Ixesha lokulibala malunga nobunzima emsebenzini, malunga nezezimali kunye nezinye iingxaki, ngeli thuba kufuneka udibanise ingcinga kunye nokuziphendulela ngendlela yokukhetha isipho kubantwana bakho abathandayo.
Zininzi iiSoviets malunga nendlela yokukhetha izipho zonyaka omtsha kubantwana. Kwiindawo ezinokuluhlu olubanzi, unokwenza iingcamango kwi-Intanethi, wenze isipho ngasinye (ngokwakhe okanye ngoncedo lomyili). Ngokuqinisekileyo kakhulu, kodwa okokuqala kubalulekile ukuqwalasela oko umntwana akufunayo. Ukwenza oku, ngamanye amaxesha ukwanele ukubuza kwangaphambili, kwithuba leenyanga ezimbalwa, phakathi kwoshishini umntwana wakho aphupha ngalo. Ngako oko, sitshele ngamaphupha akho, ngoko ke ingxoxo enengqiqo iya kwenzeka phakathi kwakho. Abanye babhalela uSomkhulu Frost iileta, babuze izipho ezivela kuye, kulo mzekelo, abazali bafanele bafumene ukuba umnqweno onqwenelekayo usele ncwadi. Yenza umntwana inkampani ebhaliweyo ileta, le ndlela iyimnandi kakhulu yokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokuvelisa iziqhamo ezintle, ileta iya kukuxelela ngeminqweno yomntwana. Ukuba uchitha ixesha kunye nomntwana unyaka wonke, udlale kunye kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwimicimbi enomdla neqhelekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo akuyi kuba neengxaki ekukhetheni isipho. Uya kukwazi zonke iimfuno zomntwana, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ube ngabahlobo bokwenene. Emva koko, uthando luyintoni na isipho esihle kakhulu.
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho enye imibuzo enxulumene nendlela yokukhetha izipho zonyaka. Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba ngenxa yokuba abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka banike into ethile engokoqobo, kutheni banokutshintshana kwiimidlalo ezahlukeneyo, kuba umdla kubo uza kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, kukho inyaniso kule nto. Kodwa simele sikhumbule ukuba uNyaka omtsha ungumlingo, ngoko ke umsebenzi wethu oyintloko kukudala inganekwane yomntwana. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kunika izipho ezinjalo, ezizibalulekileyo kunye ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, amantombazana ahlala ephupha ezinye iingubo ezigqibeleleyo, iifestile ezithengayo. Thenga iingubo ezithandwa yintombi yakhe, kwaye makhe abe ngumthendeleko ngokuhlwa. Kule nkwenkwe namhlanje, kukho ukhetho olukhulu ngokwemidlalo yokuphuhlisa, njengomyili okanye ezinye iisethi zobuchwepheshe. Sondela ekukhethweni ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye uza kuzalisekisa umnqweno wabantwana. Ewe, kwaye amathoyi, nawo, akafuneki ukuba ahoywa, kuba bahlala behamba nabantu ebomini babo, bakhonza njengemibono enhle kakhulu kwiminyaka emangalisayo yobuntwana.
Xa ukhetha, ngokuqinisekileyo, ucinge ngeminyaka yomntwana. Emva koko, abantwana, abafundi beeklasi ezincinci kunye nabaselula banomdla ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke, kuya kufuneka uzame ukukholisa umntwana wakho kuyo yonke inqanaba lokuphila kwakhe. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, musa ukuwanelisa zonke iifom, kuba abantwana kufuneka bangathandi kuphela ukufumana izipho, kodwa banokwenza izinto ezimnandi kwabanye.
Njengoko siyiqonda kusuka ngasentla, ukukhethwa kwezipho ezenza uvuyo kunye nenjabulo yangempela, kufuna ukulungiswa ngokufanelekileyo kunye nexesha. Ngako oko, akuyi kuba nengqiqo ukuyeka yonke into ngomzuzu wokugqibela kunye nosuku okanye ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba uNyaka omtsha usebenze ngokuzithenga, uzama ukubamba yonke into. Lungiselela izipho kusengaphambili, xa kungekho ziqalo ezinkulu kunye namanani awanakunyulwa, ukuze athole inzuzo engaphezulu. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuba nako ukugcina ixesha, imali kunye neentsholongwane.
Izityebi ezinkulu ngeveki phambi kokuba iholide inelisekile ngeentengiso ezinkulu, zama ukuwavakashela, kuba kukho i-assortment enkulu (ngokukodwa ekuqaleni) kunye namaxabiso athile. Funda malunga nokukhushulwa. Ngenxa yoko, unokuthatha izipho ezingabantwana kuphela, kodwa kwiintsapho nabahlobo.
Unyaka omtsha yiholide enobuso obuninzi, kuba ngaphandle kwezipho ezilula, kushiya ezinye izinto ezivuyayo: iipesele, izitya ezicocekileyo, izambatho zokugcoba, izinto zokudlala kunye nezinye izinto ezintle. Ngoko, ukuze iholide ibe yinto edabukisayo kumntwana ubomi kwaye yayiyimemori ekhuselekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba nangona ixesha ngaphambi nangemva kokuba umbhiyozo ube yisipho. Bonke abazali bancinci, ngakho ke akunzima ukwenza. Uvuyo kunye nokulindela ukubhiyozela kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana, nakubantu abadala, nje kuphela. Ngako oko, nceda bazali bakho, hamba nabo kwimiboniso yangaphambi kweeholide okanye ukhangele umfanekiso weNew New in cinema. Ivumela isimo sezulu-sihambe sijikeleze isixeko, sikhanyise kunye nezigidi zemiqondiso yeziNyaka ezintsha, tyelela idolophini kunye nomthi ophakathi. Qaphela ukuba umntwana unokuthetha no-Grandfather Frost kunye ne-Snow Maiden. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukhethe izinto ezifunwa ngabantwana bakho abathandayo ngeli xesha, kunokuba bakho. Ulonwabo lwabantwana luxabisa kakhulu kunye nesipho esikhulu kunazo zonke kubazali.
Musa ukulibala malunga nezipho ezahlukahlukeneyo ezintle, oko kukuthi, isethi yeesekese kwibhokisi lesipho. Ziyolonwabo olukhulu kumntu wonke, zombini nakancinci. Uninzi lweetekethi kwindlela yoyilo oluhlukeneyo, kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno kunye neminqweno yanoma ubani, inokufunyanwa kwii-shelves zevenkile. Qinisekisa ukuba ubaphazamise nabantwana, kodwa ke, qiniseka ukuba abadli kakhulu. Imveliso ye-Confectionery, ngendlela yeebhaki kunye ne-pastries, ukuza kubekho inani elincinci leentlobo, iifom kunye nezinto ezithandayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze i-oda nganye, ngoko unako ukuza kunye nento yokuqala kwiholide. Kwaye uya kuzibhaka, kunye kunye nosana, kuya kuba yinto yokuzonwabisa emnandi phambi kweeholide.
Ngendlela, musa ukulibala malunga neengubo zokugqoka. Abantwana bathanda ukutshintsha kubalinganiswa babo abathandayo. Kule meko, ngesibindi unike i-suit ye hero yakho oyintandokazi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhethwa kwezipho kunye nokukhethwa kwembhiyozo kunkulu. Zama ukuvuyisa abantwana kwaye ujabule nabo!