Ingakanani ebhaliweyo kwiingcebiso ze-Intanethi malunga nendlela yokuthanda umntu. Uninzi lwawo lubiza "ukuphindaphinda" ukubonakala kwawo, umlingiswa kunye nombono, fakela kwisikhokelo esinyanisekileyo somfazi ogqwesileyo kwaye uzame ngexesha ngalinye ngesaski esitsha, ulungelelanise kwimeko yomntu othandekayo. Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene abantu badinga into evuyisayo okanye eyenziwe ngobuchule? Hayi! Bafuna umfazi wabo oyedwa, oyinyani na ongafaniyo. Kwimizekelo yokuhamba kweedokodo, akukho nanye. Kodwa kukho iindaba ezilungileyo: ukuba uthandane nomfana, ungatshintshi ikhadi. Kwanele ukuphuhlisa ubuchule bakho obuhlukile, obunemvelo, ukwazi ubuqhetseba bezesengqondweni zesintu kwaye uhlala uhlala ngumfazi.
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- Nciphisa uze uhendwe ngumbonakalo wakho. Abafazi abasweleyo abakho! Kukho abantu abanamavila nabathandiyo. Nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba indalo iyanqanda ubuhle, khumbula ukuba imigangatho yobuhle ihambelana nefashoni eyenziwa ngabantu. Ngubani okhuselayo ekudaleni iifomthi zakho ezincinci, iindlebe ezinkulu okanye imilenze emfutshane? Uthande kuwe ngokwakho ongakwazi ukutshintsha, kwaye utshintshe oko kulungiswe izimonyo, iimpahla, izicathulo. Uthandane nombonakalo wakho! Yenza kuphela ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye uya kubona ukuba inkwenkwe yakho iya kuhoywa ikhulu elihle kwaye iyakunyusela.
- Ukuphuhlisa ubuntu. Unokuba ubumnandi obhaliweyo kunye ne-coquette ekhohlisayo, ukulwa nabantu bonke endaweni, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kubamba inkwenkwe yakho oyithandayo ixesha elide kunye nokukhangela kwangaphandle nje. Ibhinqa ihlala idonsa kwaye i "anchors" amadoda kunye nobunzulu bayo, ukuzaliseka kunye nomxholo. Phuhlisa! Funda iincwadi, ukuya kwii-training kunye neeminina ekuzikhuleni, uxoxe nabantu abanomdla abanento yokufunda. Khangela ubunzulu bakho kwaye ufunde ngokungafani kwakho. Kwaye kunjalo, soloko unalo uluvo lwakho, nokuba luya kulwa nolwamkelekileyo.
- Yiba ngumfazi kwaye ubuthathaka. Amandla wabasetyhini ekukwazi ukuba buthathaka, zivumeleke ukuba zizinyamekele kwaye zinike indoda leyo indawo yokwenza izinto. Iqabane lakho liliqhawe! Le ngxaki. Nangona ungacingi ukuba kunjalo, makhe azingqineke aze aqinisekise. Ufuna uncedo ngokunyanisekileyo uze ucele uncedo. Yakha iimeko apho angaziqonda amandla akhe wamadoda kunye nobuchule. Makhe, ngelixa enika uncedo kunye nokukhusela, ukhula emehlweni akhe. Le ngenye yexesha elinamandla kunokwakheka kwengqondo elithembekileyo lugcina indoda isondele.
- Qaphela ubukhokeli kumntu. Eli nyathelo liyilo lendoda. Umsebenzi wakho kukukhokelela umntu kwisigqibo, kodwa isigqibo ngokwayo (ukubizela, ukumema ngosuku, kumanga, ukuzisa kubahlobo okanye abazali) kufuneka uvela kuye. Musa ukuthatha intonga yobuhlobo kwezandla zakho, ngaphandle koko unobungozi ukuthatha inxaxheba yindoda kunye noxanduva, kwaye oku kusemgangathweni, kwaye kunomngcipheko kakhulu kumfana ngokugqithisa ngokugqithisileyo nokugqithisa. Bonke abantu bafuna ukucinga ukuba balawulwa ubudlelwane. Ewe, maye bacinge njalo. Siyazi inyaniso!
- Memeze kwaye ukhuthaze umfana. Yenza kuphela ngokunyaniseka kunokwenzeka. Musa ukuqulunqa ukuncoma kwaye ungaqhubeki ukubulela ukususela ekuqaleni. Amadoda akhathazeke kakhulu kuhanahaniso. Umntu ngamnye unamakhono, izakhono kunye neetalente. Gcina amandla omlingane wakho kwaye ubalalele ngokuzwakalayo. Yidla ukuzingca kwakhe kwaye ungalokothi uqhathanise nesoka lakho kunye namanye amadoda, ngakumbi xa engabonakali iimpawu ezibalaseleyo zobuntu.
- Yakha ukhuphiswano lwezempilo. Musa ukucinga ukuba uya kuthandana nomfana xa udala ujikeleze indawo eyinyumba evela kwamanye amadoda. Musa ukuphuma ebomini bakho bahlobo, oogxa, abahlobo. Nika umntu wakho ukuba aqonde ukuba unomdla kwamanye amadoda, ukuba kuwe ngokwenene kukho umgca webalandeli, kodwa ukhethe owodwa kuphela. Kakade ke, unganikeli izizathu ezicacileyo zokuba nomona, kodwa hlakulela umoya wokubambisana nendoda ukuze ahlale efuna ukuhlala ephumelele.
- Musa ukufikelela lula. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwisini, kodwa nakwezinye izinto eziphambili: ukufikelela kwi-intanethi, iifowuni, ixesha lokukhulula. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kunzima ukuzithintela ngokuthanda. Kodwa ukuba lo mfana wathandana, kufuneka ahlale ephosakele. Ukugqiba ezinye iintsuku kuqala, ngokubhekiselele kwiimeko ezibalulekileyo, musa ukukhawuleza ukuphendula kwisibonelelo sakhe, ungabizi rhoqo kwaye ungazibopheli. Vumela ebomini bakho kuya kuba nezinye izinto ezithandekayo kunye nezinto zokusebenza. Umfana kufuneka abe nomnqweno ongenakunqwenelekayo wokukuphumelela emsebenzini wakho.
- Musa ukukhawuleza ukutyhila amakhadi. Wonke umntu uyazi malunga nemilingo yokuzingela indoda. Le nyaniso. Ngoko musa ukukhawuleza ukuvuma kumntu kwiimvakalelo zakho, de uze ubone okanye ukuva kuye ngokucacileyo ukuba uyabathanda. Mxelele oko kukukholisayo, ukuba ulungile kwaye uthembeke kuye, ukuba uyamkhathaza, kodwa ungamvumeli ukuba ucinge ukuba ulahlekelwe intloko yakho ukuba ungamthandi. Umntu omdala ukhangele ukuqinisekiswa kothando lwakho, ngakumbi uya kuthanda ngokwakhe. Kukho konke, "ixhoba" elithobelayo kwaye liqikelelwa liba ludaka.
- Musa ukunyanzelisa inkululeko yabantu kwiifowuni ezinzima. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba unomdla kumntu owamthandayo, musa ukwenza impazamo efana neyabasetyhini - ayiyikukhawulela inkululeko yakhe. Nangona akakhokhelwa nantoni na. Ukuphucula, ukuhlakulela ukuzithemba uze umvumele ukuba akhangele amanye amantombazana, axoxe nabo aze athelekise. Ungayenza njani enye into yokuba akanakukufumana ngcono? Ukulawula ngokupheleleyo kunye nomona akuzange kuqinisekiswe nabani na. Yi bulumko!
- Vumela ungafezekanga. Abafana abayithandi ngamantombazana asemgangathweni, kodwa kulabo abangesabi ukuhlala bodwa. Qaphela ukungafezeki kwakho kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukuba uvele phambi kwendoda engaphilisi, egula okanye elele. Unelungelo lokuhlala kuyo nayiphi na imeko njengomntu. Unganqikazi ukungazi into ethile okanye uzive ungakhululekile kwaye uyisidenge. Ukunyaniseka okunjalo kudibanisa. Kwaye ukuyenza into encinci kunye nentlalo engenakulinganiswa. Inxulumene kwaye luphawu lokholo olujulile.