Ukukhetha igama elihle lomntwana wakho

Lo mbuzo ubuzwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamama kunye nabagadi. Ukhetho alulula. Kufuneka uqwalasele izinto ezininzi xa ukhetha igama elihle lomntwana.

Ukukhetha igama elihle lomntwana ngumsebenzi onzima. Emva kwakho konke, namhlanje isichazamazwi sokuthi sinamagama angama-2 600 angamadoda namabhinqa! Liliphi igama endimkhethayo ukunceda nokukhusela umntwana ubomi bam bonke?


Igama le-Mystic

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, kuzo zonke iintlanga ngaphandle kokungafani, zanikwa umntwana ekuzalweni, igama lalinomxholo oyingqiqo. Emazweni aseAsia, eTurkey, Azerbaijan kunye namanye amazwe, umntwana, ukuze adibanise imimoya emibi, wanika amagama amabini: okwenyaniso nobuxoki. EJapan, kude kube neenkulungwane ze-XVII-XVIII, abazali abahloniphekileyo, ngesiseko sendawo, bavame ukubizwa ngokuba ngabantwana babo "Ukusekela", "uNedouchka", "Lame."

Igama elithi "elibi" lalifanele litshitshise imikhosi emnyama, egameni lomntu, ngokwemizekelo yakudala, i-destiny ifakwe kuyo. Ngokomsebenzi wesibhakabhaka, umzekelo, kuthiwa igama eliqukethe isethi ethile yeebhayibhile lihambelana nenani leeplanethi. Kukholelwa ukuba iVenus neJupiter "iiplanethi" ezilungileyo, iMars, iSaturn, iUranus ne-Neptune "zimbi", kwaye i-Mercury "ayithathi hlangothi".


ERashiya ukususela kumaxesha amandulo kwakukho iimpawu ezinceda abazali ukuba baqonde kakuhle ukhetho lwegama elihle lomntwana, ngale ndlela ilandelayo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ungabizi umntwana. Ngako oko, inkolelo eyandileyo yayikuthi akunakwenzeka ukunika igama "igama kwigama." Lusekwe kwinto yokuba umntu ngamnye, kuxhomekeke kwigama, unalo ingelosi yakhe yokugcina. Ingelosi enye yokulondoloza endlwini ayikwazi ukugcina ezimbini kwiintlungu. USergey Sergeevich, uBoris Borisovich uhlala ekhula njengabantwana abangenangqondo nabangenalulinganisela, ngoko abazange bacebise abantwana ukuba babizwe ngokuthi ooyise.

Amantombazana, anqunywe ngoomama, akanakufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabo. Kukho uphawu olunjalo: ukuba umfazi unentombi kuphela, kufuneka amnike igama lokugqibela ukuze umntwana azalwe. Hlalani phakathi kwamagama, njengokuba kukholwa, ukuphumelela nokuzaliseka kweminqweno: ingelosi egcinayo yabantu abanamagama afanayo, oko kuzuza amandla aphindwe kabini, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ukuzalisekisa iphupha.


Ukufa , ngokweengcamango, izuze ngelizukulwana: ngoko ukuba wakho utata okanye ugogo wayevuyayo, zikhululeke ukubiza abantwana babo ngokuhlonipha! Ezinye iimpawu ziyacaca: awukwazi ukubiza igama elizalwe ngumntwana ongakazalwa ngokuvakalayo (ukuze ungabi yi-jinx), biza umntwana umntwana igama lomntwana oshonile okanye isihlobo esasandula kutshona.


Kalenda

Namhlanje, amaninzi amatshabini, abuyela kwii-Orthodox zithethe, anika igama kumntwana wakhe xa ebhaptizwa, ngokungqinelana nabangcwele. Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana obhaptiziweyo uzalelwe ngokomoya, egameni liye lidibaniswe nengelosi yakhe yomgcini kunye nomgcini oyingcwele, emva koko ekuthiwa nguye.

Icawa ayifumkeli amagama "abonwabileyo" kunye "angonwabile". Ukusuka kwinqanaba lakhe, akuphosakeleyo ukucinga ukuba ukuba abazali baqamba ngamagama amantombazana ngamagama angamadoda (uAlexra, e-Eugenia), baya kuhlakulela izici zabo zobuntu.

Kuthekani ukuba ufuna ukubhaptiza umntwana, kwaye igama lakhe lingekho kubangcwele? Xa ubhaptizwa umbingeleli angambiza ngelinye igama lama-Orthodox, esondele ngokuvakalayo: uDiyana - Dariya, uKarina - Kira, uRuslan - ongumRoma. Umkhosi wobhaptizo ngokwawo, ukuba akukho nto ikhusela, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ngosuku lwamashumi amane emva kokuzalwa - ngalolu suku umama womntwana uphinde abuyiselwe emva kokubeletha.


Britney okanye iVladimir?

Ukuba awuzibheki njengomntu onokholo, ungafundeli ii-horoscopes kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akakholelwa kwiimpawu, ngoko xa ukhetha igama lomntwana kufuneka uthembele, okokuqala, ngokuqonda. Kule meko, abazali bavame ukukhetha umgaqo othi "njengaye-ungayithandi." Imikhuba yabantu abadala, imbonakalo yabo yehlabathi, inxaxheba ibambe indima enkulu, umzekelo, umntu unemifanekiso: uVladimir Vysotsky okanye uVictor Tsoi. ngokuqinisekileyo igama lomntwana ngokunyanisekileyo lomculi ozithandayo. Awuyithandi igama lomculi wakho ozithandayo, zama ukukholisa lakho iqabane ukuba akuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana wakho akhule njengomntu oqhayisayo.Oko ke, sonke sifunda ngentshisekelo okanye inzala malunga nenjongo yegama lethu kwaye Mhlawumbi, le ndlela akufanele iphikiswe ngokupheleleyo, kodwa, uyabona, ngoko kuya kuba yoluhlu lwamagama abonwabileyo / angenabuhlungu okanye abanamathenda / angenakunqwenela, okungazange kubekho. Ukuba unomdla ngomsebenzi kaBrithney Spears, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele ubize intombi yakho ngaloo ndlela.) Cinga malunga nento eya kwenzeka kwiBritney Ivanovna okanye i-Petrovna kwikamva ...

Ngoko ke le mithetho elandelayo, eya kuba yinto efanelekileyo ukukhokela xa ukhetha igama elihle lomntwana.


Xa ukhetha igama elihle lentsana, uyazi: akukwazi ukuba lukhuni kwaye kufuneka lidibaniswe kunye nomnxeba.

Ukuba igama kunye negama lenkcazelo liphosakeleyo, ke igama kufuneka likhethwe, lingabi liphantsi kwabo.

Kuya kuba lunqwenelekayo, ukuba kule nhlanganisela yesithathu - ifani, igama, igama elingu-patronymic-kwakungekho nqwaba yezikhononongo.

Kwinkwenkwe, umntu akufanele akhethe amagama angabhekisela kumntu okanye kumfazi ngaphandle kokuba igama lakhe libonisa ubulili. Thatha, umzekelo, amagama kaKirienko noTszyu: USasha Kirienko okanye uZhenya Tszyu bangabantombazana.

Xa ukhetha igama elincinci lomntwana, umntu makangacinga ukuba uya kuba ngenye imini baba ngabayihlo kwaye abanikezele abantwana babo. Zama kungekuphela nje igama, kodwa kwakhona igama elibhalwe kuyo lisandile lihle.

Ungakulibali ukuba ukhetho lwegama elihle lomntwana linokuba nefuthe elifutshane, kunye neefom zokunyusa. Kubalulekile ukuba nabo bathande abazali, ngaphandle koko uya kuhlala ubiza igama elide nelihle likaValery, endaweni yeLera emfutshane okanye uLerochka onothando.


Ukukhwabanisa

Xa ukhetha igama elihle lomntwana kuluncedo ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi igama elisefashini namhlanje. Oku kuya kunceda ukuthabatha umntwana wakho igama elingaqhelekanga okanye, ngokulandelanayo, landela iifashthi zefashoni. Amagama angavamile kwaye angabonakali anikezelwa kubantwana abazalwa ngekhulu lama-20, emva koKhuphelo lwe-Oktobha. Ngaloo myalelo, iBhunga leKhomishana yabantu lakwaBahlali beeKhomishoni zaKwaZulu-Natal, laye lakhutshwa, ngenxa yokuba abemi banikezwa inkululeko epheleleyo yegama elithi "indalo" kwaye babengasayi kuxhomekeka kwiikhalenda zecawa. Ngelo xesha kwakukho imfesane ukubiza abantwana ngokuhlonela iinkokheli okanye nayiphi na imibono yama-communist: Vladlen (a) ("Vladimir Lenin"), uMarlene ("uMarx", "uLenin"), kunye nensimbi ("uJoseph Vissarionovich Stalin"), uLenar ("uLenin Army"), Vilor ("VI uLinin - umququzeleli uguquko "), njl njl. Njalo ke, yiyiphi igama ndimele ndiyikhethele iimvumba? Usuvele ufunde iincwadi ezininzi kunye nawe i-lushano, mhlawumbi, iingcebiso ezininzi kumama, ootatomkhulu, oomama okanye omaziyo nje ... Thembela intuition yakho, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - cinga ngegama luni umntwana wakho uya kuvuya emva koko. uhlala nalo negama iminyaka emininzi. Ngoko ke, ngaphezu kweemfuno zabo, cingisisa ngoku.