Amantombazana amaninzi abuza imibuzo malunga nokunyaniseka kwamadoda abo. Omnye wabo ufunda: "Kuthekani ukuba umntu uchitha imali eninzi kwimoto? ".
Akukho mfihlo yokuba phantse kunoma yimuphi umntu imoto iyona nto yokudlala. Kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha, le midlalo ibangela ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali luqala ukuphamla kwiindawo zokuhlala. Ngaloo nto amantombazana aqala ukucinga ukuba yintoni enokuyenza xa umntu echitha imali eninzi kwimoto?
Ngoko, ukuqala, kufuneka uphendule ngokunyanisekileyo: ngaba iindleko zilungele? Ukuba umntu uchitha emotweni, kodwa, ngelo xesha, ukuthutha kuyimfuneko ukuba asebenze, ngoko iindleko ezinjalo zichanekile. Kodwa, kukho ukuhluka okuthe ngqo. Kungenzeka ukuba imali esetshenziselwa imoto ingaphezu kwezinto ezifunyenweyo. Kule meko, kufuneka wenze into ethile. Kodwa, ukuba ususe imoto yomfana - kufana nokuthatha ithoyilo eliyintandokazi kumntwana. Akasoze akhiphe ngaphandle kokulwa. Ngako oko, kufuneka ukhethe iindlela ezifanelekileyo kwaye uchithe ixesha elide ukuchaza ukuba ezi ndleko azibonakali kwaye ngexesha awuyi kuhlala nje ngaphandle kwemoto, kodwa ngaphandle kwendawo. Yintoni endiyenze ukuba ndiyenze kunye nendlela yokuthetha?
Okokuqala kufuneka uhlolisise umatshini. Ukuphila nomqhubi, umfazi, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, qalisa ukuqonda le ndawo. Khawuqikelele ixesha elingakanani lomntu oza kuchitha imali ekulungiseni. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ukuthenga ezimbini okanye ezintathu kunye nemoto iya kuba yimeko enhle kakhulu, ngoko mane ube nomonde. Ewe, kunzima kuwe, kodwa, enyanisweni, kuyafaneleka. Kodwa, ukuba uqonde ukuba umhlobo wakho uchithe ukulungiswa kwemoto yakho, uchitha kwaye uza kuyichitha, kwaye akuyi kuba nakuphela ukuphela, ngoko kufuneka uvume ukuba le nto iyisidenge. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isithandwa sakho asicingi njalo, kwaye ukuba uyakwenza, akayi. Mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba imali ihamba ngaphezu kokulindela, kodwa inkani iqhubeka ithenga. Okokuqala, zama ukuthetha naye ngoxolo. Kungenzeka ukuba, ngenxa yeendleko zeemoto unako izinto ezininzi owayeke ukushiya. Kufanelekile ukwenza uluhlu lwale nto yokuthenga okungagqitywanga kunye nokuba yintoni intombazana echitha imali. Kakade, ngokubhekiselele kuzo zonke izinto kunye neenkcukacha kufuneka zibe yixabiso. Mbonise olu luhlu uze uchaze ukuba kungcono ukuba atshintshe imisebenzi kwiindawo apho ukuthutha akudingekile, kuba iindleko ziphezulu kunomvuzo wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, lo mfana uya kuzama ukukunika ezininzi izizathu, kodwa, kulo mzekelo, kufuneka uqhubeke, kodwa ukuzola. Awufanele uphinde wenze amahlazo. Abahlaziyi basetyhini - isibonakaliso sokuqala somntu ukuba le ntokazi ayilunganga. Bajwayele ukuba, bengenakho iziphakamiso, siqala ukufezekisa into ngokukhala nokulila. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuqaphela, ukuba inxalenye yinyaniso. Ngoko uzinqabise uze uzinze.
Kodwa, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba akakwazi ukuguqula imisebenzi, kwaye ukuxothwa kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kwibhajethi-kuya kufuneka uyamkele. Kule meko, nayiphi na ingxabano yakho ilahlekelwa phambi kokuba athethe.
Yinto enye into xa imoto kwintsapho yakho isetyenziselwa ukuzizonwabisa kuphela. Kule meko, kufuneka uzinze uze ube ngowokugqibela kwaye ungabuyiselanga. Xa kwintsapho kunokuba imoto igqitywe, ukulungiswa akupheli. Yaye ukuba umqhubi welibhayisiza ekugqibeleni uyishintsha ingcaciso yokugqibela, owokuqala, owathengayo ukulungiswa, sele uphelile. Le ngqungquthela enobungqina apho kungekho ndlela yokuphuma. Ngoko ke, kwimeko apho umfana engeke afune ukuyeka umdlalo wakhe, mema ukuba agcine isabelomali esahlukileyo. Cacisa into endiyithandayo ukuba awukwenza oko kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uyimvalela, kodwa kuba inyanga zonke izinto ziqhubeka ziba zibi kakhulu. Uninzi lwezinto ezingathengiweyo, ezifunekayo okanye ziya kuba njalo kwixa elizayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungeke ukwazi ukumchazela ukuba imoto inciphisa kangakanani uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, makumve. Mema ukuba azithenge ukutya kunye nakho konke okukufunayo ngokwakho, kwaye, kwakhona, utyalo imali yokuhlawula izindlu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, loo nto inokukhubeka, kodwa mhlawumbi uya kuvuma loo nto, ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe.
Uvavanyo olunjalo luza kuvelisa iziqhamo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa umntu echitha kakhulu emotweni, iindleko ezinkulu zokuthengwa ngokuyimfuneko ziyabelwa kwimvuzo wakhe ngumfazi. Ukuba kufuneka ahlawule yonke into, uya kuqonda ukuba iindleko zidlula umvuzo wakhe. Ewe, umntu akaqhelekanga ukuba uyamkela. Ngoko ungalindelanga ukuba uza kuza athi ulungile. Kodwa uya kuphawula oku kuziphatha kwakhe. Yena ngokwakhe uya kuchitha ngaphantsi kwemoto. Kwakhona, xa nje ugcina isabelomali esahlukileyo, zama ukuvelisa into ofuna ukuyithenga, kodwa kwakungekho imali eyaneleyo. Oku kuya kuba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wobungqina bakho.
Kodwa, ngelishwa, oku akusoloko kunceda. Kukho amantombazana angasoze alahleka kwaye akayi kunika iminqweno yabo. Kule meko, kuyafaneleka ukuvuma nokwenza ngathi uyavuma. Ngaphandle koko, yonke into iya kugqiba ngokutsha kunye nokuhlaziywa kweenqwelo.
Mhlawumbi isalathisi esilandelayo siya kubonakala singathembeki, kodwa, kule ngxaki, inokuphela kwendlela yokuphuma. Awukwazi ukuxelela umfana yonke imali yomvuzo kwaye ulondoloze inani elithile lokuthenga okuthile. Kule meko, yena ngokwakhe uya kuchitha imali encinci, kuba uvakalelwa kukuba awuyi kuba neleyo. Ukuba uthengela into ethile kwimali echaziweyo, unokuyichaza ngezipho zabazali. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kucinga ukuba ulungile, kodwa kungcono ukuthula ngokuthe tye, kunokuzikhanyela oko kuyimfuneko.