Isizathu.
Ukuba umntwana ubonise umdla kumfoloko okanye i-spoon, oku akuthethi ukuba ukususela kuloo mzuzu uya kuqala ukufunda imithetho yokuziphatha etafileni kwaye ulandele njalo. Njengawo wonke umntwana, umntwana wakho uya kuba neempembelelo ezintle nezimbi. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kuthanda ukutya sasemini, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uya kufuna uncedo. Ukuba umntwana wenqaba ukufunda ukusebenzisa i-spoon, kuya kufuneka umdlalele.
Bekela ingqalelo kungekuphela komgangatho wokutya kunye nokukhethwa kwintetho yomntwana, kodwa kwakhona nendlela ukutya kubonakala ngayo. Abantwana bathanda yonke into eqaqambileyo neyobuhle, iifatata eziqingqiweyo eziqhelekileyo kunye ne-porridge zibonakala zixhamla kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba ezi zinto azizona izitya ezizithandayo. Yiba nobuqili. Gaya kumxube wemifuno kunye nemifuno kunye nombala wokutya kunye namazambane ahlambulukileyo, ubonise ingcamango, ungakhonzi nje izitya kuphela, kodwa uhlezi amashishini amancinane avela kwimveliso eyahlukeneyo.
Ukuba umntwana ulambile, vele ubeke isipuni ngasentla kwiplani kwaye uthathe ukuphazamiseka okufutshane. Cinga ukuba unomsebenzi ophuthumayo kwelinye igumbi. Xa ubuya, mhlawumbi, umntwana wakho sele sele edla isidlo sasemini ngokwakhe, kuba akafuni ukukulinda. Enyanisweni, asikwazi ukuthetha ngokuchaneka.
Kucacisa ngokucacileyo injongo yokunquma. Le nto ayikho nto yokudlala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zihle kangakanani. Iipuni, iiplate kunye neekgs zingabonakala kuphela etafileni ngexesha lokutya kwaye akukho nanye indlela, kwelinye imeko, umntwana uya kusetshenziselwa ukuqonda ukutya njengokudlala.
Musa ukubeka ixesha. Kulungile ukuba umntwana wakho uncinci emva koonyana bahlobo, kwaye ukhetha ukunyiswa ngumama wakhe. Bonke abantwana bahlukileyo, kodwa baya kudala okanye kamva bafunde ukuzilungiselela. Yiba nomnene, kodwa unganyanzeli umntwana ukuba adle eyedwa.
Khusela umphumo.
Xa umntwana wakho efunda ukubamba i-spoon ngokuzithemba nangaphezulu, umsebenzi uya kubakho ukuhlanganiswa kwezakhono ezifunyenweyo kwaye uqeqeshwe i-label etiquette.
Yakha umoya okhethekileyo etafileni. Ukutya kunokuncediswa ngokungafaniyo, kodwa kungcono ukuba umntwana uvela ebuntwaneni ubona izitya ezintle, ukutya okulungelelanisiweyo, i-napkins engavamile. Oku kuya kumnceda abe nomdla kule nkqubo aze alandele imigaqo.
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana usengenakuthemba kakhulu ngesipuni kwaye ininzi yokutya iyatshatyalaliswa, thatha okwesibini uze uyondle. Ekuqaleni oku kwamkelekile. Ngoko umntwana uya kuzaliswa, kodwa ngelo xesha uya kuzidla ngokwakhe.
Khusela yonke imizamo yokudlala ngokutya. Inkathazo encinci ayinakuphepheka xa umntu omncinci efunda ukutya i-porridge, isobho okanye i-puree. Iimveliso ezininzi ziya kunikwa naphi na, kodwa kungekhona kwiplani okanye emlonyeni womntwana. Musa ukukhuthaza iziganeko ezinjalo, ungathinteli ukuba umntwana wakho unobulungisa bunjani. Musa ukutyhola umntwana, kodwa bonisa ukungafuni. Ukuba awuzithobeli kwizinto ezinjalo, ngoko umntwana ngeenyanga ezimbalwa uya kukwazi ukuziphatha kakuhle etafileni.
Musa ukwenza iimpazamo.
Ukususela kwisizukulwana ukuya kwisizukulwana, ihlaya "ngobawo, unina", elenzelwe ukutshixa ukutya okunokwenzeka kunomntwana, ludluliselwa. Kodwa ngaba kulungele ukuyisebenzisa? Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba umntwana adle etafileni?
Kungcono ukuba ungamqhelisi ukunyengisa kwaye ungabuyi kutya. Vumela umntwana angadli kakuhle emehlweni akho. Kwimeko apho, mondle iyure ngaphambili kwidlo elilandelayo okanye unike i-snack phakathi kwabo. Ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba enze into angayithandiyo, ukunyanzeliswa ngakumbi kuya kufuneka kutyunjwe. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana uya kunqaba ukutya ngaphandle kweenganekwane, amahlaya kunye nengqalelo yomzali.
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana akayiyo into enhle kakhulu, unengqiqo, ke ungagqibi ukumbeka etafileni. Myekezela umntwana, eze kuye aze aqale isidlo ngesimo esihle.
Zama ukudla nomntwana. Ufuna umzekelo ophilileyo, kwaye abazali banokukhetha. Ukongeza, akayi kutyhafaza, unokwazi ukunxibelelana ngesidlo sakusihlwa.
Ungasebenzisi ukutya, njengokuhlola kokuziphatha komntwana. Ungamkhuthazi ngoluvo lokuba umntu odla kakuhle ngumntwana olungileyo, kwaye umntu odla kakubi kubi. Musa ukukhuthaza ukuba sidle isidlo sasemini, kuba ukutya - kungokwemvelo, akukho sizathu sezipho. Unokudumisa ngokuziphatha okuchanekileyo kunye nemilinganiselo enhle, kodwa kungekhona isantya apho umntwana adla khona isidlo sakusihlwa.
Ngaphambili kwendoda encinci imiphumo eninzi kunye nemithintelo. Umntu ngamnye kubalulekile kwaye ngamnye uya kunqotshwa. Into ethile inikezwa lula, kodwa into ithatha amandla amaninzi. Yiba ngabazali abanothando ngokwenene, musa ukuvavanya umntwana ngempumelelo yezinye iintlanga, khumbula ilungelo lakhe lokuzimela. Ungalibali - ukuziphatha kwakhe kunye nesifiso sokufunda kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela.