Umdlalo omkhulu okanye umdlalo
Umbuzo wokuqala, apho abazali kufuneka bawuphendule, ngumbuzo wezemidlalo ezemidlalo kunye nezemidlalo "ngokwakho." Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho angene kwimidlalo yezempilo kunye nenjabulo - yinto enye, kwaye enye into, ukuba uyaphupha kuyo kwipowulini.
Nantsi ibali eliqhelekileyo. Abazali banquma ukuba umntwana wabo uya kuba ngumzekelo we-skater. Umntwana uphuhliswa kakuhle ngokomzimba, idatha kulo mdlalo analo, njengoko umqeqeshi uthi. Ingane inxaxheba ngokuzonwabisa, yenza inkqubela phambili, isele ithetha kumncintiswano. Kodwa ... Ekuqaleni, iiklasi zaziphindwe kathathu ngeveki, koko zine, kwaye ngoku zibe zintandathu. Kwizifundo zomntwana kufuneka zithunyelwe, zilinde ukugqitywa kwazo. Kukho imincintiswano ehloniphekileyo. Iqhwa linikezwa namhlanje ezintandathu ngentsasa, nangomso kwishumi elinanye ngokuhlwa. Emva koko uhambo oluya kwesinye isixeko. Umntwana kufuneka ahambisane. Umama wayefanele ayeke umsebenzi wakhe, kuba ugogo sele engagcinanga isigqi esinjalo. I-Suit, skates ... Nonke ixesha ufuna into ethile. Xa umntwana wam oneminyaka eyisixhenxe ubudala ekhuthazwa kwisikolo se-Olimpiki, abazange bakwazi ukuma kwaye banquma ukuba umdlalo omkhulu wawungekho kubo. Inkwenkwe ehlakaniphile enomntu osele evezwe ngexesha loqeqesho, uya kufumana indawo yakhe ebomini.
Ngoko, xa bekhetha umbuzo wezemidlalo, abazali kufuneka baphendule imibuzo emibini:
- Ingaba umntwana unedatha yecandelo lemidlalo yezemfundo?
- Ngaba unako ukuhamba ngemihla yokuziphatha kunye nezinto eziphathekayo ngenxa yempumelelo yemidlalo yonyana wakho okanye intombi?
Ukuba unquma ukuba umdlalo omkhulu awukho kuwe, kwaye ufuna nje ukuba umntwana wakho akhule kwaye uphuhlise kakuhle kuzo zonke iinkalo, ngoko unokukunika nayiphi na icandelo lezemidlalo elikufanayo ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye. Ungatshintshi - tshintsha. Into ephambili kukuba izifundo zizisa umnwabo kumntwana, nawe. Kwaye nantsi into ephambili ayiyiphumo, kodwa inkqubo.
Ukuba awufuni ukuba umntwana abe ngumdlali, jongene nayo.
Ukusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwemidlalo kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana unamakhono afanelekileyo emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ngaloo mva kuthetha ukuba inkunzi imele iqonde imiyalelo yomqeqeshi kunye nomthetho, ukuba ngaba, umzekelo, umdlalo weqela. Zama umntwana wesiqingatha neminyaka emibini ukufundisa imithetho yomdlalo webhola. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela. Kulo nyaka umntwana akakwazi ukubandakanya imidlalo yezemidlalo okanye imidlalo yokukhuphisana. Ukongezelela, abaqeqeshi abasebenza kunye nezingane, nabo baninzi.
Ukuqala nini
Ukubonakaliswa komntwana kwimidlalo ethile kubonakala kwiminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwi-7. Uyakwazi ukunika umntwana ngaphambili kwicandelo, kodwa amava achaza ukuba ukukhethwa kwezemidlalo ebuntwaneni obuncinane kuyimpazamo. Ngako-ke, kwiminyaka engama-3-4 ungabandakanyeka kuloo midlalo ukuba i-positelvliyayut ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba, kwaye ungagxininisi ukuphuhlisa uhlobo oluthile lwamakhono ngamnye. Yingakho kungaphakanyiswa ukujongana "nomgca omnye" okanye "imidlalo eyodwa" (badminton, tennis). Nangona namhlanje kukho abaqeqeshi kunye neeprogram eziyicombulula le ngxaki, kodwa kungenjalo.
Ummiselo kunye nemidlalo
Xa ukhetha icandelo lezemidlalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqwalasela isimo sengqondo somntwana. Umntu unikezelwa kumntu ovela kwendalo kwaye uhlala naye ebomini, ehamba kuphela neenguqu ezincinci, kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zangaphandle.
Sanguine
Umntwana wakho unomdla kwaye unomzwelo. Ngokukhawuleza uyasabela kuzo zonke iziganeko ezenzeka kuye. Sibiza lo mntwana umntu wesangu, kwaye kufuneka nje angene kwimidlalo. Unokuba ngumdlali obalaseleyo. Ukuba awuyikuqwalasela ezinye iimpawu zomzimba, unokuzibandakanya nayiphi na imidlalo. Kodwa ezinye ziya kumthabatha, apho angabonakalisa khona iimpawu zakhe. AmaSanguin anqwenela ukunqoba izithintelo kwaye abonise ukuba "yiyona nto ininzi kakhulu." Umntwana wakho uya kufana neentletics kunye nekarati. Kungaphumelela kule midlalo echaphazela umngcipheko kunye nokuzonwabisa, umzekelo, ukunqumla kweentaba. Iqela lezemidlalo nalo lifanelekileyo kuba bantwana, kuba bafumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabanye abantu.
I-Choleric
Umama wakho unomdla ongalingani. Uhleka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umzuzu kamva uyakhala. Umoya uguquka ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokudumala kwakhe, kunzima ukulawula. Umntwana wenza konke ngokukhawuleza, enomdla, enomdla. Usana lwakho luyi-choleric. Uthotyelwa lula kwishishini elitsha, kodwa uchitha amandla akhe kwaye ukhawuleza ukhathala.
Umntwana onjalo ngokuqhelekileyo ungumdlali onamandla kakhulu. Abantu abathandekayo bathanda imidlalo yeqela. Ukongezelela, awanandaba nezemidlalo ezinobundlobongela-bhokisi, ukulwa kunye nabanye. I-Choleric idinga ukutshatyalaliswa kwamandla, ngoko kufuneka adlale imidlalo.
Phlegmatic
Umntwana wakho utyebile, unomntu ozolile, ongenakukhuseleka. Akathandi ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngamandla. Uze umthiye "ifilosofi yethu". I-phlegmatic. Umntwana onjalo ubonisa ukuphikelela rhoqo kunye nokuphikelela ekufezeni injongo, ngelixa ehleli ezolile. Ukucotha kwakhe kuhlawula ngokunyamekela (okanye ukunyamezela).
Iimpawu zezinto ezibonakalayo zihlala ziqinileyo. Ngoko ke, imidlalo efanelekileyo, apho unyamezelo lukuqala. Kuqhuba imida emide, ukushushuluza, ukunyusa umzimba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kuthanda ubugcisa bokulwa base-oriental.
Enye yeempazamo ze-phlegmatic inokucingwa njengenkani, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele ukuba uyadlala imidlalo ukuze angagqithisi kwaye ngenxa yoko akafuni ukungena kwimidlalo.
I-Melancholic
Ingane yakho inomdla kakhulu, iyabonakala, ixhatshazwe ngokomzwelo, ihlala ihlangabezana nayo. I-melancholic. Kunzima kuye ukubandakanya kwimidlalo esebenzayo. Kodwa ukuba ubonisa umdla kumdlalo, makenze oko. Abazali bafanele bajonge imivo yakhe kunye nesimo sengqondo. Ukugxeka umqeqeshi, ukuxabana nabanye abantwana kunokukhokelela ekuphazamiseni ukuphazamiseka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wenza enye-on-one kunye naye, unokuphumelela, umzekelo, abe ngumntu omhle.
Izilwanyana ezinomlenze, ngoko zikwazi ukuya kwimidlalo ye-equestrian.
Kakisvestno, ukusuka kuyo nayiphi na imigaqo kukho ikhefu. Qaphela ngokucophelela umntwana ngokukhawuleza acinge ngamakhono akhe.
Ukukhula!