Ngaba kubuhlungu kangakanani ukucwenga umntwana osiswini?


Umntwana omncinci uyakuthanda ukuncela ingono. Oku kunika uvakalelo lwentuthuzelo kunye nokuzola, kufaka indawo ekufuphi ngokusondeleyo kwebele lomama. Kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva ixesha liza xa ingxube ingabalulekanga. Kodwa umntwana usetyenziswe kuyo! Ukuze ungazilimazi wena okanye umntwana wakho, kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokukhathaza umntwana ngokusesikweni kunye ne-pacifier.

"I-suckling" imvelo yomntwana ibonakalisa ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa kwaye ihamba rhoqo umntwana ngexesha lokuqala lokuphila. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umnqweno wokuba ne-pacifier emlonyeni unxulumene nesisitho sokuncelisa isifuba somama. Isinamathiselo kwi-ingono ibangelwa, ngokungaqhelekanga, kwiimbulelo zobuntwana. Emva koko, le nkqubo ibandakanya ixesha elihle kakhulu ebuntwaneni. Umntwana uyadla, aphumle, kwaye osondele kakhulu kunina. Uninzi lweintsana zilala ngexesha lokutya, xa sele zizele. Umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-3-4 uqala ukukhupha izinto ezahlukeneyo emlonyeni wakhe, ngoko uzama ukuhlola umhlaba wakhe omncinci. Isidingo esona sikhulu sento esiphila okanye esilisayo sibonakala kulezo zinyanga xa amazinyo ayo okuqala eqala ukuhluma. Zonke ezi zinto ziyimfuneko ziba ngumkhwa. Kwaye xa kunomzuzwana ngokwenene ukululela umntwana kwi-nipple kunye ne-pacifier-ayikho iingxaki zama-comic.

Yandisa imeko abazali abavelisayo. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala okanye alele elele kakubi - ingono, njengomthetho, iyasondeza umntwana. Umbutho ozinzile ukususela kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi - umntwana ucinga ukuba lo ngumama wengubo. Ngoko ngokukufutshane nokutya, ukunakekelwa ngumama nokuthanda. Umntwana uzizwa ekhuselwe. Yaye le mpendulo ifana nabazali abanamava. Abaqondi ukuba kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Umntwana uzakufumana nzima kunika ingono yonke imihla. Nangona kunjalo, akuyona nje umcimbi weengqondo kunye nomkhwa. Ukuxakeka ngokugqithiseleyo kokutya ngebhodi encinci kunokukhokelela ekuthetheleleni indlebe okanye ngesisu esicasulayo. Kwakhona, ngokusebenzisa ingono, kulula ukufumana intsholongwane ngenxa yokungcola kwendalo.

Mhlawumbi iimbumba zidla ngokugxeka ngakumbi kunokuba zifanelwe. Usana nomama badinga ibhotile, umzekelo, eluhambeni olude. Ukongezelela, ekungabikho kwengxobo, umntwana angamnya ngomnwe, oyingozi. Abantwana abaninzi benza oko kanye. Nangona kunjalo, umnwe womntwana usalula kakhulu kwaye uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo olusuka kumunwe olunyayo lungamlimaza. Kodwa, naphezu kwamanqaku amnandi, akufanele usebenzise kakubi ingono.

Ziziphi iindlela ezingasetyenziselwa ukondla umntwana osiswini? Okokuqala, kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ukutsala ingxowa emlonyeni, ingxaki ayinakuyisombulula. Umntwana uqala ukungaqondakali, kwaye emva kwexesha elikhala i-sobs. Ingaba intliziyo yabazali ingakwazi ukunyamezela umthandazo ukuze uncede umntwana wabo othandekayo? Okokuqala, kufuneka uzame ukuphazamisa ingqalelo yomntwana nayiphi na enye imisebenzi ngelixa engenaye ingono. Ubuncinane ixesha elifutshane. Dlala nayo, cula ingoma, intetho, ulungiselele ukusebenza okonwabileyo. Yenza oku rhoqo, ukwandisa ngokukhawuleza ubude bokuhlala komntwana ngaphandle kwengono. Usana kufuneka lube nesimo sengqondo sokuthi ngaphandle kwengxowa inokuba yinto enhle, kwaye idibanise! Ewe, oku kufuna umonde kunye nokunyamezela okuthile. Kodwa umphumo ufanelekile.

Kuye kwabonakaliswa ukuba ukusebenzisa ixesha elide lebhotile kunye ne-pacifier linciphisa intetho yentetho yomntwana. Ngoko ke, zama ukuvuselela umntwana ukuze afunde ukuthetha. Iimpawu ezide ezinde zegama uya kuphinda, uncinci ufuna ukuthabatha umlomo wakhe emlonyeni wakhe. Ngelo xesha umntwana ufunda iindidi ezintsha zehlabathi, ufunda. Kwaye ukufunda nokunyuka kolwazi kuyindlela enamandla ephazamisa ingqalelo. Ewe, ukudlala nabantwana usebenzisa i-pacifier akukhuthazwa. Kodwa kwimeko ethile kunokunceda.

Ukuba umntwana wakho kunzima ukulahla ingono, mhlawumbi kufuneka kusetyenziswe umkhondo. Qala kunye nenyaniso yokuba isistim kwaye isisuse ngokufanelekileyo inkqubo yoxolo emlonyeni ngexesha lokulala. Xa umntwana (kunye nomntu omdala) evuka, kuthatha ixesha lokuqhelanisa. Okanye, njengoko bethetha, ekugqibeleni bavuke. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba acinge oko akufunayo. Kwaye iibhotile, ncinane kancinci, abantwana baqala ukulibala. Musa ukugcina i-pacifier kufuphi nomntwana ngexesha lokuncoma. Makungabonakali, ukuze inkomo ingacingi ngayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, cacisa umntwana okhulayo ukuba sele "mkhulu". Kwaye "enkulu" ayidingi iipinki kunye ne-pacifiers. Enye inketho (yena, ngendlela, esebenza kwintsapho yethu) - mkholise umntwana ukuba ingela ilahlekile. Kodwa ukuqinisekiswa komlomo komntwana akunakucingiswa! Khangela ilahleko kunye nosana kwaye kunjalo-awufumani. Ngoku ngoku uyazi ukuba intshontsho ayinjalo-kwaye iya kufunda ukwenza ngaphandle kwesi sihloko. Ngendlela, xa ucinga umntwana kwaye uya kuvuyela umdlalo. Ngeli xesha, unokutshintsha ingqalelo kwiminye imisebenzi, kwaye inkunzi iya kuyilibala nge-ingono ixesha elide. Ukuluma umntwana ngokungenasiphelo kwi-nipple kunye ne-pacifier, bonisa ubumnandi. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo senza ngokuzimisela nokunyamezela.