Ikiti yokunceda yokuqala - inamba yengozi
Ewe, isiluleko esicacile ngakumbi - musa ukushiya abantwana abancinci ngaphandle kwengqalelo yesibini. Kwaye, "okwesibini" kule ngxaki, kufuneka uqonde ngokwenene: inkunzi inomntwana inomzuzu omnye ukuthatha ibinza okanye isinyithi eshushu, ukuyifaka emlonyeni wayo kwaye uginye "iipesele" ezimbalwa eziye zabonakala ziyingozi yeyilisi. Amabali anjalo aqhelekanga, kwaye yonke into iphela ngokugquma okukhulu ekubizeni "i-ambulensi" kunye nezibhedlele zexesha elide. Kungcono ukuba ungathethi naziphi iziphumo ezinomsindo.
Ngoko, ukuze ugweme ingxaki, kufuneka uchonge ngokucacileyo "indawo eziyingozi" kwindlu uze wandise ukhuseleko lwabo. Umzekelo, isifuba sakho seyeza. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kwindawo yokufikelela komntwana omncinci, akufanele kubekho amalungiselelo enyango kuwo onke! Ngoko ke, ikiti yokuncedisa yokuqala kufuneka isuswe phezulu, ukuze umntwana angenalo ithuba lokujonga oko okuphakathi. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, kufuneka kuqaliswe ngokuthe ngcembe kwiifom zokulinganisa ezilula. Ngoko, umntu oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala unokukwazi ukucinga ukuba wenzeni nge-scratch okanye ugcobe.
Yintoni enokuba yimizingo yokudlala ?
Ngokuqhelekileyo amathoyizi abantwana awela "kwindawo yengozi". Kucacile ukuba kufuneka bafanise nobudala bomntwana, kodwa akusiyo yonke into. Ngokomzekelo, izigulane eziqhelekileyo zinokuba yingozi kumntwana oqala ukuhamba. Ukuba i-rattle nge-handle handle, qiniseka ukuba umntwana akazami ukuhamba, ethatha le penzana emlonyeni wakhe. Ukuba iyawa, inokubangela ukulimala kakhulu, nangona ipeni ayibukhali. Amathoyizi amancinci kunye noboya obude kunye neamehlo ezinamaqabunga ayingozi kumntwana, edonsa yonke into emlonyeni. Kuyafana noomatshini abaneevili ezixhaswayo.
Amathoyizi amancinci, njengeempawu ezisuka kwimfino, akanakunikwa abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu. Oku kucace kubo bonke. Nangona kunjalo, ngamathoyizi amancinci ngamanye amaxesha adibaniswa kalula kwiindawo ezincinci ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu - oku kufuneka kujongwe. Ekugqibeleni, qiniseka ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kumgangatho wezinto ezivela kuyo. Ingane iya kuyithandayo, ngoko loo nto ayifanele ibe nezinto ezinobungozi. Kungcono ukuba ungabaniki abantwana abantwana baseTshayina abangaphantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo iinxalenye zazo zihlanganiswe ne-glue enetyhefu, upende uphinde ube nesetyhefu, kwaye xa uzama ukuhlamba iitokisi emanzini afudumeleyo, iqala ukukhulula iibheksi ezingavumelani nomgaqo "wempilo."
Iintsana kunye neekhemikhali zekhaya
Iikhemikhali zomakhaya - umthombo ongenakunqunyelwayo wengozi eyandisa abantwana. Qinisekisa ukuba ususe zonke izitya kunye nokuhlambulula apho umntwana omncinci angakwazi ukufumana iibhotile ezinokumema ezininzi kunye neepakethe ngeepudders! Kungcono ukuba uzame ukusetyenziswa kwimpilo yansuku zonke iindlela, ezingenakukwazi ukuvula ngokuzimela.
Abanye abavelisi abaziwayo baqala ukunyamekela ukhuseleko lwabantwana. Kweminye imida yezilumbiso zezingane, kungekhona kuphela iinqununu zeemveliso zendalo, kodwa ukupakishwa kwenziwe ngezinto zendalo. Kukhuselekile nokuba upende, oprintwe kwisicatshulwa sephepha. Iimveliso ezinjalo ziya kukhuseleka ngokupheleleyo nakubantwana abahlaselayo.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba i-gel ejwayelekile yetshezi yongezwa emanzini? Ekuqaleni, akusayi kuba nantoni na, kodwa ukuba wongeza enye i-hydrochloric acid (isantya esiswini esisodwa), i-foam iya kuphakama kwisiqingatha semitha. Into efanayo iya kwenzeka kwisisu esiswini, ukuba uyasela isiphumo esifanayo. Ukuba i-foam ihlasela umntwana kwimiphunga, iya kugxeka.
Iimeko eziyingozi zekhaya
Ukuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo iziseko. Ukuze ugweme ukulimala kombane, qiniseka ukuxhobisa iziseko kunye neebhokisi zeplastiki. Endlwini apho umntwana omncinci ekhula khona, kufuneka kube nokufakelwa okungahambi kakuhle kwimbambo yombane. Zama ukwenzela ukuba izixhobo zombane zombane, iigesi kunye nezitofu zombane zitovu ngokubanzi zazingenakufikeleleka kwintsana. Ngendlela, abaninzi abakhiqizi beempahla zanamhla bakhiqiza iiplate, amayeza okuhlamba kunye namafriji ephethe umsebenzi wokukhusela nantoni na into yokuba "ukusetyenziswa okungagunyaziswanga" ngabantwana babo abancinci. Ewe, zibiza kakhulu, kodwa kunzima nayiphi na intlawulo ingabonakala ingaphelelanga, ukuba kukugcina impilo nempilo yabantwana bethu!
Ngexesha elitshisayo awukwazi ukushiya umntwana wakho kuphela egumbini eneefestile ezivulekileyo! Iingxaki ezininzi zibangelwa kukuba abantwana abakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwenjongo yokusebenza kwefestile kunye nomnyango. Cinga ngenyameko malunga nendlela yokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana. Abanye bafaka iifestile ezinomnatha. Nangona kunjalo, abayilokhuseleko lokuwa. Ngokuphambene noko, loo gridi inokunika inkwenkwe yenkcazo enokuthenjwa, iya kuxhomekeka ngokukhuselekileyo kuyo kwaye ukuwa kuya kupheka.
I-Windows, kunye nazo zonke iingcango zeekhabhinethi zendlu zixhotyiswe ngokufanelekileyo ngokukhiya okukhethiweyo. Umntwana akakwazi ukuwavula ngokuqinisekileyo. Yonke ifenitshala endlwini kufuneka ikhuseleke ngokukhuselekileyo ngoncedo lwefenitshala ekhethekileyo. Ngoko i-fidget encinci ayiyi kuba nethuba lokunqongophala kwi-bookcase okanye i-rack. Yaye ungayikhohlwa malunga neempondo ezibukhali! Eyona nto ifanitshala "engumngxuma" ngexesha eliya kuthathwa kwigumbi elihlukileyo kwaye ivalwe khona. Kungekudala, nje ngeenyanga ezimbalwa, kude kube yinkwenkwe ifunde ukuhlala ezinyaweni zakhe. Unokuzama ukugubungela iikona ngendwangu, kodwa inokutshabalalisa ifenitshala, kwaye yonke ibonakala ihlaziyekile.
Zonke ezi ziinkalo ezithile zokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwasekhaya lwezingane zethu ezizithandayo. Abazali kufuneka bajonge iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, zonke iintsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka, kuquka iholide kunye neveki. Kodwa ubomi kunye nempilo yomntwana kuyafaneleka. Iintlambo akufanele zibe nelinye ithuba lokulimala endlwini, ekufuneka ibe yinqaba kulabo abahlala phantsi kophahla lwayo.