Umbuzo wobunzima kunye nokulungiswa kwawo ngoku uqala kuqala phakathi kwabasetyhini banamhlanje. Inzala kule ngxaki ibangelwa kakhulu kwimpilo, kodwa njengokuba ithandwa ngumntu wesini esahlukileyo. Ukususela kwiTV ebonisa umgangatho opapashwe ngo-90-60-90, zonke izambatho eziqhelekileyo zesiFrentshi nezamaNtaliyane zitshitshiswe ukuya kuma-46 ubukhulu beRussia. I-Slender, imida ngokubonda, imizekelo kunye neenkwenkwezi ze-movie-umgangatho wokuphumelela, ukufunwa, ukunqula amadoda amaninzi. Ubomi obuhle wonke umntu ofuna ukuwuchaphazela. Nangona kunjalo, oomama abancinci bahlala kude neengcinga ezibekwe kuthi. Kwaye umbuzo wokuba ukuzaliseka komfazi akuphazamisi umntu, uhlala uvutha.
Ukuzaliseka komfazi akukwazi ukuphazamisa indoda. Kwaye oku kuyinyaniso! Inkolelo yokuba ubunzima obunzima bonakalisa ulwalamano, kwenza abafazi banesizungu, siza thina. Oku kudlalwa ngokuziphatha kwabantu. Bakhetha amantombazana amancinci, bahlala bethetha ngawo. Ngo-hudyshkami bahlala beqhelana, banamafomu amaninzi, kulula ukutshata. Ngokuqhelekileyo siva iintetho amadoda athi kubo abakhethiweyo: "Nityebile," "Yidla kancane," "Uza kunqatha, kwaye ndiza kukuyeka ukunithanda." Yonke le ngcamango ivelisa isitebe, kodwa ngaba ukuzaliseka komfazi kuphazamisa umntu olele embhedeni?
Kubalulekile ukujongana ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye yonke into iya kuhlaselwa. Ukuba umntu, ukhetha intombazana engapheliyo, uyigcina "emzimbeni omnyama", ngokusemandleni onke ukulawula ubunzima bakhe, kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa ehlamba, uyayeka ukumthanda. Isizathu sengoko kukuzaliseka komfazi? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba njani! Isizathu esona sihluke ngokupheleleyo. Lo mntu akazange amthande lo mfazi, wayedinga umfanekiso omhle naye. Ewe, mhlawumbi inkulu, inhle kwiifoto kwaye ngaphambi kokuba amaqabane ebhishini anento eqhayisa ngayo, kodwa le nto igobolondo yangaphandle. Ubudlelwane babo babungekho nabandayo. Aba bantu babengenanto abayenzayo ukususela ekuqaleni. Wayefuna kuye kuphela umfanekiso. Yaye ubunzima abubalulekanga. Kwaye kufanelekile ukuthatha imeko enjalo njengomzekelo ukuba ukuzaliseka komfazi kuye kwathintela indoda? Ndicinga ukuba impendulo iyabonakala.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukho inkalo yengqondo. Kulula ukuba ibhinqa lizithembele ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwayo, kungekhona, kodwa into engabonakaliyo. Kulula kakhulu ukufumana isizathu sokusilela kwakho konke ukutshatyalaliswa kwakho kwaye ususe konke ukusola kuwe. Hlaziya, cwaka uze ungenzi nto. Ukulwa nokulingana, kungekhona ingxaki yangempela. Ewe, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukulahlekelwa isisindo, umfazi uhlalisana ubudlelwane namadoda. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, kwakhona, kungekhona ngenxa yesisindo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ithola ukuzithemba, ukuba uyayithanda. Ukususela kumfazi onjalo kunamandla amnandi, uyazi ukuba ufanelekile, uyazithanda yena kunye nomzimba wakhe, uyazi ukuba unomdla kumntu akhethiweyo. Liye litshintshile ngokwalo, kwaye isizathu sichanekileyo ngoku, kwaye kungekhona ekuzaleni kwayo.
Ukongezelela, akubona bonke abantu abanomdla obumnandi. Yonke into incike kwizinto ezithandayo. Khumbula imidwebo yeKustodiev kunye nobuhle bakhe? Kodwa babemangaliswa kwaye banomdla. Okanye u-Marilyn Monroe, ude ukusuka kumgangatho we-90-60-90. Kwaye kukho imimandla enjalo. Okwangoku, kukho ukutyekela ukutshatyalaliswa kwezi ngongoma. Amanani amaninzi kunye nobungqina bobukhulu basasazwa. Njengomzekelo ocacileyo waloo - ngoku kutshanje, ukhuphiswano "Miss Angleterland" lugqweswa yintombazana epheleleyo, ubukhulu bayo buhambelana nama-48 ngokwemiqathango yeRashiya. Ingcamango yokuba ukuzaliseka komfazi kungaphazamisa indoda isingqinisiso esingafihliyo, esingaxhaswanga. Akunalo ilungelo lokuphila kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Kwaye akukho mfazi oyinyaniso oza kubuza lo mbuzo.