Unokucinga ukuba ngelinye ilanga, ngolunye olukhanyayo, olumnandi, nolona luhle kunabo bonke ukuthetha usuku oluthile, ifowuni yakho yavuma okanye isango lomnyango, kwaye unokuva ilizwi lomfazi kwifowuni okanye uvule umnyango, kwaye kukho umfazi omi apho. Uthetha ngokuzithemba nangokuzileyo, ugcine ngokugqibeleleyo, ngesithunzi, kwaye akuxelele ukuba ungumthandi womyeni wakho othandekayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwindawo yokuqala uza kuphazamiseka imeko. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba bonke abafazi basabela kule ndlela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Unokuqhawula ama-hysterics, qala ukukhwaza kunye nokukhala, unokwazi ukumemeza, ukumomotheka ukuvala umnyango phambi kwempumlo. Awukwazi ukubona kwangaphambili le mpendulo okanye ulindele ezinye zezenzo ezithile, kuba awuyi kuqiqa ukuba uya kuziphatha njani ngeli xesha.
Sonke, bafazi, sinokuqonda indlela yokulimaza izinto ezinjalo ngomyeni wakho. Kule meko, ukubetha kakhulu akuyena lona wesifazane, owafika ukubiza amalungelo kumlingane wakho othandekayo, ngumntu onokutshintsha kunye ne-zavedublyubnitsu. Kucacile ukuba kuya kuba nzima ukunqabisa, kodwa kufuneka uzame ukwenza. Kwaye xa uthetha umoya omncinci uze uze kwiingqondo zakho, ke ucinge malunga nokuba kutheni lo wesifazane ongaziwayo eza kuwe?
Ngokwemvelo, inkosikazi yeqabane lakho, owayengenakho ukwesaba kwaye yonke into engenakunqekanga yafika endlwini yakho kwaye yaxelela ukuba umyeni wakho ukukopela naye, ulindele ukubona amaqhinga akho, ukukhala, iinyembezi kunye neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, unethemba lokuba uqhawule umtshato nomyeni wakhe. Kwaye uya kuqala ukugxininisa kule nto. Emva kwayo yonke into, imitshato emininzi yaqhekeza ngenxa yesizathu esilula ukuba abaninzi abafazi babenalo ubulumko bowesifazane obuqhelekileyo, kwaye babengenakuqonda kwaye bacinge ngenyameko into eyenza inkosikazi yomyeni wayo ifike ekhaya.
Kufuneka uqonde ukuba ngokwenene umthandi unesimo esibi kakhulu kunokuba ungumfazi osemthethweni. Makhe abone iphupha, achithe kunye nezidlo zakhe kunye nezidlo, ngamanye amaxesha nobusuku. Makhe achithe ixesha kunye naye kwii-nightclub, kwiivenkile, kodwa zonke iiholide zentsapho, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bachitha kunye nosapho kunye nabantu abasondeleyo, uhlala yedwa, ekhuseleni.
Khawucinge nje malunga nokuba umthandi akanakuthanda kuphela kwaye akayi kuwuhlonela, kodwa uyamthiya umfazi onokuthi umyeni kunye neyiphi umfazi angaphaya ixesha elithile. Ewe, ukuba uqale inkosikazi, kuthetha ukuba ulungile naye, kodwa xa ebuyela ekhaya, oko kulunge naye ekhaya, ngenxa yokuba intsapho yakhe imlindele. Nkosikazi - le yindlela enye yokuba amadoda aphumle aze ahlekise.
Kakade, umnqweno omkhulu wenkosikazi kukuziphindezela. Ewe, wanquma ukuphulaphula uvuyo lwakho, kodwa akanalo ilungelo lokwenza njalo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, uvakalelwa kukuba uneliseko.
Umsebenzi wakho oyintloko awuyi kuqhutyelwa ekuqumbeni ukuba iqabane lakho likulungele. Emva koko konke oku sele kwenzeke ngoku ngoku, ikrama yakho ebaluleke kakhulu ikratshi lakho. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba awuyena nje umfazi ongaphambili, unemimiselo emininzi - uyinto yesini, ungumama wabantwana owabeletha nomyeni wakho.
Awudingi ukuba ucinge ngokuzama ukugcina indoda, ukuba unqume ukushiya, ingakumbi ungazami ukumisela izikhalazo kunye nezigcawu, udibanise kwaye uthethe naye ngokuzithelekileyo, ngaphandle kokungcola, fumana izizathu zokubakho umfazi omtsha ebonakala ebomini bakhe . Mhlawumbi ezi zixazulula iingxaki, apho unokunceda khona.
Akukho mfuneko yokubheka intlanganiso kunye neqabane lomyeni, abazi ukuba ngubani, oko akwenzayo, apho asebenza khona, ungazami ukugijima ngengozi. Makhe acinge ukuba ukutyelela kwakhe akushiyekanga kwintsapho yakho yobomi, makaqinisekise ukuba awukhathalele konke kwaye unako ukugcina umyeni wakho wesifazana.
Ungaziboni amandla angenamsebenzi owawunayo, ungazibhali, zama ukuwulahleka. Ukuba ufuna, ungabhalisa kwi karate okanye kwi-sambo, qalisa ukwenza izinto ongekho ixesha elaneleyo, okanye oko uhlale uphuphayo. Yeka i-negative ihambe, kwaye le ndawo izakuzaliswa ngamandla aphilileyo, iingcamango ezintle, nokuba kukuphi na okuza kukuzisa inhlanhla.