Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye ndimomotheka ndikhumbula ukukhulelwa kwam, ngokukodwa ukuphela kwayo. Kwakuyixesha elimnandi, elipheleleyo lokulindela kunye nokuxhalabisa okuhlobene nokuzalwa kwentombi yethu.
Ewe, amaninzi amava ahlobene ngqo nokuzalwa kwaye ahlale esibhedlele.
Ndandifuna ukwazi yonke into ukuze ndilungele ngokupheleleyo ngexesha lokunikezelwa. Kodwa ukukhulelwa kwandenza ndingekhoyo kakhulu kwaye ndilibala. Njalo naxa ndiza esibhedlele kumgqirha, endithe ndavuma ukuba uya kuzala kum, ndikhohliwe into endifuna ukuyicela.
Kwaye ndaza ndiphumayo. Wabhala nje uluhlu, apho wayibhala khona yonke imibuzo yakhe. Kwintlanganiso elandelayo kunye nogqirha, ndiyifunde olu luhlu, kwaye ugqirha, kungekhona kumangaliswa, ngokunyamezela waphendula yonke imibuzo.
Uluhlu lwemibuzo yinto enje:
1. Ziziphi iimvavanyo ekufuneka zibekwe kwikhadi lokutshintshana kwaye zeziphi iingxelo ezifunekayo kubhalwe ukuba zivumeleke ukuba zibele esibhedlele sokubeletha?
2. Kangakanani ngaphambi kokuzalwa kufuneka ndilisayine ikhadi lokutshintshiselana?
3. Isibhedlele sokubeletha sisebenza ngokubeletha? Ukuba kunjalo, yintoni eyenzekayo ukuvumela umyeni wakhe ukuba abe nokubeletha?
4. Yintoni efunekayo ukuthenga ukubeletha (isetetric set, ukusekwa kwabantwana okanye ukuthenga yonke into oyifunayo kuloluhlu?).
5. Kuthiwani ngezinto (ilinen yokulala, iingubo kunye nezinye izinto) kuya kufuneka ukuba ubelethe wena, umyeni wakho nomntwana wakho?
6. Yintoni iqondo lokushisa lomoya esibhedlele? Kubalulekile ukwazi, ukuze ngandlela-thile ubale oko uza kubeka kumntwana kwaye ugqoke wena. Ndiyichitha le mbuzo, ndibala ukuba uyisicwenge, kwaye ngenxa yoko ndithatha ingubo epholileyo, ukuba kunjalo. Ukuba ukufudumala kwimoya ewadi kwakuba +28! Ngenxa yoko, ndambatha i-T-shirt yam - isambatho sam asiyisebenzisekanga.
7. Yintoni yokugqoka ukubeleka kunye nokokugqoka kumyeni wakho?
8. Ukuba kukho ikhefu, ngaba baya kugutywa phantsi kwe-anesthesia okanye akunjalo? Ukuba kunjalo, phantsi kweyiphi i-anesthesia?
9. Ziza kunikwa nini kwaye izitofu kumntwana?
10. Ingaba ikhaya lokubeletha linokuhlala ewadi kwi-ward yomama nomntwana? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba indoda yam ineye ewadi?
11. Ingaba umntwana uya kufakwa kwisantya kwidilesi yokuhambisa emva kokuzalwa?
12. Yintoni enokuyithintela ukuphuka engayinayo ngaphambi kokuba inikezelwe?
13. Xa iimpiko ziqala, yiyiphi intluphe phakathi kwabo kufuneka ibe sisiseko sobizo kugqirha?
14. Kuze kube yiphi iveki yokukhulelwa ngaba ugqirha awunamsebenzi wokukhuthaza abasebenzi?
15. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutya nokusela ngexesha lokulwa ekhaya nasegumbini lokuhambisa, nangemva kokuzalwa komntwana? Ukuba kunjalo, yintoni na?
16. Ziziphi iiyure ezivunyelwe ukutyelela izalamane? Ngaba bawavumela kwiwadi?
17. Ukuba ukuzalwa kuqala ebusuku okanye kungekhona kwindawo yogqirha, ngaba ugqirha uya kuza?
18. Yintoni exhotywe ngewadi yokubeleka kunye newadi yokubeletha? Ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuhamba, ukuma, ukuhlala kwiimfazwe kunye nokuzama. uziva nabo ngendlela oziva ukhululekile?
19. Ingaba kukho imeko enjalo, ngenxa yokuba ugqirha akayi kuza kuzala? Nguwuphi umyalelo wezenzo oza kubakho kule meko, kwaye luhlobo luni logqirha olungayifaka endaweni yalo? (Kucetyiswa ukuba uqhelane nalo gqirha kwangaphambili).
20. Ngaba kufuneka ndivumelane kwangaphambili kwiCandelo okanye ngaba ndingavumelana nendawo?
21. Ziziphi iimeko apho ukuvuselelwa komsebenzi wabasebenzi kwenzeka ngexesha lokuzalwa?
22. Ziziphi iimeko apho iimbumba zihlaba?
23. Ngaba i-anesthesia ye-epidural okanye enye?
24. Ngomphi umva emva kokuzalwa ekuqhutyweni kokukhutshwa kwaye kudlula njani?
Kakade, kunokwenzeka ukuba awukhumbuli ezinye zezinto eziza kuzalwa, kodwa unokuzola "ugcine yonke into elawulwayo." Into ebaluleke kakhulu isimo sengqondo kunye nokuzithemba ukuba yonke into iya kulungiswa! Ndikunqwenela ukunikezelwa okulula kunye neentsana ezinempilo!