Kwiminyaka emininzi, iingcali zeengqondo emhlabeni jikelele ziye zajamelana neengxaki ezifanayo kaninzi, kwaye abanye baye benza iimpawu, becinga ukuba unokwenza okuthile ukugcina ubomi bakho bentsapho.
Uphawu lokuqala
Ithenda elula yokunxibelelana. Akunakwenzeka ukuba nabani na onokuyithanda xa imibuzo yakhe iphendulwa ngokukhawuleza nangendlela engalunganga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngokunyeliswa. Naliphi na iimbono ezibona amabhuloho kwaye kuthiwa "i-kindergarten". Akukho mntu uthandayo xa umhlobo wakhe egculela ukusilela kwakhe emsebenzini okanye ebomini. Isimo sengqondo esingaxhomekanga, akukho mnye, kwaye umtshato uphela, uzaliswe ngumtshato ochazwe ngasentla. Musa ukuhla ukuhlaziswa kunye nokuhleka isicatshulwa sesiqingatha sesibini. Kuyinto enomdla kakhulu ukuhlala ekuxhaseni nasekuqondeni, kwaye ukuba isiqingatha sesibini sinombutho omnyama ebomini, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukunceda ubuncinane ngesimo esihle sengqondo.
Uphawu lwesibini
Ukuba intsapho yakho isoloko ityala, ukugxeka okungenangqiqo kwaye kukho isabelo sokudideka, ke le ngxaki kufuneka ixazululwe ngokukhawuleza. "Indlela yokuzala" - isondo ayisoloko isinceda ukusombulula le ngxaki. Ngokwenene, xa isibini esithile siqonda impazamo yaso, iphendukela kwiingcali kuncedo, kwaye ukuba amaqela afuna ukugcina intsapho, ayethintela kwaye ayitshintshe indlela yokuthetha kunye nesimo sengqondo. Ngaphezu koko, sonke singabantu kwaye sinelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo kwaye akukho namnye onako ukususa eli lungelo. Musa ukugxeka abathandekayo bakho, kwaye ukuba uyinyamekele ukugqithisa, kukulungele ukuyilungisa ngokucokisekileyo kwaye uphumelele.
Uphawu lwesithathu
Ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo. Xa abafazi bengazi ukuba yintoni umntu omthandayo ovakalelwa kukuba, oku kubi, kodwa xa isibini sibonisa imvakalelo embi kakhulu - yimbi nakakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unengxaki, musa ukunyusa imeko, uphalaze inkunkuma engaphezulu kwintloko yakhe esele ilayishiwe. Khumbula ukuba i-Brak iyimfuneko yokuzithandela, kwaye akukho mntu kufuneka enze nantoni na kunina, kuba yonke into eyenziwa ngokuthanda kunye neyokuqala. Le yindlela kuphela yokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle. Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho luxakile ngento engalunganga, uya kumangalisa wonke umntu ngokubonisa ububele, kwaye ulungelelanise ukuxabana ngokwakho, kunye nokunye, ulandele umzekelo wakho, uya kwenza oko kwaye wonke umntu uya kuvuya.
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Uphawu lwesine
Uqhagamshelwano olungabonakaliyo. Njalo ubukele ibinzana ebusweni bomlingane wakho. Emva kokungavumelani, kukho i-iszor, nokuba kunjani na kukho umkhondo, kwaye iya kubonakala kwintetho yomntu oyintanda. Zama ukuqeda imiphumo yokuxabana, ukubanga, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezintle. Amadoda ayavuya xa ixesha lesidlo sesimini emsebenzini liza kuye: "Ndiyakuthanda" okanye "Ndikhumbula", njl njl. Enyanisweni, ulwimi lomzimba luncede abaninzi abantu abasandul 'ukutshata basindisa umtshato. Sebenzisa le sixhobo.
Isayina yesihlanu
Imemori. Ngokwemvelo, abantu banqabisa kakhulu. Kodwa wonke umntu uyayibheka ehlangothini lwakhe. Umzekelo, omnye ucinga ukuba kuqhelekile ukuhlambalaza umthandayo ngeemposiso azenzileyo ebusheni bakhe, okanye "ukuphawula" impumlo yakhe kwicala lwabazali bakhe.njalo uhlobo lomntu, kodwa uya kubonisa intlonelo xa ungayenzi! Khumbulani, konke okwakunjalo-ngaphambili kwaye akukho nto ingatshintsha. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ufuna ukucima ngokujulile, ngamnye kuthi kuthi, ngokubhekiselele, iinkcukacha zobomi zobomi bomntu kwaye, ngaphambi kokuba uhlambele umntu ngexesha elidlulileyo, cinga ngalo kwaye ukhumbule lakho elidlulileyo.