Kwaye ebuntwaneni, ngaphezulu ... Bantwana kuphela abanokukwazi ukutya isahluko sekhekhe, bafake amanzi ngamnandi, bathabathe i-snack kunye ne-tsholeta, bese ubamba yonke ikhukhi kunye ne-lozenges ezili-12. Noboya obumnandi bepotton ngentonga! Kwaye le ice cream emhlophe ekhephu, iyancibilika phambi kwamehlo akho, kwaye ke kufuneka ufune ukuyikhahla ukuze yonke into yokunqongophala kunye nokuthabatha kungekho kwisitya esitsha esicocekileyo okanye iifutshane.
Ngoko, kutheni abantwana bathanda izinto ezintle? Masithethe kunye. Uqala nini kwaye kuphi? Ndicinga ukuba yonke into, njengokuba ihlala ivela ebuntwaneni. Kule meko, ukususela ekuzalweni. Emva kwakho konke, ubisi lonina lunomdla ocolileyo. Kwaye kwimizuzu yokuqala yokuqala yobomi bakhe, indlela yokuqala yokubona ukuba umntwana uya kuyibona iyamnandi! Akuyinto engaqhelekanga, ingabi mnandi, ingabi buhlungu, ingabonakali, efana neyothambileyo, mhlawumbi ukuba ubomi emva koko bumnandi? Ngubani owaziyo? Mhlawumbi yeso sizathu sisidla, xa sinexinezeleko kunye nesimo esibi. Ewe, ewe, oku kukugxininisa kwisihloko esiyinhloko sencoko yethu.
Ukutya kokuqala komntu ubisi oluhle. Kamva, ekukhuleni, abantwana bayaqhubeka befunda ihlabathi lokutya. Ukhulu kwaye uhlukeneyo. Thina, abantu abadala, besiye saziwa ukuba siyinto enhle kwaye sisona sithandwa kakhulu, sikhokelela kwinani elikhulu leengxaki, zonke iintlobo zezifo, ukusuka kwizinyama zamazinyo kunye nokuphela kwesifo sikashukela. Konke oku kucace kwaye kuyaqondakala. Oku kuqinisekiswa oogqirha besuka kumaphephancwadi anonyango kunye nabadumileyo, abafazi besifazane bathi oku, ezininzi iinkqubo zethelevishini kunye namafilimu adutshulwa. Kubonakala ngathi kulula kakhulu - siyayeka ukunqwenela kwaye singabaniki abantwana bethu. Siza kuyithatha indawo yezoqhamo, ezinje ezininzi, ezendalo kunye ezivuthiweyo! Yintoni enokumnandi ngakumbi? !! Ngoko kulula. Kodwa bangaphi abantwana oya kubafumanisa ukuba abaqhelananga neentlekese. Kwaye ungayiphendula umbuzo, kutheni abantwana befuna ukutya i-apula esikhundleni se-candy? A ndi kholelwa? Zama ukunikela umntwana wakho ukhetho lwe-ayisikrimu okanye i-mandarin, ithokoleta okanye i-apula, i-candy okanye ipare. Ewe, uhlolisisile? Yaye njani? Ndibetha ukuba isiqhamo esilahlekile kule mpi engalingani! Yintoni eyimfihlo? Kwaye thina, abantu abadala, maxa wambi sifuna ukuxutywa kunye neqhekeza elincinci, i-airy ikhekhe okanye ikhekhe ehlala kwivenkile yevenkile kwaye asinikeli ithuba lokudlulela ngo-Ewe, isilingo esikhulu, kungekhona wonke umntu onokukwazi ukumelana naye.
Kodwa thina ngokwethu sibafundise abantwana bethu kule mihlali enhle, apho kulula ukuyifumana kwaye kunzima ukubalekela kumanethiwekhi amanxeba. Khumbula, kwakukho imeko ezimbalwa xa ufika endlwini apho kukho abantwana abancinci. Uza kuthatha ntoni nawe njengesipho? Oku kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba yikhekhe, ibhokisi ye-chocolates, iigloke, kakuhle, okanye xa kwenzeka uncedo oluphuthumayo, ibhayilethi. Ewe, ewe, musa ukuphikisana, kungekhona iipulole, kungekhona iipereyiti, kungekhona ama-apricot, kungekhona iiperesi, nangona zihle. Ngoko ngokwenene yamukelwa. Yaye xa abantu abadala bexakeke kunye nabo, abantu abadala baxubusha iingxaki ezinzulu, abantwana bethu banikezwa ithuba lokuba badle intaba yeesekese ezenziwe ziziindwendwe ezinonophelo. Kwaye siyazibuza ukuba kutheni abantwana bathanda izinto ezintle? Ngoku siza kuzama ukuqonda le mbambano enzima kakhulu kwaye sinokusombulula zonke iingxaki eziza kuvela ngexesha leenkqubo.
Ngaba uyayazi imeko xa umntwana wakho wehla ngokugqithiseleyo aze ahlazide emadolweni, okanye ingabe waqala ukukhala ngenxa yezizathu ezingaziwa kuwe, wenza ntoni kule ngxaki? Ewe, kunjalo, kufuneka umnike i-candy enomnandi kakhulu. Dali? Ngokuqinisekileyo, wazincama. Kwaye kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba bethu abantwana sele beyithanda imnandi, sele beyisebenzise. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba intle yamnandi yenza ukuba azive ezolile kwaye akhuseleke, kufana nesifuba somama, ngoko ke, ekuqaleni kokuqala kwasebuntwaneni. Emva koko, sonke sibheke uxolo, ukhuseleko kunye nokufudumala. Akusiyo into yokuba izazinzulu zithi i-tsholatshi iqulethe okuthiwa "i-hormone yolonwabo". Kwaye sonke simkhumbula kulo obomi bunzima nobunzima. Oku akumangalisi. Ngoko siyacwangciswa, ukuba yonke into evuyayo kunye nenomdla ihambelana neesekese. Khumbula ubuncinane uMnyaka omtsha! Le holide ithandwa ngabantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Yintoni into yokuqala efika engqondweni yakho? Ewe, ke, izipho abantwana bethu abazenzayo kule mihla zinkulu. Zinikezwa ngabazali, ugogo, oomkhulu, wonke umntu ozayo. Kwaye unokucinga ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwakho lwentsana ngaphandle kwekhekhe lokuzalwa ngamakhandlela, iisandi nezinye iiswidi. Kwaye nayiphi na iholide kufuneka iphele nge dessert, equkethe izitya ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokutya. Kwaye xa kuphela ngokukhawuleza kukho iingxaki zempilo yabantwana bethu, siqala ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bethu bayeka ukuthanda amnandi, okanye ubuncinane bayisebenzise. Kodwa oku kunzima kakhulu. Emva koko, umkhwa ube yinto yabo yesibini. Ngegama elithi "elimnandi" engqondweni zethu amagama athi "uvuyo", "ulonwabo", "ukwaneliseka", "ukuzivala kakuhle" kuvela. Kwaye ukutshintsha into ekuthandayo abantwana bethu, kuya kuba nzima ukulwa. Ngoko, cinga ngako, kodwa akulula ukuqala kunokuphosa. Masibuyise kwakhona ifilimu kwaye esikhundleni se candy yokuqala siza kunika umntwana i-apula. Makhe amthande ngolu hlobo. Emva koko siza kummisela kwilizwe elikhulu lezityalo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokunika abantwana bakho uvuyo nolonwabo nolonwabo, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, impilo. Emva koko, kubaluleke ngaphezu koku, mhlawumbi, akukho nto kwihlabathi. Impilo ayikwazi ukutshintshwa yiyiphi na imihlali kunye nemizwa. Ndicinga ukuba akukho mfuneko yokubonisa nokucacisa oku. Yenza umyalelo endlwini yakho, akukho iiskese, akukho mnandi, i-carbonated water, apho kukupheka ukupheka. Ewe, nangaphezulu, musa ukulibala ukulumkisa abahlobo bakho kunye nabaqhelana nabo ukuba xa uvakatye, akudingeki ukuba uthenge i-tshokoleta kunye nekhekhe, kuphela iziqhamo okanye umdlalo omnandi, incwadi. Oku kuncedo kwaye akulimazi. Emva koko unako ukuzola usana lwakho, uya kuba nomdla okunempilo! Awuyi kuthanda izinto ezintle!