxo ezingenamsebenzi kunye nemibuzo engabalulekanga.
6. Akukho mfuneko yokuba nomona. Ikhwele ngumnqweno onqwenela ukuqonda njengento umntu, uphawu lokungaqiniseki, umnqweno wokuwuvala zonke iinqwelo kunye nokucinga ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku. Ngokuqhelekileyo akukho nto ivela kuyo. Izigxeko azipheli ngenxa yokulibaziseka emsebenzini okanye kwimisebenzi, ukufunda i-SMS kunye nemiyalezo yomntu siqu kunokufaka ingxaki kwixesha elihle lezobuhlobo bakho.
Impazamo yendabuko yamakhosikazi - uthando lwakho lokuhleba, lunokubiza. Zama ukusombulula iingxaki zakho kunye nemiba kunye nomthandayo, kwaye ungathathi ngaphandle kwendlu. Ngokucacileyo, ubukho bomntu oyintanda ehlala kunye nabahlobo bakho bodwa buya kubakho indawo, uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye engakhululekile kwimiba enjalo, wonke umntu uya kuziva akanakukhathazeka kule meko.
8. Ukuthanda kwakho ukuthengwa okanye iimarike, ungacingi ukuba indoda yakho iya kuthatha inzondelelo efanayo. Enye, ezimbini iindlela zokuthenga ezithengisayo, zingonakalisa ubuhlobo obuqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke kuyinqweneleka ukuhamba kunye nabahlobo kwiivenkile, ngaba uya kuxoxa kwaye uxoxe ngelo xesha. Okukhethwa kukho kukunyuka ngokubambisana, kodwa kwangaphambili kufuneka uzikhethele into oyithandayo, ngoko konke oku kukhangeleka njengamangalisa kwaye akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide.
9. Ungagxininisi ukuba indoda yakho ethandekayo ingabalulekanga kwaye ngokukhawuleza yabelane nawe ngeemvakalelo zakhe nangengcamango. Ukuba umntu akavulekanga ukuthetha ngokungathandabuzeki, intetho ingcono kamva.
10. Musa ukuzenza ungalindelanga ixesha elide. Kunzima ukufumana umntu oya kuvuyiswa, kuba sele ufike ixesha elide okanye ngaphezulu.
Akunzima ukuyilandela le mithetho elula, kodwa ngokulandela, uya kuwandisa, kakhulu amathuba okuphumelela kumntu othandekayo othanda kakhulu kuwe.