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Ukuqala, hlola ngokucophelela indawo yokudlala. Umntu omdala ucinga ukuba akukho nto yingozi kuyo, kodwa le mvakalelo iyakhohlisa. Ukulimala okufunyenweyo kwibala lokudlala kuyingozi kakhulu. Iingxabano, iingqungquthela, ukulimala, ukulimala kwamehlo aqhelekileyo.
- KwiSandbox. Khangela ukuba ayikho iiglasi, izilwanyana, izilwanyana zezilwanyana, njl.
- Ngendlela yokuhamba nge-swing kunye ne-carousel. Ukunikezela ngeenkonzo (iindawo ezisebenza ngokufanelekileyo, isihlalo sonke, isakhiwo esizinzileyo) siya kumela ubunzima bakho, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, kungcono ukukulahla kunomntwana. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abambelele kwiintambo ngezandla zombini, gweba ukutshintsha kwezinto ezikhangayo, ukuguqula ukuguquka ukusuka kwicala, kungekhona ngaphambili okanye ngasemva. Vumelana nomntwana awamkisa xa efuna ukuhla, kwaye akafiki kwiinyawo zakhe ngelixa ekhwele, akayi kugxuma kwi-swing.
- Isilayidi ekuwa kwehla zimanzi kwaye ziyancipha, kwaye kwiqabunga iya kugutyungulwa ngeqhekeza leqhwa. Ngenxa yoko, isantya se-flight ukusuka kuso sanda amaxesha amaninzi. Fundisa umntwana ukuba aqonde ixesha lokukhwela ngokukhuselekileyo, kwaye xa-kungekhona kakhulu, amanyathelo enkuni akufanele aphephe: ukubola kungaphula phantsi komntwana wakho. I-hump ngaphandle kocingo phezulu iqheleke ngokufanelekileyo. Yima njalo ecaleni kwenduli - kwaye ubambe umntwana ube nexesha (ukuba oko), kwaye uya kuba nako ukuhokela, ukuthobela imithetho elula.
- Kungcono ukukhwela ngomnye. "Iinjineli zeTeam" zingawela phantsi kwinqanaba lomgca kwaye ziphephe ngaphesheya kwentaba.
- Olandelayo kufuneka adibanise kuphela xa umntu odlulileyo unelungelo lokuba avuke aze ahambe.
- Musa ukudibanisa phezulu. Ukuqhaqhaza - kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuhla, mhlawumbi umntu "uya kunceda" ngokususa phantsi.
- Musa ukutshiza! Ukuphuka ukususela kumgangatho omncinci kuyingozi kakhulu.
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Phantse wonke umntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu wayenendima yecala. Ukudibanisa, ukudibanisa kunye nokuguqula kule minyaka ngokuqhelekileyo. Ingane ayayiqondi into eyenza ukuba ibuhlungu, kwaye ayiyazi indlela yokuziva intlungu yomntu onjengeyakhe. Ukujamelana nemvakalelo yabo, abanakukwazi ukuvakalisa amagama abo nokuba: bathatha umdlalo - kuyimfuneko ukubetha umoni, unomdla komnye umatshini - uyisuse kwaye ubalekele ukuyifunda. Iimama zidla ngokuchukumiseka ngokuthi "ukutshatyalaliswa" kwabancinci babo: kubonakala buhle ukusuka kwicala, njengokuba unyaka omnye unyaka. Kodwa ezo zibhozo azikho isizathu sokuzonwabisa. Umntwana uthatha ukuhleka kukaMama njengendlela yokuvuma okungaxelwanga, kwaye uzama ukumchazela ukuba kutheni kulungile ukulwa. Kodwa ukugweba imbuzi ngokuziphatha kakubi akusizi nto: akayiqondi into ayifaneleyo. Kungcono ukwenza "phambi kwekhalo". Akuyimfuneko ukuba uhlale ecaleni kwesigxina kwi-sandbox kwaye ubambe isandla sakhe nasiphi na ukunyakaza ngokukhawuleza-vele uhlale usondele ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungenelele ngokukhawuleza ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba acele imvume ngaphambi kokuba uthathe umdlalo womnye umntu, uchaze isizathu sokuba ufanele ulinde ngomonde ixesha lakho kunye nokuba kutheni ufuna ukunyamezela kwikarapuzes. Ingane kufuneka ifundiswe ukuba idlale nabanye abantwana. Isikhundla sokungabikho kokuphazamiseka kuya kubangela ukuba abanye baya kwenza umvo wokuvumela, ngelixa abanye baya kuba ngamaxhoba angunaphakade. Kwaye konke oku - ngokuvuma kwemama okholelwa ukuba abantwana baya kuqonda.
Ukuba umntwana ubonise ubundlobongela:
• Musa ukumgxeka phambi kwabanye abantwana - thatha umoni kuye kwicala lokuxubusha;
• fumana izizathu zokungquzulana ("ndachukumisa ngenxa yokuba ndiyithanda imoto kwaye ndifuna ukudlala nayo");
• Bonisa ukuba iziphumo zengxabano zibukeka njani: "Khangela, inkwenkwe ibuhlungu, uyakhala";
• ukuphakamisa iindlela zokuphuma kumbambano: kufuneka ucele ukuxolelwa, ukuzisola, ubuyisele i-toy;
• Chaza indlela yokwenza ngayo: cela imoto, cebisa ukutshintsha amathoyizi okanye udlala kunye.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uxhaphaza, musa ukumfundisa ukuba anike utshintsho. Kubantwana, umxholo othi "ukuyeka ukuhamba" awunanto yokwenza "ukuzimela." Umntwana akayiqondi ngokucacileyo xa "utshintsho" lunga "kunikwa" kwaye lunjani amandla. I-crumb ingaba nomnqweno "wokunika utshintsho" ukuba awuzange umvumele ukuba adibanise isanti ukuhamba okanye umntu phambi kwakhe wathatha itekisi ayifunayo ukuyithatha. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphendule ngamazwi athi: "Akufanele uyenze, andiyithandi," nyathela ngaphandle kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo.
Abanikazi abancinci
Umgaqo obalulekileyo webhokisi le-sandbox - yonke into edlala kuyo iqhelekileyo, wonke umntu unelungelo lokudlala nabo. Kodwa ukukwazi ukwabelana ngomntwana sisayensi yonke. Kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu, abantwana banengqondo yobunini: umntwana uyaqonda ukuba kukho izinto eziza kuye kuphela; Igama elithi "yam" ibonakala, umntwana ubhikisha ngokuchasene nokudibanisa kwizinto zakhe. UKroha akayiqondi ukuba amathoyizi akhe athatyathwa kwithuba elithile, kungekhona ngonaphakade, ngoko uyacaphuka aze athukuthele. Musa ukubiza umntwana onobukrakra. Kodwa ukufundisa ukwabelana - kuyinqweneleka. Yincoma umntanakho: unomusa kakhulu, ngoko uya kubelana ngokucacileyo nabafana xa ufuna. Imfesane: Inye inye inemoto enhle, kwaye ufuna ukuyikhwela. Nika utshintshiselwano: ugxotha ukudlala ifosholo, kwaye unika ukuthambisa okulungileyo! Yenza intsana ibelane ngokuvuya, kungekhona ngokuzisola. Dumisa kwaye ujabule xa uqala ukugqiba udoti ozithandayo. Qinisekisa amandla omtsha ngeemvakalelo ezintle. Kwimizekelo yamaqhawe eenganekwane kunye neekhathuni, bonise indlela enokukwazi ukwabelana ngayo (abalinganiswa babonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba umntwana "ulungile" kwaye "kubi"). Ungaphinde ufundise ububele ngamathoyizi. Ukuba yonke into efanayo inkomo ayifuni ukwahlula kunye nepropati, musa ukuyinyanzela. Oomama abaninzi, bakholelwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahlanganyele amathoyizi abo, ngezandla zabo ziguqule zibe yinto. Umfanekiso oqhelekileyo: Umama uthatha umdlalo kumntwana wakhe ngamagama athi: "Musa ukukratshi, le nkwenkwe ifuna ukudlala," Ngoko umntwana ufumana uxinzelelo lwengqondo kwengqondo: okokuqala, uvakalelwa iimvakalelo ezimbi kunye nexesha elizayo ngokukrakra okukhulu kuya kukhusela impahla yakhe; Okwesibini, kubonakala ngathi umntu osondeleyo uyamkhaphela, uthatha icala kwicala. Njalo ube kwicala lomntwana wakho! Enyanisweni, umntwana kufuneka ahlanganyele, kodwa kungekhona ukulimaza kwakhe. Abanye abantwana baya kufuneka bayamkele ukuba ngelixa umntwana wakho efuna ukudlala kunye nentonti yakhe, akukho mntu unelungelo lokulibiza. Ungakuphepha njani ulwandle lwezinyembezi? Musa ukuzisa amathoyizi axabisekileyo kwisayithi. Iimfuno zokuzithandela zomntwana, nazo, kufuneka zishiywe ekhaya - ngokwenene kwabanye abantwana akubalulekanga, kodwa nje izinto ezinokuphulwa ngephutha, zalahleka, zahluthwa, zazingcwatyelwa, zazingcolileyo zithathwa. Izinto eziphambili kubantwana ndiyakwazi! utshintshe, qwalasela oku. Ukuba namhlanje uthanda ibhayisekile, uhamba naye, udlula indawo kunye neqela, kungenjalo ukuhamba konke kuya kukhishwa kwizithandani eziqhubekayo zokuqhuba. Kukulungele ukugcina ipakethe kunye neetayitili zesitalato kwikorori - kwaye akudingeki ukuba uhlambe rhoqo, kwaye akuyi kubakho izinto eziphambili kwiipakethe.
Umama-onomsindo
Ama-Mums kwindawo yokudlala kaninzi baya kukopa iimbambano. Ukuze ugweme ukuhamba kwimvelaphi yeemvakalelo eziphazamisayo, yeka ukujonga imidlalo yemidlalo kwi-sandbox. Ewe, umntwana wakho uya kucinywa, athabathe amathoyizi akhe, atshabalalise i-kurikiki, kodwa oku akusiyo iqhinga lobutshaba obomvu, kodwa ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwezingane eziqhelekileyo. Njalo ukhangele umntwana. Kuba mama, indawo yokudlala yindawo apho "izityalo zasekhaya" zikhokelela ubomi obusondeza ubomi. Kodwa, xa ufungile "umlingane", awukwazi nje ukujongana neemeko eziyingozi, kodwa ubalekele ukuxelela into ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwakho, akazi ukuba ukuzongela iyure - ukuzingca, kwaye kunesihlabathi-esingenakunqwenela. Nika umntu inkululeko! Ungayinki kwimizuzu yonke umntanakho - emva kwakho konke, kuyacaphuka abo bajikelezile. Iimbambano ziqala ukulungiswa ngabantwana, kwaye kuphela xa behluleka, abazali beza kunceda. Abantwana mabafunde ukusebenzisana nabanye. Ukungenelela komama kuyimfuneko xa umntwana eziphatha ngendlela enokuzilimaza yena okanye abanye abantwana. Zonke iimeko eziphikisanayo kufuneka zijongane nabantwana, kodwa nabazali babo. Ungalokothi uphakamise ilizwi lakho kwaye ungaphakamisi isandla sakho komnye umntwana (okwenu, nangona kunjalo). Kwimpikiswano nomzali womnye umntwana, awukwazi ukuhamba nokuhlambalazela okanye ukumangalela. Vumela igama elithi "thina" livele kwincoko yakho, livumela umntu odibanisa naye ukuba aqonde ukuba ulungele incoko eyakhayo. Sitshele oko ubona imeko, uze uphulaphule kwelinye icala. Nonke, xubushe iindlela zokuphuma. Kwaye ukuba ngaba ngumyalelo womntwana wakho owabangela ukungquzulwano, maye amaxhoba aveze umsindo. Emva kokuzola, inqanaba eliphezulu lixolise, ukuba kukho nantoni na. Ukuba awuyicongi ukuba umntwana wakho unetyala, musa "ukugijima" ekuphenduleni. Veza uluvo lwakho. Endaweni yencoko-ntetho uvalelwa iziqalekiso? Phenduka uhambe. Yaye uzame ukungabambisani nentsapho.
- Musa ukuza kwindawo yokudlala kunye nomntwana olele, ukuze ungacingi emva kwabanye. Abantwana abazungezile banelungelo elipheleleyo lokulila.
- Musa ukunyamekela abanye abantwana abangenalo ulwazi lwabazali babo. Umntwana unako ukuhluthwa nantoni na. Buza imvume kumama / utata ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngekhukhi ngendlela yobuzalwana.
- Musa ukudibanisa lakho icebiso xa ungaceli. Kwaye xa uceliwe, ungaphambuki ekulweni. Kungcono ukuthunyiswa ngethuba lokuba umntwana uhamba ngaphandle kwengubo (mhlawumbi uhlambulukile), ugqoke ibhatyi elingcolileyo (mhlawumbi oku kuqokelelwe ngumqambi odumileyo, owokugqibela wefashoni, akathethi ngezivakalisi (mhlawumbi ubhala).
- Musa ukuphosa udoti emhlabathini. Ngokukhawuleza abantwana baqala ukuphinda izenzo zakho.
- Musa ukubiza umntwana inkwenkwana (okanye intombazana), ukuba awuqinisekanga ngubani ophambi kwakho. Amantombazana aneenwele "phantsi kwe-hedgehog, ekugqibeleni kunye nesibhamu (njengamakhwenkwe e-pink) afunyenwe.
- Musa ukuphazamisa kwinkqubo yemfundo yomnye umntu. Oku kunokwenziwa kuphela njengesigqibo sokugqibela, xa impilo yomntwana isengozini.
- Musa ukufunga. Ngomso olandelayo ukuba ungayiva "iparele" emlonyeni womntwana wakho.
- Musa ukutshaya kufuphi nabantwana kunye nomama wabo. Ukuba uthe wanyamezela ukuphela kokuhamba okungenakubekezeleka, shiya kwindawo yokudlala.
- Musa ukuthukuthela xa umntwana wakho ephule ithoyi yomnye umntu kunye nabazali beqela elichaphazelekayo balindele ukuba ulungise okanye uhlawule ngokwezinto eziphathekayo.
- Musa ukukhawuleza ukusebenzisa yonke into oyivileyo ngokusebenzayo. Umama ebhentshini ayinalo ulwazi oluchanekileyo, kwaye akukho konke ukuba amava omnye ekunyanga i-dermatitis iya kunceda umntwana wakho.