Ngokwenene, ukubona ihashe ephupheni ngumqondiso obalulekileyo. Kwiincwadi zephupha, ke, zinokutolika ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abaninzi badibanisa ukubonakala kwehashe kunye nomxhesho obusondeleyo wobomi bephupha, umntu uthetha ngempumelelo yezinto eziphathekayo, abanye bathetha ngokuphila kunye nosapho. Masizame ukuvelisa ulwazi oluvela kwiincwadi zephupha kwaye sinqume oko ihashe eliphuphayo malunga nemizekelo yamaphupha.
Yintoni elindele wena ukuba uphupha ihashe?
- Ihashe elihle nelilungele kakuhle kwiphupha lakho liya kuzisa inhlanhla kwimicimbi yabantu kunye nasemsebenzini. Ukuba ungumntu wobugcisa, lindele ukuphefumlelwa kokudala;
- Ihashe elincinci nelincinci lisitshela ngokutshabalalisa kwezinto, kwintsapho kunye nasemsebenzini;
- Ihashe elimnyama ephupheni i-harbinger yelahleko ezayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo badibene nentsapho. Akukhona malunga nokugula okanye ukufa, kodwa kunokuba kube nokuxabana okungakhokelela ekuhlukaniseni;
- ehlotshiswe ngamacrafoni ekhwele ihashe uthetha utshintsho lomsebenzi ngokukhawuleza. Akuyi kuba ngcono okanye yimbi;
- Ihashe elifileyo lichazwe kabini. Ezinye iincwadi zephupha zithi le nto ibonakaliso embi, echaza kwangaphambili umphuphi ombi, iindaba ezimbi, okanye ukutshabalalisa. Ezinye iincwadi zokuphupha zihluke ngokuthe ngqo ngoku. Kukholelwa ukuba lo mqondiso unomusa, kwaye kwikamva umntu uya kuphula "i-jackpot enkulu". Phakathi kwezinye izinto, ixesha elide liya kuhamba kunye nenhlanhla kuyo yonke imiba;
- ukuba i-hobbled - oku kungumqondiso wokusingqongileyo, ukuchitha ukuhleba kunye nokukufuna okubi. Kunconywa ukuba ugweme oxhumana nabo abasondeleyo kunye nabo osebenza nabo ixesha elifutshane;
- xa usesikhwameni-uphawu olungileyo. Uya kuphumelela emsebenzini wakho wobugcisa;
- ukukhwela ihashe ehamba ngehashe - lowo uphuphayo ulindele intuthuko emangalisayo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi;
- ukuba ephupheni ugibela ihashe ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu uza kufezekisa impumelelo ephezulu kumashishini, kwimidlalo okanye ekudaleni, kodwa uya kufuneka uzame kanzima ukuba ungabuyi;
- xa uphuma kwisikhwama okanye udibanisa, uyazi, usendleleni eya empumelelweni, kodwa unobunzima obuninzi. Ukuba ubhekana nabo, fumana iziphumo ezifunwayo;
- ukuthetha ephupheni ngehashe, ngoko ke, uqaphele ixesha elibi ozisa kwabanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zizenzo okanye iingxelo zomphuphi ongeke zixhaswe ngabanye, okanye nakanjani ziya kuba ziqondakala kubo;
- kususa i-saddle kwihhashi lakho-uphawu lokuba uyazixabisa kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuvavanya kwakho kukude nokuvavanywa kwabanye. Enyanisweni, awubalulekanga kubo kunokuba ucinge;
- ihashe kumaphupha amanzi-kungekudala kuya kuba nethuba lokuqonda izicwangciso zamandulo. Konke oku kuchaphazelekayo kubandakanya amadoda kunye nabasetyhini, kodwa ekugqibeleni, i-archetype yeli silwanyana iboniswa njengento yesini, isibindi nesomelele.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha anjalo, ngaphezu kokuchazwa kwendabuko, ikwaxelwa malunga neenqweno zentombazana. Umzekelo, ukuba amaphupha, apho ihashe ibonakala rhoqo, ngokucacileyo unenkinga ebomini obusondeleyo. Kunconywa ukuba ube nesigxina esigxina sesini. Ukuba le ntombazana inomfana okanye umyeni, ngoko ke akanakho okwaneleyo ukuba akhathazeke, qaphela. Mhlawumbi nangona awanelisekanga ngesondo sakhe.