Sonke siyavuma ukuba abantwana bakhula ngokunyuka kunye nemida. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, njengoko umntwana ekhula, umnqweno wokufunda nokufunda ihlabathi elikujikelezayo uyanda. Abantwana, ngokomthetho, banomdla kuzo zonke izinto ezibajikelezile, ngoko imibuzo iqondiswa kubazali, njengamahlumelo emvula ngexesha lezulu. Enye yezinto "ezincinci" ezithandekayo zezihloko yihlabathi eliphilayo lemvelo, elilinye lababameli bezilwanyana zethu - irhamncwa. Ngoko ungamxelela njani malunga nezilwanyana ukuze ibali lifikeleleke kwaye linomdla kuye? Masizame kunye nokucacisa kumntwana ngelizwe elimangalisayo lezilwanyana.
Izilwanyana ezisemfanekisweni - olwaziyo lokuqala lwebhokhwe kunye nezilwanyana
Ngaphambi kokuba utshele umntwana malunga nezilwanyana ngomlomo, fumana amakhadi ancedo, ebonisa iintlobo zezilwanyana. Imifanekiso enjalo ayibonwanga kuphela ngumntwana, kodwa iyakhunjulwa ngokuthe tye. Ewe, ukuba wena, ngakumbi nakwizinto zonke, ngamnye kumakhadi aboniswe kumntwana uya kuhamba nebali elifutshane malunga nezilwanyana ezincinane, umntwana wakho uya kuvuyela nje "isifundo sezilwanyana". Ngendlela, ukuxelela inkwenkwe ngezilwanyana, ungathatha ibali ligama lawo, indawo yokuhlala, ukukhethwa kokutya kunye nendlela 'bathetha' ngayo.
Ngokuphathelele izilwanyana kungekhona ngetyala
Enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuxelela umntwana ngezilwanyana ziincwadi zomsindo, apho umntwana uya kuba nako ukuva indlela inja edla ngayo, yikhiphe intaka okanye indlela yokubiza ngayo i-mu-mu-mu mare yayo.
Kwakhona, abazali banokufunda kumabali abo amahlazo okanye imibongo ngabazalwana bethu abaselula. Kule nto, kuyimfuneko ukuthenga uncwadi lwabantwana kwi-bookstore, enemifanekiso ecacileyo. Ndiyabulela kule mizekeliso, umntwana akayi kuvuyela kuphela ukuphulaphula inkondlo evuyisayo malunga nesitywina, kodwa uya kubona kwakhona umfanekiso wakhe kwimifanekiso enombala.
Ngexesha apho umntwana wakho ekhula kancinane, kufuneka ufumane i-encyclopedia enhle malunga nehlabathi lezilwanyana. Kuvela kumaphepha akhe apho umntwana uya kukwazi ukufumana ulwazi olunomdla noluncedo oluhambelana nemifanekiso kunye neefoto.
Ividiyo malunga nezilwanyana
Ngexesha, kunye nomntwana, bukela iibhayisikobho ezikuxelela ngendalo. Kanye nje kwiifilimi ezinjalo ziboniswa kwindawo yazo yendalo. Ngendlela, qiniseka ukuba uyihlolisise ngaphambi kokuba uyibonise. Ngoko uya kuba nako ukuphepha iingcaciso ezingathandekiyo malunga nomcimbi wokuzingela besety okanye ixesha lokuzalisa izilwanyana. Ukukhethwa kweefilimi kufuneka kulungele kwaye kufaka iifilimu ezintle, ezicetyiswa ngokukhethekileyo ekubukeni kwabantwana. Kule filimu, iifayile ezivela kwilizwe lezilwanyana kufuneka ziboniswe. Kodwa ke, uthengele umntwana usuhlu lweedokethi eziphathekayo eziphathekayo malunga nezilwanyana. Ngenxa yezi njongo ezinokudala kunye nezilungileyo zeSoviet ziya kwenza.
Ukuqhelana nezilwanyana ezincinci ebomini
Kutheni ungathathi umncinane wakho kumbukiso omnandi kunye nombala kwiisksi, apho abalinganiswa abakhulu bezilwanyana ezincinci. Ngethuba lokungeniswa kwemiboniso, unokwenza iifoto ezimbalwa kunye nalesi silwanyana. Njengomthetho, abantwana abancinci bathanda iisksi kakhulu kwaye banomdla wokubona ukuba izilwanyana eziqeqeshiwe zenza amanani.
Ukutyelela i-zoo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ngexesha lokuphuhliswa kunye nokwandiswa kweendawo ezingabantwana. Apha unako, usebenzisa "imimiselo ephilayo" ukuxelela umntwana malunga nenye yezilwanyana. Thatha ikhamera, uthathe iifoto, ovumela umntwana ngoku atshele ngesiphi isilwanyana.
Ngombulelo lo mboniso umntwana uya kuba nako ukufumana imali eninzi yokwenza izinto, kodwa nokufumana amava amanqabileyo ekujonganeni nabazalwana bethu abancinci.
Silungiselela ibali lethu ngobuchule
Dweba kunye nosana oluthile lwezilwanyana okanye uwenze kwi-plastiki. Indlela enjalo yokudala izokukunceda kwifomu yemidlalo ukuxelela umntwana malunga nale nto okanye irhamncwa, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kunye kunye naye ukuba ngubani onobomi obunjani kunye nendlela ahluke ngayo phakathi kwabo.