Ngoku kuyafashisa ukuba ngumntu odala. Nabani na ofuna ukufumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo makabeke ngokucacileyo lo mgca kwi-resume yakhe. Ngaphezu koko, ubuchule abufuneki nje kuphela emsebenzini, kodwa ekhaya kwikhaya eliqhelekileyo lemihla ngemihla, kuba kukuvumela ukuba usombulule iingxaki ezininzi ngaphandle komgudu omkhulu. Makhe sihlakulele ubuchule!
Amantombazana amaninzi aphupha ngomsebenzi womququzeleli weeholide zezingane, kodwa ahlawula encinane esikolweni. Ukutsala ingqalelo, umntu unokuqhuba i-interviews kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga, umzekelo, ungafiki kuye kwiseshishini soshishino, kodwa kwi-suit yomntu othile, ngoko awuyi udliwano-ndlebe, kwintetho enomdla. Inkampani ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuthatha!
Aba bantu baqulunqa ubomi babo. "Ukudala" kuguqulelwa kwisiLatini, njengokuthi "indalo", "indalo engenanto." Nangona kunjalo, intsingiselo oyifakayo kwindalo iyahluka ngokupheleleyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubuchule bubunakho bokucinga nokudala, nangakolunye uhlangothi, ukukwazi ukuxazulula imisebenzi yokudumisa.
Umzekelo, ukufumana indlela yokwenzela umntwana ukuba ayenze into ayithandayo, ukutsala iimpahla zakhe kubathengi basebenzisa ukukhangisa okungavamile okanye ukuyila koqobo. Kutheni uhlakulele ubuchule? Ekuqaleni, kuya kuba mnandi kwaye kumnandi ukuhlala, ngaphezu koko, iimbono ezintsha namathuba aya kuvulwa, umzekelo, umsebenzi omtsha onomdla.
Iingxoxo
Abantu abakudala bafumana isithunzi esingenakulinganiswa, bafaka izixazululo ezinamakhono kunye neziqhamo, bayazi ukuvelisa. Amashishini okudala acingwa ukuba ngaba ngulo msebenzi: umphathi-mcimbi, umcwangcisi, umculi, umqambi, umqeshwa we-arhente yomsebenzi, umculi, intatheli, umkopishi, "umntu we-PR" nabanye abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusilo umda, unokuba ngumfazi wendlu kwaye ubonise ubuchule bakho. Ngokufanayo, ngenye indlela: ugqirha uzama ukufumana isizathu esitsha sesifo kwaye anqume indlela yokunyanga ngayo, ootitshala bayakha iindlela ezintsha zokufundisa, umprogram ubhala inkqubo entsha kunye njalo. Ubomi babantu abanjalo bunengqiqo, kuyathakazelisa, kwaye umsebenzi waba baqeshwa ukhokhelwa kakuhle, ukuba, ngokwenene, uyaqhubeka kwaye iimeko zintle. Kubantu bokudala, iziphathamandla zixolela kakhulu: ukungazinzi, ukukhawuleza, indlela yokungaqondakali yembatho, ukulahla etafileni, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukungahlehlisi - bayazi ukuba umsebenzi uya kwenziwa.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyilo lobuchule - akusoloko lithetha ukuba awuhambelani. Ukuba uzalwe ngumntu onengqiqo kwaye ukuba unyanzelekile, ngoko ebomini uya kufumana impumelelo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iingcambu ezimbi ...
Ukubuyisela ukudala ubuchule
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuvuma ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi babantu bokudala bunzima. Baziva bengamavakalelo, benomdla, baqonda kwaye ngenxa yoko bahlala bexhatshazwa kwiingxabano zangaphakathi. Le yecala elibi lokudala.
Emva kwakho konke, xa ubona indlela engaphezulu kweyodwa ngaphandle kwimeko, kunye neyeshumi, kuba nzima ukukhetha, kukho ukuxhalaba. Ngaphezu koko, abantu abadala, njengomthetho, basebenze ekupheleni kwamandla abo, kwaye xa amandla ephuma, ukunganakwa kuyayifaka indawo. Kodwa indlela yokuphila yanamhlanje iyanqaba ngokupheleleyo ukuqonda le mfuno. Inxalenye ebuthakathaka kakhulu yabantu bokudala kukukwazi ukugcina amandla kunye nesicwangciso. Ngako oko, zikhawuleza ziphelile, iingxaki, ukuhanjiswa kwezinto zokudala kunye nokuxothwa kuza ... akunakwenzeka ukubaleka kule nto. Akunakwenzeka ukuzala iingcamango ezintsha kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uhlale ujabule. Kodwa kukho indlela yokuphuma, nangona yena, ngelanga, kunye nomnye-bahlala bejonga imithombo emitsha yokuphefumlelwa!
No ku phuhlisa!
Umntu onokudala akazalwanga, kodwa uyaba. Oku kuqinisekiswa ngobuninzi bophando olwenziwa kumazwe ahlukeneyo ehlabathini. Akusiyo inzala echaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwemisebenzi kunye neetalente, kodwa indawo ohlala kuyo, indawo apho umntu akhuliswe khona. Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuba umntwana unikwe indawovnimaniya, ukulawula okuncinane ukuziphatha kwakhe kwaye enze iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zeemfuno ezingavumelanisiwe, ngoko unokukwazi ukudala. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umama okanye utata uthathe inxaxheba ekudaleni nasekukhuthazeni ukucinga okungavamile. Iingcali zithi ubuchule buyimvelo kuwo wonke umntu, iipateni zezobuhlanga zicime kwaye ziyivimbele. Ngako-ke, ekukhuleni, ukudala ubuchule kukukhulula ubunamandla bam bokudala. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ubuchule obunokubamba, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukunceda ukuba uhlakulele le nto.
Makhe sikhulule amandla okudala!
Ukuphuhlisa ubuchule kwindawo yokuqala, iya kwandisa umbono kunye nokukhangela. Ukutyelela iimyuziyam, iindiyetha, ukufunda iincwadi ezintsha, ubukela iifrikhi ezintsha kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo-ukuthetha nabantu abahlukeneyo, oku kuza kukubukeka kwihlabathi ngamanye amehlo. Njalo uqhagamshelana nabantu abatsha, qha ga mshelana nabantu, musa ukuma, jonga izinto ezithandwayo kunye nemisebenzi! Yonke imihla kufuneka ufumene imbonakalo emitsha - oku kukuxhaswa ngokusemgangathweni kwendalo kunye nobuchule.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuba wenzeni kwaye uqala kuphi, zama ezi zilandelayo:
- Zama ukungabonisi ubuqhetseba nokugweba kwabo abangayixhasi umbono wakho. Cinga nje, kutheni abantu bethetha baze benze njalo, zeziphi izizathu zezi.
- Funda incwadi ethi "eyinkimbinkimbi", udlale ibhola yepalati, fumana ukuba ngubani umntu onomdla kumdlalo webhola, cela udade wakho omncinci ukuba unomdla kuni, uluhlobo luni lomculo aluthandayo, tyelela ibha yaseJapane kwaye ujonge ifilimu yaseMexico.
- Ukunyamekela ngakumbi abantu, qhathanisa, uzive, unomdla kubo.
- Musa ukuthatha ingcinga yokuqala efika entloko yakho. Musa ukuma kwabanye abantu.
- Bonisa umonakalo ngamanye amaxesha xa kungekho sikhokelo esikhethekileyo - ukugxekwa, ukunyaniseka nokuthetha kakubi.
- Phinda uphinde uphinde ufunde i-Russian folk tale, kwaye xa uwafunda kwakhona, ubambe iingxelo zabanye abantu. Kulapho, uya kufumana intsingiselo efihliweyo, mhlawumbi uza kufunda into entsha.
- Fantasize.
- Ungesabi ukuba noxanduva lokuthatha izenzo, izicwangciso, iingcamango, ubomi bakho, ungagxothi phambi kweengcamango zabantu abanegunya - mhlawumbi baphosakele.
- Khangela indawo kunye neendawo apho uza kuzuza kuyo kwimpumelelo. Hlaziya i-alloy, ukhule iintlanzi, ubophe intambo, ubophe nge-cross okanye elula, ubhondi ...
Zonke ezi ndlela zilula ziza kukunceda ubone izinto ezingaqhelekanga kwizinto eziqhelekileyo, kwaye uza kunika ithuba lokusombulula imisebenzi yangaphambili yemihla ngemihla. Ungesabi ukunikela iingcamango zakho ezingenangqondo. Unganamatheli kulowo wonke umntu akwenzayo, unombono, ungaphupha, kodwa ucinga. Unquma ukuba uya kuhlala njani kwaye usebenze!
Izifundo ezintathu
Ezi zifundo ziya kukuvumela ukuba uhlakulele ingqiqo, ukubonwa, ukucinga ngokubambisana, ukucinga kunye nokwenza ngokuthe ngqo.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 1. USherlock Holmes.
Qaphela abantu obabona kuqala (ummelwane kwi-bar, omnye umhambi), zama ukuqonda ukuba ngubani lo mntu, yintoni intsapho yakhe, into ayithandayo, osebenza kuyo. Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwingxoxo kunye nokunyakaza. Yaye uqikelele ukucinga kwakho, kutheni ucinga ukuba kunjalo.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 2. Umbutho.
Igama elingaqondakaliyo ongayisebenzisi rhoqo kwingxoxo, umzekelo, igama elithi "i-carbine." Cinga malunga nemibutho ebangelayo? Ngoku ke phumula, khulula iingcamango zakho kwaye usethe uluhlu lwemibutho: "inkunkuma - intaba yezintaba eziphakamileyo - iholide - isipho esivela kwisixeko samanzi - umhlobo endimnike isikhumbuzo - isikhwama esasithenge kunye kunye - ivenkile apho ndathatha khona isikhwamkhwa-isitya esingavamile samaqanda aqhelekileyo - i-dacha-ugogo-ugogo nomkhulu "... Buyisela zonke ii Iintliziyo ezakukhokelela kwi-carbine ku-ugogo nomkhulu. Kuya kuba nzima, kodwa luncedo kwaye lunomdla.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 3. Amazwi.
Kukho amagama amaninzi ahlukileyo asebenzisanga omnye komnye, umzekelo: "intyatyambo, isimulator, isanti". Ngoku udibanise nomfanekiso omnye omkhulu. Cinga malunga nazo zonke ezi zinto. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - velisa iinguqu zakho!