Ngomzuzu xa indoda ishiya intsapho, umfazi olahliwe uqala ukubheka nayiphi na indlela yokubuyisela umfazi wakhe othandekayo. Ngamanye amaxesha uninzi nabasetyhini banokwenza umlingo. Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni kunye neengcinga zenzondelelo ngakumbi kubafazi abalahliwe.
Indlela yokubuyisela umntu: iingcebiso zabaganga
Njengomthetho, ulwazi lweengceba lukude kuzo zonke. Emva koko, ngenxa yeziphumo zangoku, basadingeka bakwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo. Khumbula ukuba ukuze ubuyele umyeni ngoncedo lomlingo, kuyimfuneko ukulandela imithetho ethile. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, ezi zihlomelo kunye nemikhuba ayinakuchaphazela okanye iphendule nomyeni wakho. Kufuneka ufunde ukuba ukubuyisela umyeni ngoncedo lokwenza intlondi yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka uyithathe ngokungathí sina.
Ukubuyisela umntu ngeqhinga elingenakukwazi ukufumana amandla akhethekileyo ukuba awuzange wenze umlingo ngaphambili. Ukuze ukwazi amandla okwenza umcebisi wemilingo, kufuneka kuqala kuqala uqonde ukuba yintoni iqhinga lokoqobo kunye nokuba yintoni indlela yokwenziwa kwayo. Ngexesha lokubhengezwa kweengcinga ezijolise ekubuyiseleni umyeni, amagama ngokwawo kufuneka atyalole zonke iimvakalelo zabo, uthando, uthando. Ngamanye amazwi, konke okufunayo kule ndoda. Wonke amagama ahlazo kufuneka abe neembonakalo ezicacileyo. Ukubuyela ngokuncedisa iqhinga lomlingane, kuyafaneleka ukwenza umsebenzi onzima. Ukuba amandla akho ayabuthathaka, iqhinga alinakwanela ukudala uxhulumano lwamandla kunye nomyeni wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka udibanise umsebenzi womlingo ngokutshintsha indlela oziphathe ngayo malunga nale ndoda. Amaqabane akho kulo mbandela uxolo, uthando. Ukuba uqhubeka uqinisa kunye nomyeni wakho - akukho ziqhelo ziya kukunceda.
Iintlobo zeengcambu ezinokubuyisela umyeni wakho
Ezi ziqendu mazifundwe kwinyanga ekhulayo kwaye ngokukhethekileyo ngoLwesihlanu. Ngoxa uncedo lweengceba, unokubuyisela intsapho.
Kwisithombe
Sithatha isithombe somyeni kwaye siqala ukusilahla (entliziyweni, entloko, nakwezitho zangasese) i-wax yekhandlela elibomvu ngelixa ivakalisa amagama afana nalo mbandela woqhinga. Esi siqendu sifundwa nsuku zonke ngeveki. Emva koko kufuneka ubeke lesi sithombe kwindawo apho umntu ebonakala khona.
Ukutya (isiselo)
Iqhinga lifundwa yonke isidlo esishushu okanye isiselo: "Amandla omthando amnandi, ukukhala kwekhwele kuyrakrakra, ngene entliziyweni (igama), makangicandise, musa ukuyeka uthando, ukulangazelela kunye nomona, kwaye ukukhanya okumhlophe akumboni ngaphandle kwam. Nsuku zonke kunye neyure, uthando (igama lomlingane) litshisa kum, kwaye ukulangazelela kukuqina. Amagama am aqinile kwaye adala ukutshutshisa. Ukuba lilizwi lam! ». Esi siphumo esihle sasiya kufunda le ngqumbo yewayini elibomvu kumyeni wayo.
Kwiingubo
Ngexesha lokuthunga iingubo zomlingane (ngokukhethekileyo ngaphantsi kweengubo), okwenza uboyike ngalunye inaliti, kufuneka uthi: "Ndiyodonsa-ke, wena (igama lomlingane) udibanise kuwe (igama lomlingane). Ubomi bakho nothando ludibanisa, uthando, umona, inzondo, kuwe (igama) ndibomvu. Blaze, intliziyo yakho (igama lomlingane) ngelangatye luthando kum (igama lomlingane), kangangokuba unalo uxolo ngaphandle kwam, imini okanye ubusuku. I-key-thread, lock lock-lock. Musa ukuphazamisa izibhambathiso zam. Amen! "
Kwindandatho, isongo okanye ipini
"Ndikuvala (igama lomlingane), ndibiza entliziyweni yakho, uthando luvale kum, ubomi bakho kunye nam. Ukuba kuwe, (igama lomlingane), kunye nam, intsapho eyodwa eqinileyo. Andiyiphulaphula amazwi am kubo nabani na, nobuqili, nobuqambi, nobabingeleli, nobabingeleli, noThixo, nomtyholi. Amen! ".
Ithawula
Sithatha ithawula engasetshenziswanga kwaye sikwenze ukuze iqabane lakho liwususe, emva koko siyifihle kwaye ngaloo mzuzu sithi: "Intanda yam ihlambulule izandla, yashiya umzila kwilinen. Ndiza kutshintsha ithayile-ndiyifake intliziyo yam. Ithawula ithambile - umphefumlo wam othandana wam uyabuhlungu. Ithawula kufuneka yome - ndibelethe ngenxa yokububula. Ndiza kufakela itileni-ndiza kufaka yona. Ithawula ayiyi kukhishwa - uthando lwam luyakubonisa uthando lwam! ».
Kwiwayini, ubisi okanye ngamanzi angcwele
Ngaphezulu kweglasi yewayini, kufuneka ufunde isalathisi, uze unike le siselo kumntu.