Abaninzi abantu bayazi indlela yokuziphathisa ngokwabo. Esi sipho esimangalisayo sivula ngaphambi kokuba umnini-nhlanhla enze iingcango. Ubomi obunomdla wentlekele buzele iintlanganiso ezihle kakhulu kunye nolwazi olunomdla. Kuye, kubonakala ngathi akukho miqathango ehlazo okanye iimeko ezihlazo.
Kubuhlungu ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha izinto ezinjalo ngawe.
Ungathini ukuxhathisa?
Kungenzeka ukuba unomhlobo owaziyo imfihlelo yohwebo. Umzekelo, umhlobo wakho u-Oksanka. Ukujonga kuqala - intombazana eqhelekileyo. Kodwa abantu bahlala besondela kuyo.
Emva kokuba ebonakala, abafazi baqala ukumomotheka, amadoda aphuthuma ukunika uphawu lokuqwalasela, kunye nokukhala kwabo abantwana bezolile. Kwaye nabasebenzi beeofisi zepaspoti abazange bafumane iphoso ngamaphepha akhe. Ulwalamano oluhle kunye nabalingane bakhe, abaninzi abahlobo kunye nomyeni omhle.
Ndikholelwe, kumkhono wakho umhlobo ukukhwela abantu akukho nto engaphezu kwendalo. Unokuphuhlisa umtsalane kuwe.
Uxinzelelo.
Jonga ukuba ziphi iimvakalelo ezikufumanayo xa uzifumana kwinkampani engaqhelekanga okanye kwindawo esemthethweni.
Mhlawumbi, unenkxalabo malunga nomfanekiso owenziwe nguwe kwaye ungazivumeli ukuphumla. Kwaphela. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uxoxisa umnqweno wabanye ukuba uqaphele iimpazamo zabanye. Khawucinge nje: nangu indoda ehleli ephafini kwitheyibhile elisondeleyo, engathandabuzeki, ezama ukubiza igama elinzima lesitya. Ngaba uya kuhleka ixesha elide malunga ne "gourmet" engenangqondo?
Ingaba unomfanekiso wokusilela kwexesha elizayo? Bhala uluhlu lweempembelelo ezimbi. Yaye uya kubona ukuba nakwimeko enzima kakhulu, akukho nto inobungozi eya kwenzeka.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda kwiingcamango zokuzisa imeko leyo. Yithi, abahlobo bakubizele kwiqela apho ungazi mntu. Khawucinge nje: ezi ndwendwe ezimbi zizungeze ngeendandatho ezinomsila, ziqhewule indlela yokubuyela, kwaye ziqale ukuxubusha imbonakalo yakho, iimpahla zakho ... Hayi, akunjalo? Into eyona nto enokuthi yenzeke kukuba awuyi kufumana iindikimba eziqhelekileyo kunye nabaqhelana nabo kwaye ushiye ngesimo esilungileyo.
Gcoba phantsi uze uzame ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Emva kokujonga imilinganiselo yabantu abathandekayo, uya kubona ukuba zikhululekile kangakanani. Imfihlelo yokukhululeka kukuba inkolelo yokuba umntu ngamnye uyigugu kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni isimo sengqondo sabanxibelelwano.
Sonke siyazi ukuba kukho ukubizwa ngolwimi lwezandla. Ngethuba lokunxibelelana ngoncedo lwezikhundla ezahlukahlukeneyo zomzimba kunye nezenzo, sibonisa isimo sethu sengqondo kumnxibelelwano. Ngoko ke, zama ukuthabatha indawo engafanelekanga, uthathe indawo efanelekileyo, enokukwenza ukuba uchithe umlinganiselo omncinci womzamo we-muscular.
Ukuba umntu unesimo esibucayi, zama ukugxila kule nto kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, tshintshe ingqalelo kwenye into. Ngethuba le ncoko yazama ukujonga kwimeko yomnxibelelwano, kodwa ungabikho nto, kungenjalo ubangele ukuhlaziya.
Ndinayo yonke ingqalelo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isiseko sentloni ixhomekeke ekugxinineni kwakhe komntu. Uloyiko kakhulu ukungafuni ukuthintana naye, ukuba ulahlekelwe yiyo yonke into yokumamela, ukunika iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakhe.
Ngaba ufuna ukulahla ukuhlazeka? Zama ukunikela ingqalelo yakho kumlingani wakho, iimvakalelo zakhe, isimo sakhe sengqondo. Unomdla kwindlela yakhe, uhlekise amahlaya. Yeka ukucinga malunga nokuba wenza konke okulungileyo, kwaye abo bakujikelezayo baya kukhululeka nawe. Kungekudala uza kuziva ukuba kulula kangakanani ukunxibelelana.