Umtshato ... Owu, yonke iphupha lentombazana. Ukutshata komtshato, ingubo emhlophe emhlophe. Akulungile? Ewe, kukuhle ukuba umyeni ungumthandi othanda. Kuthekani kuthi xa uphupha ukutshata ungathandwa kwiphupha? Masizichaze.
Incwadi yokuphupha yesiNgesi
Ukuba ephupheni uphupha ukuba isiqingatha sakho ozithandayo asitshatanga kunye nawe, ngoko iphupha lifanekisela ukuphuka kwangaphambili.
Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba ungumyeni ovuyayo, ngoko ebomini bakhe bodwa kunye neengxaki ezimele kuye. Ngomntu ogulayo, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukungonakaliswa kwezempilo.
Ukuba uyindwendwe emtshatweni womtshato, uya kufumana umyalezo omnandi kwikamva elizayo, okanye uya kuphakama umgangatho wemisebenzi.
Incwadi yokuphupha yase-Ukraine
Ngokwale ncwadi yephupha:
Umtshato okanye umtshato kunye neqela eliphupha umngcwabo.
Jonga indlela abantu abangashadile abathatha inxaxheba ngayo emtshatweni - ngokukhawuleza baya kutshata. Abantu abatshatileyo eli phupha lithetha ngokuzalwa kwabantwana.
Iphupha, njengoko udanisa emtshatweni - ngoko kufuneka uqaphele ngesini esahlukileyo.
Ukubona umtshato kunye nomyeni wakhe ukhuthaza ukufa.
Kodwa ukubona umtshato ulungele ukuthatha ukuthandana kunye nesini esahlukileyo.
Iphupha lomtshato wakho ubonisa ukuba umanyano wakho wosapho uya kuvuya.
Ukuba ephupheni emtshatweni uyibona ngokwesijikelezo samadoda nabasetyhini, kuthetha ukuba ebomini kuya kuba nokudideka.
Ukulala, apho ubona umtshato uthatha, ubonisa ukuba ebomini uza kubona abahlobo bakho.
Iinguqulelo zeendondo
Ukuba le ntombazana yayinephupha abazali bakhe abazange bayonwabele ngomtshato wakhe, ngoko ngokwenene, ubuthongo bubonisa ukungavumi komtshato.
Ewe, ukuba aphupha ukuba kukho iindwendwe kwisambatho sakhe sokulila emtshatweni wakhe, ngoko iphupha elinjalo lithi umtshato wakhe awuyi kuphumelela.
Iingcamango zomtshato ofihlakeleyo - ngoko, intombazana kufuneka ihlawule ingqalelo yakho, impawu yakho kunye nemikhwa.
Jonga indlela umntu omthandayo atshada ngayo enye intombazana - ulindele ukonwaba kunye nokwesaba okungeke kuboniswe.
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Uphupha ngomtshato womnye womtshato - lindele ukuhluleka ebomini.
Uthandekayo uyatshata omnye - ukuba azi, ahlupheke ngenxa yomona ongenasiphelo.
Ukutshata ngokufihlakeleyo kuthetha ukuba ebomini kulindeleke ukuba uhlebe ngezenzo zokuziphatha.
Iingcamango zomtshato wazo - zilinde iingxaki ezivela kwizihlobo ezide okanye ngabahlobo. Kodwa ukuba iindwendwe ziya kumnandi kumtshato, iindaba ziya kuba zilungileyo.
Ukuphupha umntu kwisambatho sokulila kumtshato womnye umntu - uthetha ngomtshato ongaphumeleli omnye wabahlobo okanye izalamane.
Ukuba emtshatweni wenu, lo mtshato awuyi kuphumelela.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha yeFelomen
Nika intombi ephupheni ukutshata okanye intombazana evela kwintsapho yakho - kuthetha ukufa komntu osondeleyo kuwe.
Ukuba utshata umntu ongaqhelekanga, intombi yomnye umntu-ukulala ubeka impumelelo ekukhulelweni kwaye ufezekisa iminqweno yalowo uyibona.
Ukutshata kuthetha ubomi obonwabileyo.
Ukutshata ekwindla kuthetha ukuba indoda iya kuba ngumntu ocebileyo kwaye ufanelekile.
Ukuba ephupheni, ebudeni bomtshato, utshintshe ingqondo yakho malunga nokuphuma kumdlali-mnye kwaye ugqibe ukutshata nomnye umntu-iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba isigqibo osenzileyo silungile.
Ukuba, ephupheni, ufumana ukungavumi kwintando yakho, kuthetha ukuba wenza into engalunganga, ukusabalalisa imikhosi yakho kwaye ngenxa yoko ungenayo ixesha lokwenza oko uceba.
Ukuze ubone indlela ephupha unikwe ngayo isiphakamiso sesandla nentliziyo, kuthetha ukuba izinto zakho ziya kutshintshwa kwaye amava aya kupheliswa.
Ezinye iinguqulelo
Kwintombazana encinci, umtshato wamaphupha okhohlakeleyo, ngenxa yomntu otshatileyo-ngenxa yokunyaniseka, kunye nomhlolokazi-ithemba elingazalwanga.
Ukutshata umfokazi ephupheni kuthetha ukuba iingxaki zentsapho.
Ukuba ufuna ukutshata nomntu ongathandekiyo, iphupha elinjalo lithetha ngeemvakalelo kunye nokuxhalaba ebomini, malunga nokuba neengxaki zobundlelwane bomntu, okanye ukungabikho kobudlelwane ngokwabo.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba uyatshata nomnye umntu-uza kutshata nokrexezo.
Amaphupha oya kutshata kuthetha ukuba ebomini uya kufumana uthando olufanayo.
Ukubona ingxabano emtshatweni kuthetha ukuba iindaba zokufa komntu ziya kuza.
Ephupheni ukutshata nomhlolokazi - ngoko ke unobungozi kumntu owaziyo kakuhle.
Nazi ezinye iintsingiselo zamaphupha ngomtshato. Makhe siqiniseke ukuba amaphupha akho akayi kubonakalisa into engalunganga.