Kuya kuxhomekeka kukuphi uhlobo lwabantu wena kunye nomthandi wakho ongowakho?
Unothando oluqinileyo, okanye ungumfazi ogcinwe.
Kwimeko yokuqala.
Ukuba wena kunye nomkhethiweyo wakho unesimo esifanelekileyo.
Wena unomthwalo uxanduva, kwaye uphatha abo bantu abangaziphindezeli emva kokuphuka ubudlelwane babo. kwaye ngubani, emva kokuphuka ubudlelwane, unokuhlala engumhlobo.
Kuphela kufuneka udibane nomoya onobungane, umzekelo kwivenkile yokutya, uze uxoxe ngale ngxaki kunye. Umbuzo uza kulungiswa, ndiqinisekile. Ukuba umthandi wakho uyakuthanda kwaye uyakuhlonipha, uya kukuqonda kwaye konke kuya kulungile. Ukongezelela, akusaziwa ukuba ubomi bakho buza kuphuhliswa njani kwixesha elizayo, kwaye abahlobo abalungileyo abasasazekayo. Hlalani nolwalamano oluhle kwaye emva kokuphulaphula ubudlelwane bakho.
Kwimeko yesibini.
Ukuba ukhethiweyo wakho unokulinganisela, kwaye unemvakalelo engqondweni, engacwangciswanga. (umthandi wakho ungaphantsi kwesithende sakho)
Emva koko akukho nto unokukhathazeka ngayo. Kunoko, kufuneka ubukele umthandi wakho.
Makhe acinge ngemiphumo. Kwaye kufuneka nje uphumule kwaye ujabulele ubomi kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo.
Kwimeko yesithathu.
Unokulinganisela, kwaye ukhethiweyo wakho ubhekisela kwisimo sengqondo, esingaqhelananga.
Ukuba umthandi wakho ungumntu ovakalelwa emzimbeni, kwaye ngakumbi nakakhulu xa enemikhwapho ekhohlakeleyo kwaye ekhohlisayo, okanye xa ebhekisela kubantu abangathetheliyo kwaye banqwenela kakhulu. Apha kufuneka usebenze ngokucophelela, kwaye ngaphandle kokubonisana nengcali yeengqondo awukwazi ukwenza. Kwaye kubhetele kubantu abanjalo abaqali ubudlelwane. Njengoko wam umhlobo uthi: " Xa ukhetha owakhethiweyo, khetha ukuba unokusasazeka kunye naye ngendlela yomntu." Ukuba umntu akanako ukusabalalisa kunye nomntu okhethiweyo, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuba bakhe ubudlelwane . "
Kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kufuneka uvume kumyeni wakho, okanye ube ngumlingani kumyeni wakhe ngokwakhe.
Ukuba umthandi ufunda ngokuphuka ubudlelwane, ngamanye amaxesha umhlobo wakhe uyamqonda ngokufanayo. Uyakubona umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo, ohluke ngokupheleleyo kwangoko, othakazelisayo, othandekayo, onomtsalane. Ngoku uba ngumtyholi.
Kwimeko yesine.
Wena kunye nomthandi wakho unesimo sengqondo, esingaqhelananga (njengokuba isaga sitsho, safumana i-scythe ngelitye).
Nonke nidla ngokukhawuleza, njengezinto ezigqithiseleyo, kunye nokuziphatha okubi kakhulu kwesondo.
Mhlawumbi kuya kuba yinto ephangaleleyo. Mhlawumbi oku kukuphela koko ufunayo.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha le nyathelo, kufuneka uqikelele yonke into kakuhle, kwaye uqonde ukuba ngubani ofuna, umyeni okanye umthandi, okanye zombini. Kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule umzekeliso othi: " Emva kweehora ezimbini uya kugijima, awuyi kubamba enye ".
Xa uqonda ukuba ngubani ofuna, sebenze.
Ngokubanzi, uluvo lwam: " Usapho kunye nabantwana - ngaphezu kwakho konke! "
Ukuba unquma ukukhawuleza kunye nento efanelekileyo kunye nomthandi wakho, kufuneka uqwalasele imeko yakhe kunye nesimo. Ngaba unqume ukuhlukana naye ngenxa yokuba ugula, okanye wachitheka? Emva koko, akunakulungeleleneyo. Wayengumntu osondeleyo kuwe. Lindela kancane, mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo, uze uqhekeze ulwalamano lwakho.
Ukuba wena kunye nomthandi wakho ngenxa yokuba uyamthanda, oku kuqondakalayo.
Ukuba uphosa umthandi ngenxa yokuba unobunzima bezinto, ngoko uphosakele, kuba akukho nto isigxina ebomini. Yaye ngubani namhlanje olihlwempu, kusasa kusenokuba sisityebi. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokukhawuleza ukuba nenxenye nomthandi wakho, kufuneka ucinge ngokukhawuleza.