Xa intombazana ifumana amabakala amabi, kuphakama imibuzo eninzi, engenakukwazi ukusombulula. Okokuqala, abazali baqala ukumgxeka baze bamenzele umsebenzi ngokucophelela, kwaye bamane bamkhanye nje. Indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo ukuba abantwana abaselula bafumana ama-triplets and deuces? Inkwenkwezi yengqondo eyenza intsingiselo yokuziphatha inceda ukuphendula umbuzo.
Umntwana unomdla ngenxa yobudlelwane beentsapho
Okokuqala, abazali kufuneka bacinge ngobuhlobo babo. Izibalo zithi isizathu sokuqala sokubaluleka komntu osemtsha sibudlelwane obunzima phakathi kwabazali. Ngamanye amaxesha lo mzuzu ushiywe ngaphandle kokuqwalasela, kuba intsapho ibonakala iyabonakala. Nangona kunjalo, kwaneenkcaso ezincinci okanye ukuxabana kubangelwa amava angamavakalelo entlungu.
Ukuba umntwana osemtsha uhlala ephindwe kathathu kunye neelucu, ngokuqinisekileyo uyabuhlungu buhlungu. Zonke iintsapho kufuneka zenze umoya ococekileyo kubantwana babo. Ejongene nobunzima obunzima, abatsha bayeke ukucinga ngokufunda okanye ukuthetha nabanye behlabathi, banokukhathalela kuphela ubuhlobo babo babazali. Lo ngumzekelo olula, ubonisa indlela abantwana abavakalelwa ngayo ukuxabana kwabazali, ukuze bangeniswe nangayiphi indlela.
Isimo sengqondo somntwana oselula kunye nabahlobo
Xa ulutsha, ubudlelwane nabanye buyingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi. Ucinga ngamagama abanye oontanga, ootitshala kunye nabadlulileyo. Ngaloo nto uhlangabezana nobunzima obuninzi kwaye ufumana i-triples kunye nama-deuces. Oku akusiyo ingqondo engekho, kodwa kunoko umzekelo omhle wendlela yokujonga ngayo ihlabathi jikelele.
Ukuba umntwana usemagqabini amabi, mhlawumbi akazami okanye ufuna ukubonakalisa kwihlabathi lonke ukuba akadingi ngaphezulu. Kule minyaka, abantwana abakucingi ngekamva, kuzo ezo zithathu zihlala zilula, kwaye isatifikethi nemfundo ephakamileyo ayinomdla.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zesi simo, nangona iimpawu zokuqala zeephoso zibonakaliswa kootitshala nakwaontanga. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abatsha bangena kwinkampani, apho bazama ukubonisa ubungqina babo be-Solvency ngenye indlela. Akangeneli kunye nenkqubela phambili, ngoko iqhubela yonke into kwisicwangciso sesibini.
Xa ootitshala bebangela imbambano kunye nehlabathi, imeko iya kuba nzima. Ngeli xesha, kwizikolo eziqhelekileyo kuphela ootitshala abambalwa abalungele "ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo emsebenzini wabo." Ngaphambili, abantwana abaselula baziva bebathandana, kodwa ngoku konke oku kuphelile. Abantu abadala abakucacanga ulutsha lwabo kwaye bayayichasa uluvo lwabo, ngenxa yoko, ukuqala ukulwa, ukuthululela kumabakala amabi kwaye ngokungafuni ukufundisisa.
Imeko xa abatsha beqala ukufumana kathathu kubalulekile. Akunakwenzeka ukuwuphepha. Eli thuba ebomini liza kufika kungekudala okanye kamva, nangona abazali banokuziva ngexesha lokukhula kobudlelwane bobudlelwane, ukwenzela ukuphazamisa nokulungelelanisa imeko. Akunzima ukwenza oku, kufuneka nje uphulaphule abantwana bakho. Kungcono ukukulindela zonke iimpazamo ezinokwenzeka ngaphambili. Kule meko, imiphumo iya kuba yinto encinci kwaye iya kudlula ngokukhululekileyo, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa inkqubo yokuthula yobutsha, kunye nabazali bakhe nabo bonke abantu abasondeleyo.