Impilo kunye nohlobo lomntwana ngokuthe ngqo luxhomekeke kwimvakalelo yomama ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kodwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa, abafazi bafumana iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye ama-phobias abo aqiniswa yiyo yonke into evela kwizihlobo kunye noogqirha. Uhlalutyo olubi, iingxaki zempilo, imeko yobomi obunzima, ukufuduka - konke oku kunokuchaphazela umntwana. Ngoko, umama kufuneka ahlale evuyayo kwaye ezolile, kunye nendlela yokugcina ithemba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, siya kukuxelela kule nqaku. Ukukhulelwa kuyimeko ekhethekileyo, kodwa kungekhona isifo. Ngeli xesha, abanye bazama uku "baqumbisa" abasetyhini "kwindawo enomdla" ukuba bazive ngathi bagula. Ukongezelela, uhlala efundiswa: kungekhona intloko, ungadli iincwele zakho kunye nezipikili, ungayinqumli iinwele zakho ...
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho imingcele ethile - umzekelo, abafazi abakhulelweyo abakwazi ukuphakamisa izisindo, ukutshaya, ukusela iziyobisi, ukuphalaza iiprotyi kunye nokuhlambulula indlu yangasese eneengozi zokusuleleka kwi-toxoplasmosis. Kodwa kule nto, njengomthetho, uluhlu lwezinto ezinqandekileyo kunye nezikhawulelo ezingabonakaliyo ziphela. Olunye umama unako, ukuba akukho ziphikisana-nokuba ushayele kwi-moya!
Enye into, ukuba wonke umntu ujikeleze, ukuba bathetha ngokuthintela kunye neengozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, sele sele ivela kwiinyanga eziyi-3-4 i-hormonal background iguqula uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokuthula kwengqondo, ngoko ke kunzima ukuphatha ingxaki yomnye umntu.
Umsebenzi usindisa
Kunzima nakakhulu ukuba umama ozayo akwazi ukufumana imiphumo emihle yokukhulelwa nokuzalwa komntwana ophilileyo kwi-polyclinic. Ukunikezelwa kweemvavanyo, utshintsho oluqhubekayo kumachiza kunye nokuxhaswa, ngaphandle koko, oogqirha banekhono lokubhala into ekhawulezileyo ekhadini ... Indlela yokugcina ithemba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwiimeko ezinjalo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba akukho zinkathazo zempilo ezinzulu, utshintsho kwindlela yokutya kunye nendlela yokuphila yincinci. Ukufikelela kwiinyanga ezi-5-6, oomama abasasaza baya emsebenzini. Akuyimfuneko ukuchasela umthonyama kuyo - okokuqala, ukuxhasa inkxaso-mali kuya kuxabiseka kakade ngenyanga yokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwebhokhwe.
Ngaphandle koko, xa uvale kwinqanaba elincinane "labasetyhini abakhulelweyo", umfazi ubeka umngcipheko wokungafumani konke okuqhelekileyo. Hlalani kunye neeyi, ingxoxo yeengxaki zengqesho ekusebenzeni kwazo zonke izinto "ezongeziweyo" ezintle ezisebenzayo ezivumela ukuba nethuba lokukhulelwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngeenyanga ezimbini zokuqala. Ukulibala malunga nokuphazamiseka okuncinci, ukuguqulwa emva, ukunyanzelisa umntwana ngexesha lokusebenza, umama uba ngcono. Kwaye le ngxaki kulula ukuzala umntwana onempilo, ozele ngokupheleleyo!
Amachiza kunye neemvavanyo
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kwikliniki umama ozayo uya kuphulaphulwa ukubikezelwa okungathandekiyo okanye uyanyanzelekile ukuba alandele ngokuqhubekayo imiyalelo yonyango, onobungqina bakhe obungathandabuzekiyo, ayikho ithuba lokuba nethemba. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba udibanise entloko kwaye uzibuze ubusuku obuthongo - ngokufanelekileyo okanye kungenjalo - kulula ukucinga ngale nto.
Iziphumo zeemvavanyo zikwazi ukuhluka nje kuphela kummandla wendalo. Ichaphazela kakhulu ixesha lemihla, isidlo sokugqibela, imozulu kunye nexesha lonyaka. Ehlotyeni, zikhona izilingo ezininzi, kwaye emva kokuvumba kwamnandi okanye i-melon oogqirha bafumana "ushukela owandisiweyo." Iizintso emva kwe-watermelon okanye amanzi kwishushu eshushu ziyakwazi ukujamelana nomsebenzi wokuvelisa. Kwaye ngoku sifumana "i-hemoglobin enciphise". Ngoko ke, inyaniso yokuba ngoku abafazi bavavanya phantse amaxesha amaninzi ngeveki, kunentsingiselo ekhethekileyo.
Ukongezelela, ukugcina ithemba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kusiza uphando olusenyakalweni lomntwana. Iimama zizolile kwaye zithemba, zikwazi ukuba yonke into ihambelana nomntwana. Kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo - kuba nayiphina "iimangalo" kwixesha elizayo nayo ingabandakanywa.
"Iqela lexesha elizayo loomama"
Kakade, "isiko" esinjalo akunakwenzeka ukuba sifumaneka kwiphina isixeko esincinane. Kodwa ukufumana abahlobo abatsha "kwindawo ekhangayo" kwaye uthethane nabo, ukuba ngaba bahle kwaye banako ukuzonwabisa ubomi, kuyafaneleka.
Njengomthetho, ngokuqhelekileyo iintombi ze-intombi azikhulelanga kunye kwaye azikwazi ukunika inkxaso efanayo kunye namanye amama. Yabelana ngexhala kunye nokuhleka ndawonye, fumana iingcebiso kunye nenkxaso ngexesha elifanelekileyo - konke oku kunceda ekunciphiseni ukwesaba okubandakanya ukukhulelwa ngokulula.
Zi phu laphule
Akukho mntu uyazi ukuba "umama" ungcono kunabo. Ngoko ke, nokuba yintoni na oogqirha abanekhono kunye noogqirha abanegunya, balalele. Kwaye ukuba ukusuka "yodomarina" waqala ukuphula izinyo - ungabi sisilumko ukuthetha nomhlobo osandul 'ukuzala. Okanye fumana ithuba lokuthetha nomnye ugqirha. Ngamanye amaxesha isilumkiso esisodwa sinokwanela ukuphucula inkqubo yokukhulelwa kunye nesimo somama. Umama ozolile-lo ngumntwana ophumlileyo, oya kuba mnandi ukukhula.